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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: My daily support...If you want to complain.
« on: October 07, 2023, 11:15:52 PM »
A male friend of mine from the early days of Hmong social media (before I was married) said that no man can just live by himself for that long unless he is gay. A man is going to have sexual urges and need companionship. Therefore, if he's not the social type who goes out to sleep with a lot of chicks, then he's the quiet type who strings along an on and off again girlfriend for years. This is how his urges are met.

Now that I am older, I do see the point that he was making. I noticed that a lot of single/divorced/widowed men in my age group or older fall into those two categories. Heck, we even have a grandmother in her late 80s who just moved in a boyfriend! He has no plans to marry her and I don't think she even cares because they're both too old now.

There are desperate older divorcees in their 50s and up who no longer feel hopeful about getting remarried. As long as there is a man in her house who can help with chores once in awhile then she's okay with it. But the women don't even expect them to be like a real couple either. They both do their own thing and come and go as they please in the house. The women do still feel very jealous if they know that he's seeing other women so things like that have to be done behind her back - even though she probably knows that it's inevitably going to happen since they're not married or in a monogamous relationship. They live together for the sake of not being alone and to have convenient sex. And if she's not giving it to him then he's just going to cheat. But she keeps taking him back and he keeps using her.


There you have it, folks. You don't need 8+ years of medical school to make 6 figures.

General Discussion / Re: The lunatic Left and Climate Activists...
« on: September 29, 2023, 03:42:40 PM »
There is one state not listed in your response where the retail stores don't supply plastic bags either. You have to bring your own bag(s). I noticed that a lot of shoppers just wheel their cart to the car and throw the stuff into the trunk.

He kind of looks like Cha Eun Woo. Really nice skin, though.  O0

General Relationship / You'll never find peace with this type of person...
« on: September 25, 2023, 02:56:38 PM »

Someone who is too attached to an on and off relationship. Sounds like she is mistaking obsession for love.

Honestly, if you didn't just get out of a marriage and had an expensive divorce, you have no excuses. You wasted all that time learning nothing and creating nothing, whether you were moving from one failing relationship to another or just stuck in a fruitless relationship.

3. Be certain that this situation works for you financially.
5. This is not the season to build a mate.
8. Learn from your past mistakes.
10. Pay attention to their relationship history.

A majority of older adults fail at the above.

The older you are, the shorter your dating span will be. Take what is there times by 5 because it will go by fast and wedding bell will be calling you so get ready for a fast ride.

Some older adults are in no position to be getting married/re-married. Too many failed relationships tapped them out, both emotionally and financially.

Someone already posted the list in Anonymous:

1. Don't let others dictate your dating life.
2. Don't waste time with clear red flags.
3. Be certain that this situation works for you financially.
4. Be sure you can accept the person for who they are. Be sure they can accept you for who you are.
5. This is not the season to build a mate.
6. Make sure this person interests you on deeper levels.
7. Never subsidize your self esteem by dating younger.
8. Learn from your past mistakes.
9. Dress your age.
10. Pay attention to their relationship history.

General Discussion / Re: Blood Tribe... a Neo-Nazi group marching in FL.
« on: September 05, 2023, 05:26:18 PM »
Antifa and BLM will not come out because they know that real Nazis are scary and dangerous AND WILL HIT BACK.

Awhile back I watched a video that addressed this. I don't remember the title. Anyways, Liberals like to fight fake enemies that they make up and know are safe for them to punch. They never fight their real enemy because such enemies are real killers.

I'm not going to get the vaccine. I didn't get it the last time either. Nothing has changed for me. My routine is pretty much the same.

That isn't unusual at all. I've had guys drive more hours than that and fly on planes, etc. to visit me. Also, back in the days before the regular citizen had a cell phone, out-of-state guys would call and talk for hours. Long distance phone calls were expensive, too.   

Debate Central / Re: I donít understand why HEALTHCARE is bad for you???
« on: September 03, 2023, 04:49:15 PM »

I know you can't respond because you're banned. But I'll let everybody know that you have an open marriage since you're very progressive. It's her body, her choice. In fact, isn't it also her money to be used as she pleases? The house is also hers so she should be able to invite anybody to come. This is the traditional marriage vow:

The vows: "I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith."

Where does it state that she has to only sleep with you and keep you as her only companion? She can still fulfill all her wifely house duties while having fun with others. She wouldn't be breaking any vows with you at all. If you're upset, this would be the "for worse" part that you agreed to. I'm going to strike out the "according to God's holy ordinance" because you don't believe in God. God's ordinance does command one man, one woman and that they only sleep with each other.

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