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Title: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: walkingdead on February 15, 2015, 08:57:53 PM
Is it just me, or WHY THE FUDGE do you trust your child to someone capable of this?? There's no way this kind of behavior comes out of the blue. Obviously Lee has her head too far up her ass to see Meak's flaws and her child ended up paying the ultimate price for her stupidity. She should get charge with child endangerment as well. 

 


http://www.twincities.com/crime/ci_27532930/toddler-found-beaten-death-maplewood-was-happy-baby (http://www.twincities.com/crime/ci_27532930/toddler-found-beaten-death-maplewood-was-happy-baby)

Toddler found beaten to death in Maplewood

The toddler who was beaten to death in Maplewood last week had been "just a normal, happy baby," a family friend said Sunday.

"It's terrible; I'm just speechless," Amy Thao said. "She shouldn't have to go through what she did."

Genesis Xiong, who was 17 months old, was found dead Thursday, when Maplewood police responded about 11 a.m. to a report of a baby not breathing in the 2500 block of North Barclay Street.

The Ramsey County attorney's office charged Leb Mike Meak, the boyfriend of Genesis' mother, with second-degree murder on Friday.

Amy Thao, a friend of Genesis' mother, started a GoFundMe site to raise money for the girl's funeral. Thao lives in California and last saw the girl, whose nickname was Gena, during the summer.

Lia Lee, Genesis' mother, and Meak were together for about a year, though Lee's friends had known Meak for the last few years and didn't see signs of trouble, Thao said. Meak does not have a criminal record in Minnesota, other than a driving offense from 2003.

A relative of Meak's said Sunday that his family was also surprised that Meak had been charged with murder, describing the 35-year-old as "low-key and humble."

Meak's family is in sorrow over the loss of an innocent life, the relative said.

Maplewood Police Chief Paul Schnell said people want to believe in the best in others, but added, "I have to believe that along the way there were signs that there could be problems.

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"If there's a lesson for all of us, I think it's that any time there might be concerns about the welfare of a child, it's worthwhile that we report it," Schnell said Sunday. "It's confidential. Sometimes it might be nothing, but it might be an opportunity to provide intervention or services. In some cases, it might save a life."

Police called to the home on Thursday found Genesis unresponsive in a bedroom. During attempts to revive the girl, officers discovered black and purple bruises covering her chest and stomach, according to the criminal complaint.

Meak, who is not Genesis' father, told police that Lee lives in Farmington and "works a lot," so the little girl stayed with him and he took care of her, according to the complaint.

"He thought that the bruises on her torso happened when he kind of 'roughed her up (a) little bit' while changing her diaper or telling her to stay still while getting her bottle," the complaint said.

Preliminary autopsy findings showed multiple external and internal injuries to Genesis' head and abdominal region. Semen was found on Genesis' genital area, the complaint said. Police are continuing to investigate the possibility that the girl was sexually abused, Schnell said.

Lee has other children who were staying with her, Schnell said.

Meak has two children of his own, ages 8 and 12, who lived at the Maplewood home, though they weren't there when police were called on Thursday, Schnell said. The police chief said they were placed in protective custody.

Schnell said Sunday that it's premature to talk about whether Lee could face charges.

"I think at this point we still have a lot of questions. We have a lot more investigation to do," he said.

Lee couldn't be reached for comment Sunday.

Thao said her friend is mourning the loss of her little girl. When Thao talked to her on Friday, she said Lee had been crying and unable to eat or sleep.

Mara H. Gottfried can be reached at 651-228-5262. Follow her at twitter.com/MaraGottfried.

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The site that's raising money for Genesis Xiong's funeral is at http://www.gofundme.com/mdgcz8. (http://www.gofundme.com/mdgcz8.)
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Gen. Invincible on February 15, 2015, 10:26:25 PM
All I want to say is Karen folks are kinda of krazy... :idiot2:
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: thehotone on February 16, 2015, 09:09:42 AM
Why would you leave your children to your live-in boyfriend if you work all the time?

Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Sydney on February 16, 2015, 10:03:38 AM
Why would you leave your children to your live-in boyfriend if you work all the time?

