PebHmong Discussion Forum
Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: thehotone on September 17, 2018, 01:29:32 PM
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I have noticed an influx of men who upon becoming.. Dr’s, Lawyer’s, Pharmacist’s, etc… divorce their wives who has been supporting them to obtain their career. All of a sudden these men feel like they are superior to the woman who made them who they are today. These wives are no less as intelligent as they are but just lack that Doctor, Lawyer, etc stamp because these wives have been supporting them all these years.
Alimony cannot be avoid but the wasted years and efforts. :'(
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same can say for women too. I've seen both.
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It's because they are now self reliant and don't need that nagging unintelligent wife in their life any longer. It's time for an upgrade. ;D It's sad but that's life. Everyone wants to continually upgrade.
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Maybe religion works.
Having morals, if force due to religious ties, if works then how can it be so bad?
Like I can't leave her cuz God will punish me for being an azzhole.
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same can say for women too. I've seen both.
Very true!
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I have noticed an influx of men who upon becoming.. Dr’s, Lawyer’s, Pharmacist’s, etc… divorce their wives who has been supporting them to obtain their career. All of a sudden these men feel like they are superior to the woman who made them who they are today. These wives are no less as intelligent as they are but just lack that Doctor, Lawyer, etc stamp because these wives have been supporting them all these years.
Alimony cannot be avoid but the wasted years and efforts. :'(
what better situation than to have a spouse who's able to obtain a higher education, get a good paying job, pays for your alimony (and/or child support) but you're not stuck sucking his D nor his school bills. I know of a few divorced ladies who's husband left them... they don't have to work; receives $8-10 thousand a month, housings paid and parties all the time. I would have hit the jackpot, but they have the options of choosing their own playboys! i'm just a side-D! ha!
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I have noticed an influx of men who upon becoming.. Dr’s, Lawyer’s, Pharmacist’s, etc… divorce their wives who has been supporting them to obtain their career. All of a sudden these men feel like they are superior to the woman who made them who they are today. These wives are no less as intelligent as they are but just lack that Doctor, Lawyer, etc stamp because these wives have been supporting them all these years.
Alimony cannot be avoid but the wasted years and efforts. :'(
But did you also notice the men who did NOT get their Dr's, Lawyer's, Pharm etc and still feel like they are superior to women?
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I helped a woman get her adult high school diploma. Then she felt she got all of what she wanted in life already and no longer needed me. She started cheating with other guys.
I have noticed an influx of men who upon becoming.. Dr’s, Lawyer’s, Pharmacist’s, etc… divorce their wives who has been supporting them to obtain their career. All of a sudden these men feel like they are superior to the woman who made them who they are today. These wives are no less as intelligent as they are but just lack that Doctor, Lawyer, etc stamp because these wives have been supporting them all these years.
Alimony cannot be avoid but the wasted years and efforts. :'(
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I helped a woman get her adult high school diploma. Then she felt she got all of what she wanted in life already and no longer needed me. She started cheating with other guys.
LOL. Sounds like your usefulness was over soon as she got that diploma. Should've taught her at a slower pace and milked it for a couple more years. ;D
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No. It would have cost me more. Not worth it.
LOL. Sounds like your usefulness was over soon as she got that diploma. Should've taught her at a slower pace and milked it for a couple more years. ;D
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same can say for women too. I've seen both.
I agree. I think Hmong women are worse. They go into the workforce and meet men who are at their level. They come back home and their spouse do not meet their intellectual needs.
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I need to meet women who aspire intelligence.
I agree. I think Hmong women are worse. They go into the workforce and meet men who are at their level. They come back home and their spouse do not meet their intellectual needs.
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Women do it too but not nearly as much as men bc women tend to think of their children.. the life they have built.. etc..
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There's many reasons for a breakdown of a marriage so can't say. But we can say an education is valuable in life, in a marriage etc...
It's admirable to help your spouse finish his/her degree but at the same time get yours too. An education change people, your thinking, how you see the world, life, and give you a tool to be self sufficient, empower yourself, etc...
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This thread lacks a lot of details.
First of all, what type of women are these educated men leaving their wives for? And which generation of educated men?
I've only noticed a rise in educated Generation X men abandoning their families for Hmong-Lao girls but not so much educated Generation Y and Millennials. It was Baby Boomers (not necessarily educated though) who really exploited the trend in marrying much younger oversea brides.