I know right?  A live-in boyfriend is just a stranger to the child, why would she live her newborn with him? 
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Gen. Invincible on February 16, 2015, 10:33:12 AM
This is the typical case of Hmong women thinking that other non-hmong men are better. I will be honest they are not..this stuff in our community is rare because we have clans and culture that addresses these issues. If this guy was Hmong..I can guarantee you that he would not see the next day once the ex-husbands family finds out.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: theking on February 16, 2015, 11:04:16 AM
The problem is not the relation (boyfriend, husband, child's father, etc.) nor race (Asian, White, Blacks, etc.) but an a child being left with a craze idiot as there has been cases of crazy Hmong mothers and fathers killing their own kids as well...i.e., the Hmong mother that microwaved her own infant...
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Envy2 on February 16, 2015, 11:34:13 AM
He needs a beating of his own that little bastard!!!
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Reporter on February 16, 2015, 11:42:20 AM
Where is Genesis Xiong's father, too, in all of this?
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Reporter on February 16, 2015, 01:32:46 PM
I'm sure she would not have allowed that if she had known. But the thing is that she trusted the bf so much that she was willing to let him babysit her infant for weeks.

If the semen is tested to be the bf's, then indeed the bf has sexually assaulted the little girl. I still give it the benefit of the doubt though. Doesn't he have a 12-year-old boy in the house, too?

It disgusted me so much when I read that he even sexually assaulted her! From reading it appears that the boyfriend has been abusing this poor baby for a while. How come the mother doesnt know about it? And if she did, what kind of mother would allow such thing to happened to her child?
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Solemn Wind on February 16, 2015, 02:50:36 PM
All I want to say is Karen folks are kinda of krazy... :idiot2:

So a name like Leb Mike Meak is Karen? It sounds kind of like a darkie to me.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Sydney on February 16, 2015, 03:05:24 PM
This case is beyond disturbing.  I wish somebody would beat the crap out of the bf and the mother. 
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: greenpaix on February 16, 2015, 03:34:36 PM
What an irresponsible SOB mother! Only tears she's probably shedding are the tears she has for her pedophile bf. As for the GoFundMe cr@p, I wouldn't be surprised if they use the money towards their own benefit instead of the little girl's funeral.

If Genesis was my child, there's no place on earth this underevolved amoeba can hide from me. I'd murder all his family members just to psychologicall y get at him. Yes, I'm psycho like that! I'll even eat every one of his family members, just so I can up one him.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: ZXXZ on February 16, 2015, 03:36:59 PM
zoo nyob tshaj plaws li lawm lau!! 
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: greenpaix on February 16, 2015, 03:51:55 PM
wherever Genesis is, I hope she knows a lot of people are thinking about her.  :'(
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: greenpaix on February 16, 2015, 04:11:54 PM
She-Hulk at full rage!   O0   :D ;D

Are you trying to be cute?

(http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-0TuH5UQPAtw/TVYAeTNOA6I/AAAAAAAAAAQ/_feMe6tgJpw/s1600/lecter.jpg)
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Reporter on February 16, 2015, 04:32:47 PM
You are fierce!

What an irresponsible SOB mother! Only tears she's probably shedding are the tears she has for her pedophile bf. As for the GoFundMe cr@p, I wouldn't be surprised if they use the money towards their own benefit instead of the little girl's funeral.

If Genesis was my child, there's no place on earth this underevolved amoeba can hide from me. I'd murder all his family members just to psychologicall y get at him. Yes, I'm psycho like that! I'll even eat every one of his family members, just so I can up one him.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: MSV on February 16, 2015, 11:26:01 PM
The little details that have been emerging in this case makes me so sad and angry. Semen on the child's genitial area? Are you f'en serious? I hope whomever did this to the poor child will be punished a thousand times his lifetime. And the parents to this child? *sighs* I know a lot of people have been blaming the mother but what about the father? He is also at as much fault as the mother. Ua neej tsis paub sib hlub es menyuam mag pov chaws rau chaws ces ntsib teeb meem li no mas. My heart breaks for the little baby. She was so young and innocent. :(
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Xeemxai on February 17, 2015, 09:29:08 AM
Tus siab kawg thiab hlub tus menyuam meme heev hoj kwv tij hmoob.

Hmoob muaj ib sob lus hais tias "tsi yog luag roj luag nrhav, luag yeej tsi hlub" yog lis hmoob tej me poj niam thiab txiv e nej yuav tau siab ntev e sib hlub pub rau tej menyuam.  Txawm yog ib leeg hais ib los lus tsi haum siab rau ib leeg lawm lo zam txim rau thiab e tuav lub neej zoo. 
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: greenpaix on February 17, 2015, 12:36:54 PM
Here's the interview of the mother speaking out.

http://minnesota.cbslocal.com/2015/02/16/woman-talks-of-man-accused-of-murder-in-her-babys-death/ (http://minnesota.cbslocal.com/2015/02/16/woman-talks-of-man-accused-of-murder-in-her-babys-death/)

I knew it. The b1tch is still missing her underdeveloped of an amoeba boyfriend.  Look at the way she described him or how she talks about him. She doesn't seem to have any hatred towards him for what he did to her daughter.

Word of advice, Lia Lee: Stop phawking having kids! You're an unfit mother! You have no nurturing capabilities nor the brain cells to comprehend what it means to be a mother! As for your charity - it can go phawk itself! Take care of your retarded self first before thinking of taking care of others!
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: cwjmemdub on February 17, 2015, 12:48:46 PM
Puas yog nws twb deev thaub ntawd los ntev lawm es nws thiab nws tus ex thiaj li sibnrauj ne?  hehehe....So many questions comes to my mind.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: thePoster on February 17, 2015, 02:15:33 PM
Sad storie...

You people in MN are not right...
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: thePoster on February 17, 2015, 02:19:25 PM
OH wow... watching the interview...

I'm sure she saw the previous injuries...

But she's probably thinking she needs to keep him around so he can help babysit and pay for some bills...


That's a hard life to live...  when you have to weigh options like that.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: cwjmemdub on February 17, 2015, 03:07:26 PM
Well, according to her.. He and she have been friend for 5 years prior to having a relationship. She must be recently divorced if her baby is only 18 months old.
She's known him for a long time that's why I'm kinda suspicious.  They might have been friend with benefit before she got divorced.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Gen. Invincible on February 17, 2015, 03:07:36 PM
Well, according to her.. He and she have been friend for 5 years prior to having a relationship. She must be recently divorced if her baby is only 18 months old.

Timetable and all...do you know something we don't.. :police: :police:
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Gen. Invincible on February 17, 2015, 04:57:39 PM
This is my read....Hmong women you need to work it out with your ex-spouse about babysitting... so this shit don't happen..
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Sydney on February 17, 2015, 05:52:32 PM
Why isn't the father stepping up?

It can't be this easy to let the mother off the hook, right?  I don't buy her story about the flu thing.  Even if she is working 10 to 9, trusted her bf for the past 5 years, she can't possibly be the dumbest Hmong person on Earth to leave her vulnerable female baby at the hands of a guy who has no tied relation to her child.  I say, lock her up too.  Her other kids are better with the father.  And, the father better man up or his identity will be exposed too. 
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: GhostRider on February 17, 2015, 06:15:05 PM
“Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.  I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”

“But if anyone sin these little children, it would be better for him to
have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea”

Of the 5 babies of hers, how many daddy's are there?
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: theking on February 17, 2015, 07:37:54 PM
This is my read....Hmong women you need to work it out with your ex-spouse about babysitting... so this shit don't happen..

Unfortunately it will still happen as there have also been cases of biological parents killing their own children and vice-versa...

The key is people that are not ready to have kids shouldn't have any to begin with...at the end, the kids suffered...
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Reporter on February 17, 2015, 07:38:53 PM
Her Xiong guy should have more to say about this.

She's known him for a long time that's why I'm kinda suspicious.  They might have been friend with benefit before she got divorced.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: cwjmemdub on February 17, 2015, 10:43:28 PM
Um.. all you have to do is read the story. LOL :idiot2: :P

Hmmm.. maybe, I don't know but it could be a possibility. Do you have such a friend?
I used to have a female best friend in high school.  She lived with her older sister and brother in law and they made hers and her younger sister's lives living hell.  She wanted me to marry her but I wasn't ready yet.  So, she married a guy who owns an auto repair shop.  After she married him she still came around to pick me up for school every day until I told her not to do it any more afraid she'd be in trouble with her hubby.  Sorry, this is out of topic.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Reporter on February 18, 2015, 12:05:11 PM
That's not surprising at all, since that girl seemed to have wanted to get married just to get out of the family relationship, not for love to the mechanic. I think you were whom she wanted though. lol

I used to have a female best friend in high school.  She lived with her older sister and brother in law and they made hers and her younger sister's lives living hell.  She wanted me to marry her but I wasn't ready yet.  So, she married a guy who owns an auto repair shop.  After she married him she still came around to pick me up for school every day until I told her not to do it any more afraid she'd be in trouble with her hubby.  Sorry, this is out of topic.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: BaDBoYz on February 18, 2015, 12:20:27 PM
The real go fund me I would donate to is to have the mother prosecuted along with the boyfriend. First $1000 is on me.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: lost_forever on February 19, 2015, 12:33:54 PM
I don't buy the mom's story at all ! How can she not notice all those prior bruises ? She claims to work 70 hours a week doing waitress...and leave her baby with her boyfriend. It's just her excuse to not owning up to her responsibiliti es. She even comments on Facebook, posting her side of the story.  For someone who did not have time at all, and be posting on FB, it is just disturbing. She has other grown up kids, and families. I do not buy her side at all. As a mother myself, I would be so angry at that monster who treated my baby like that, and I would make sure justice is served.   
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: minorcharacter on February 19, 2015, 01:37:04 PM
Did anyone else follow up on the stories?  The mother, Lia Lee, seems like that type that isn't well off.  Improper English, many other kids, unknowing of where to turn to for single parent help.  In my opinion, she could have been better taught that there are better options out there for single working parents than leaving your kids with someone you've only known for a year.  To me, it seems like she's the type of girl that ran off and got married at a young age so she has trouble coming back home or relying on her own family for things.  I don't know, that's just my guess.  I can only say that I'm sorry things had turned out this way.  I too have made many misjudgments in other people's character, but never to this extreme.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: nightrider on February 19, 2015, 09:20:29 PM
Another case of miss independent, where I don't give a fuk if I'm screwed, it's my life not your's kind of deal. Hmong girls these days... The only person responsible here is her; can't stop that "7 yr itch" that she had to get this psycho involved. She should be charged with child endangerment.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: lost_forever on February 20, 2015, 06:38:06 AM
I have been reading her FB comments and she does not seem sad at all ! It's really sad how she uses GOD to defend herself..make it seem like she has no control over the situation.  Her family must have disown her...seems like she is not a good person.  How can one act so calm...I cannot act calm when something like this happens. 
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Gen. Invincible on February 20, 2015, 07:53:08 AM
I have been reading her FB comments and she does not seem sad at all ! It's really sad how she uses GOD to defend herself..make it seem like she has no control over the situation.  Her family must have disown her...seems like she is not a good person.  How can one act so calm...I cannot act calm when something like this happens.

Look the dude had to have been a crazy guy..we all grew up..knowing who was hardcore or crazy..we avoided them like the plague particularly such cases like this. This is a simple case of gangsterism. That should be the new term for it. You involve yourself with psycho crazy people then you better be ready to be labeled like them.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: ice on February 20, 2015, 08:32:37 AM
This is such a sad story.  The mother is pointing fingers at the father and the father is pointing fingers at the mother.  Looks like they are BOTH to blame for not protecting this child.  This sweet innocent child.  Common sense.  If you are a struggling single mother, here’s something to think about….STOP popping out more babies!!!  Protect yourself!   Put a plug in it or something.  5 kids with 3 different men?  Really?!!! 
Also, if this was my child…..I’d RIP the guy’s heart out with my bare hands. 
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: theking on February 20, 2015, 09:34:38 AM
Common sense.  If you are a struggling single mother, here’s something to think about….STOP popping out more babies!!!  Protect yourself!   Put a plug in it or something. 

Yes great answer, I have stressed this point on PH for years  O0.  Some people are not meant to have kids and having kids is not a requirement in life...People that lack "Common sense" just have kids without thinking about the long term effect..and the kids suffered for their poor judgments. :idiot2:
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: D-A-V-E on February 20, 2015, 02:21:42 PM
This story pisses me off. It angered me so much when I saw it on Facebook.

I have a 5 year old daughter with my ex wife. And I dread seeing articles like this because I get paranoid of my daughter being in a similar situation.

Don't know what life would mean for me if it happened to my daughter. Probably would end up killing the guy like this father did:

http://youtu.be/_PUE8fYxjq8 (http://youtu.be/_PUE8fYxjq8)

Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: FXMiltownGuy on February 20, 2015, 08:09:10 PM
I agree with u dave.  no one touches family!!!  these rapists/killers will rot in hell...
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Believe_N_Me on February 21, 2015, 12:05:30 AM
Why isn't the father stepping up?

It can't be this easy to let the mother off the hook, right?  I don't buy her story about the flu thing.  Even if she is working 10 to 9, trusted her bf for the past 5 years, she can't possibly be the dumbest Hmong person on Earth to leave her vulnerable female baby at the hands of a guy who has no tied relation to her child.  I say, lock her up too.  Her other kids are better with the father.  And, the father better man up or his identity will be exposed too.

Another case of people thinking it's better NOT to stay for the kids.

Those same people live in a dream world where they think BOTH parents will still be there for the kids after the divorce.  ::)

If they couldn't be good parents when together, what makes anybody think they can work together to be there for their children when apart?

Dream on, folks. This story is how most divorces with children end.

Most divorcees become desperate and vulnerable.  They get into dangerous relationships where their children are put into harm's way. Fathers typically become more and more absent especially once they have a girlfriend and the ex-wife has a boyfriend. Fathers typically show up when it's convenient for them - and those are the ones considered decent dads.  ::) Most want to avoid unnecessary drama with the ex-wife so they stay far away.

Stories that turn out well are far and few.

Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Sydney on February 21, 2015, 10:48:18 AM
All the single, married, divorced dads or average Joes responding to this thread illustrate the cognizance to want to protect their own kids, if this should happen to them. 
 
This says much about good men regardless of their marital status.

Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Gen. Invincible on February 23, 2015, 05:03:11 PM
All the single, married, divorced dads or average Joes responding to this thread illustrate the cognizance to want to protect their own kids, if this should happen to them. 
 
This says much about good men regardless of their marital status.

I told my ex-wife the other day now that my daughter is turning into a woman..if her new Husband thinks that he is getting two for one..she better send my daughter home from France..Becaus e if that stuff does happen when me and my son get there..there is not a stone that she could hide under that won't get overturned...i f you know what I mean,, :police:
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Sydney on February 23, 2015, 05:35:38 PM
I told my ex-wife the other day now that my daughter is turning into a woman..if her new Husband thinks that he is getting two for one..she better send my daughter home from France..Becaus e if that stuff does happen when me and my son get there..there is not a stone that she could hide under that won't get overturned...i f you know what I mean,, :police:

Thanks for proving my point.  Good men, no matter what their marital statuses are, they are protectors of their kids, regardless if they are single, married, divorced, or re-married.  By the way, congrats on your 3rd marriage!!!

A bit off topic, but is it your daughter or ex who is married and living in France?  You don't have to answer if you don't want to...just curious since you brought it up. 

Again, many congrats to you and your lovely young bride:)

Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Gen. Invincible on February 23, 2015, 06:56:02 PM
My ex-wife with my daughter live in France.. 8) She left when she was 24..took her 10 years to get married..becau se she heard that I was getting married this year..women.. :idiot2:
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: thePoster on February 24, 2015, 07:35:47 PM
This story pisses me off. It angered me so much when I saw it on Facebook.

I have a 5 year old daughter with my ex wife. And I dread seeing articles like this because I get paranoid of my daughter being in a similar situation.

Don't know what life would mean for me if it happened to my daughter. Probably would end up killing the guy like this father did:

http://youtu.be/_PUE8fYxjq8 (http://youtu.be/_PUE8fYxjq8)

5 years probation, not bad.

Back when society had common sense in the court system.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: jon_jon on February 25, 2015, 02:05:25 PM
People are really ignorant about who they date when it comes to love and sex. It blinds their way of thinking.

Was watching Forensic files and a guy committed the same murder twice with two different women. The first wife apparently died from falling down the stairs. The guy gets remarried and his second wife supposedly dies the exact same way.  Geez, women need to learn how to walk down the stairs right? Anyhow, they caught him with murder because the body injuries didn't match his story. Then looked up his history and found out his first wife passed away from a similar event. Bammmm!

People should be careful of who they date. Sad when kids are involved.

I once had an argument a few years ago with an overly jealous dude who was dating a girl I liked. We both liked her, then I found out his history from an inside friend who knew him that he was a habitual sex offender. Its public info on registry but I wont slander his name. I never did tell her about her current bf's past because she was too blind-sided and I didn't want to be the person to break her heart.

One day I called her up and her jealous controling bf answered her phone, we got into an argument and that's when I threatened him that if he ever hurt her I'd come get him. I just never pursued her anymore because she was being naive and it was getting childish.

Should I have warned her?
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Reporter on February 25, 2015, 02:45:26 PM
Your story sounds like mine. I met a girl who was into me but had a jealous controlling bf on the side, too. But she said they were breaking up. So I let her call me. I even went out with her one time.  But then one time she called me and I picked up the phone and he was on the other side. So I didn't trust her anymore and let her go. But then again one time she called me and said they were fighting and that I should go pick her up from a gas station because she wasn't willing to go home with him.  I called the cops and gave her number to the cops. They called her and he let them go pick her up. I'm not sure if they arrested him, too, or not.

I'm not sure if you had to tell that girl about the offender. She seemed old enough. If she chose to go with him, some times we can't restrict her freedom and her will. Not telling her is not a crime.

People are really ignorant about who they date when it comes to love and sex. It blinds their way of thinking.

Was watching Forensic files and a guy committed the same murder twice with two different women. The first wife apparently died from falling down the stairs. The guy gets remarried and his second wife supposedly dies the exact same way.  Geez, women need to learn how to walk down the stairs right? Anyhow, they caught him with murder because the body injuries didn't match his story. Then looked up his history and found out his first wife passed away from a similar event. Bammmm!

People should be careful of who they date. Sad when kids are involved.

I once had an argument a few years ago with an overly jealous dude who was dating a girl I liked. We both liked her, then I found out his history from an inside friend who knew him that he was a habitual sex offender. Its public info on registry but I wont slander his name. I never did tell her about her current bf's past because she was too blind-sided and I didn't want to be the person to break her heart.

One day I called her up and her jealous controling bf answered her phone, we got into an argument and that's when I threatened him that if he ever hurt her I'd come get him. I just never pursued her anymore because she was being naive and it was getting childish.

Should I have warned her?
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Gen. Invincible on February 25, 2015, 04:09:15 PM
Stay outta my bizz...lol so it was you two guys.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: jon_jon on February 25, 2015, 07:58:54 PM
nah...just let her fall down the stairs!
Sometimes they fall down themselves. lols

Your story sounds like mine. I met a girl who was into me but had a jealous controlling bf on the side, too. But she said they were breaking up. So I let her call me. I even went out with her one time.  But then one time she called me and I picked up the phone and he was on the other side. So I didn't trust her anymore and let her go. But then again one time she called me and said they were fighting and that I should go pick her up from a gas station because she wasn't willing to go home with him.  I called the cops and gave her number to the cops. They called her and he let them go pick her up. I'm not sure if they arrested him, too, or not.

I'm not sure if you had to tell that girl about the offender. She seemed old enough. If she chose to go with him, some times we can't restrict her freedom and her will. Not telling her is not a crime.
They're of age but she was too naive to see his obsessive and controlling boyfriend. Not only that, I didn't believe that her bf was an offender until I looked him up on registry and bam! There he was, picture and everything. Maybe she does know and is one of those girls caught in the victim mentality?

When they don't recognize their abusers, you can't help but watch them fall down the stairs.  :-X
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Gen. Invincible on February 26, 2015, 12:56:32 PM
I should of done that too..when my first EX-wife tried jumping the cliff...why do women try to commit suicide when there men wanna go?
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Reporter on February 26, 2015, 03:48:59 PM
I don't know.

I should of done that too..when my first EX-wife tried jumping the cliff...why do women try to commit suicide when there men wanna go?
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: MenyuamHmoob on February 27, 2015, 08:06:37 AM
Execute the BF for doing such a horrific act to someone so innocent and young.  No need to waste our tax money on such worthless bastard.  AS for the mother, lock her up for being such a skank and not looking out for her own child's safety.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: cwjmemdub on February 27, 2015, 10:33:02 AM
That's not surprising at all, since that girl seemed to have wanted to get married just to get out of the family relationship, not for love to the mechanic. I think you were whom she wanted though. lol
True, Reporter.  I did feel really bad for not being able to help her out.  She held my arm every time we walked together.  When we sat she sat on my lap that was how close she was to me.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Siabdub on April 22, 2015, 08:42:33 AM
The mother of a toddler who died while in the care of her boyfriend in Maplewood in February has been charged for child endangerment.
Leb Meak, 35, was charged with second-degree murder in Ramsey County in February. The girl's mother, Lia Pearson, 37, was charged after prosecutor say she still left her daughter in the care of Meak after she saw injuries and others told her about the abuse.
Police responded to a call of a toddler who was not breathing just after 11 a.m. Thursday, Feb. 12. Meak led officers to a downstairs bedroom of his Maplewood home, where they found Genesis Xiong, not moving or breathing. Medics giving CPR found a large number of bruises on Genesis' chest, stomach and face.
During formal interviews, Meak said he was caring for 18-month-old Genesis, for 2 1/2 weeks since Pearson lived in Farmington and worked in Burnsville.
Meak says he “roughed her up a bit” while changing Genesis’ diaper, according to the criminal complaint. He also admitted to shaking Genesis a few times.
Preliminary autopsy reports show she died from multiple external injuries and internal injuries to the abdomen and head.
During an interview with Meak’s two sons, they told investigators they would hear hitting sounds coming from the bedroom where Genesis would be kept most of the time. They also said that they told Pearson their dad was hitting her daughter long before her death, the complaint states.
Pearson said she noticed some bruises and did not take Genesis to the doctor. She also admitted Meak's sons asked her to take Genesis home, but she said she rationalized the boys told her this because they did not want her daughter to live with them.
When asked if Pearson had made contact with Meak in jail, she said "no" and she did not want to have anything to do with Meak. However, a review of recorded phone conversations from the jail revealed they had a number of phone conversations.
On Feb. 24, Pearson told Meak she was angry but still loved him, and when he gets out they could visit her daughter’s grave, the complaint states.
During phone conversations in March and April, Pearson told Meak she loved him and she can’t change how she feels. They also talked about a ring
.
According to the complaint, Meak told Pearson that they will be together when he is 39 or 40 if she does her part.
Pearson was ordered to appear in court on May 15.

http://kstp.com/news/stories/S3773204.shtml?cat=1 (http://kstp.com/news/stories/S3773204.shtml?cat=1)

The underline statemanet makes me sick.  What a HOE!!!!
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: ok-fine-version2 on April 22, 2015, 08:46:15 AM
I read the article last night too. There are no words to describe this woman. When she went on air to defend herself, I wanted to kick her face through the tv. Nyob hnav av xwb os.
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Risingstars on April 22, 2015, 09:23:16 AM
"Zeb Yaj knife to the head of Pearson..." That mother is one monster that lurks in the bedroom... :knuppel2:
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Special_K on April 22, 2015, 12:00:10 PM
Poor baby! To have been born to this women and to be tortured on her way out. Breaks my heart. The both parties are monsters. Sick. They should not be able to live nor visit her grave when they get out.

Sickening.  :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: I_so_high on April 22, 2015, 01:33:15 PM
Any pic of the mother?
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Risingstars on April 22, 2015, 01:58:14 PM
Any pic of the mother?

Your welcome....


(https://cbsminnesota.files.wordpress.com/2015/04/lia-pearson.jpg?w=770)
http://minnesota.cbslocal.com/2015/04/21/mom-faces-child-endangerment-charges-following-baby-girls-killing/ (http://minnesota.cbslocal.com/2015/04/21/mom-faces-child-endangerment-charges-following-baby-girls-killing/)
Title: Re: Toddler beaten to death by mother's boyfriend
Post by: Lyn Song on April 26, 2015, 02:26:37 AM
Poor baby :'(, she never had a chance at life. It's not fair to the child. No one should ever do this to a baby.