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Title: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 03, 2019, 01:37:30 PM
Had a family potluck thanksgiving
Every family was supposed to bring something
My wife make some fried noodles

Just as we suspected
This family members show up empty hand
Did bring all his kids (6 of them)

They say they don’t have money
And just show up to eat anyway

My wife and the other housewives are a little upset
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 03, 2019, 01:41:44 PM
This ain’t the first time “this family” does this
At wedding Party
They don’t give out any money

Even at funeral

“Oh they have life insurance” attitude
Yea, you still wanna give some funeral sunshine money
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Reporter on December 03, 2019, 01:46:57 PM
You spent a whole week at your MN cousin's house without paying anything, right? Now you know how upset they were.
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 03, 2019, 01:57:43 PM
You spent a whole week at your MN cousin's house without paying anything, right? Now you know how upset they were.

bro

I stay in cheap motel $30/night
or
i just come back home
it's only 3 hours drive

p=pebhmong  (your homeboy carry his own weight)
(https://i.imgur.com/9Y1tOpM.jpg)
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: DuMa on December 03, 2019, 01:59:23 PM
Big bank takes care of little bank.  When you give or feed the hunger, you don't ask for nothing in return.  Just thank them for trying out your food is enough. 

You got a lot to learn. 
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Reporter on December 03, 2019, 02:22:45 PM
It's a good etiquette to bring something when invited. But people shouldn't put down those who haven't brought anything to share.
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 03, 2019, 02:35:46 PM
It's a good etiquette to bring something when invited. But people shouldn't put down those who haven't brought anything to share.

this is a potluck
and everyone gotta make an effort to at least bring a dish

the fried noodle my wife make cost like $10

i'm not hosting
if it was me, hosting
i just kill a goat for us all to eat
no need to bring anything

lemongrass spell P=pebhmong
(https://i.imgur.com/0Gi67hL.jpg)
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Dok_Champa on December 03, 2019, 02:37:52 PM
I think there's one family like that in everyone's family/clan. 

I've been hosting our family/clan Thanksgiving for years now because no one wants to do it and I remember some years some families came w/out anything.  I was OK with it because I was young and don't mind working away in the kitchen.  Now that my stamina is not as vibrant as it was....I set a family meeting w/ all the ladies to decide on a menu - who is bringing what etc...and that seems to work pretty well. 
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on December 03, 2019, 02:40:12 PM
Had a family potluck thanksgiving
Every family was supposed to bring something
My wife make some fried noodles

Just as we suspected
This family members show up empty hand
Did bring all his kids (6 of them)

They say they don’t have money
And just show up to eat anyway

My wife and the other housewives are a little upset
"don't worry, there're plenty of foods to go around"
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: one-tai on December 03, 2019, 03:08:26 PM
this is a potluck
and everyone gotta make an effort to at least bring a dish

the fried noodle my wife make cost like $10

i'm not hosting
if it was me, hosting
i just kill a goat for us all to eat
no need to bring anything

lemongrass spell P=pebhmong
(https://i.imgur.com/0Gi67hL.jpg)

That dish looks delicious! O0
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: theking on December 03, 2019, 04:21:06 PM
They say they don’t have money
And just show up to eat anyway

My wife and the other housewives are a little upset

Not sure why you're "upset" when in actuality you're the "stingy" one since you could've just win the lotto and help them out as you're the "hmong Nostradamus and always right"...


the fried noodle my wife make cost like $10

Again, why worry about a "$10" share when you can just win the lotto since you're the "hmong Nostradamus and is always right"??  ???
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 03, 2019, 10:33:02 PM
Next time
I host

We just eat goat and drink beer

So no one get upset

Don’t need to bring anything
But your belly

RELAX THERE PLENTY OF FOOD
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: YAX on December 04, 2019, 03:10:08 PM
Had a family potluck thanksgiving
Every family was supposed to bring something
My wife make some fried noodles

Just as we suspected
This family members show up empty hand
Did bring all his kids (6 of them)

They say they don’t have money
And just show up to eat anyway

My wife and the other housewives are a little upset
Don't be upset bro, it's thanksgiving.  In fact, you all should cook a bunch of things and take it to their house and hand it to them and say it's for their kids.  The parents may not think much of it, but the kids will grow up remembering your kindness, forever.
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Yebleng on December 04, 2019, 06:07:38 PM
I think every family has a family member that is like this.  Once or twice it's okay but when it becomes every gathering, it becomes a problem. All the hard working wives has a right to be upset. I would be to.
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: ProudLao on December 04, 2019, 07:17:48 PM
It’s like work, not every employees will bring something but they are welcome to join in, plenty of foods.


Maybe they are on a budget.
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: DuMa on December 04, 2019, 07:21:34 PM
It’s like work, not every employees will bring something but they are welcome to join in, plenty of foods.


Maybe they are on a budget.


that's what I'm saying.  You have to give people the benefit of the doubt.  If people are rich and they are like this then maybe we need to talk but some household, we just do not know what kind of hardship that people are going through.  Maybe every year is a hardship for some. 

Besides, tis the seasons of giving so it's ok.  Just show up to eat my food cuz it is sad that some people have food but no one show up. 
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 05, 2019, 08:19:43 AM

that's what I'm saying.  You have to give people the benefit of the doubt.  If people are rich and they are like this then maybe we need to talk but some household, we just do not know what kind of hardship that people are going through.  Maybe every year is a hardship for some. 

Besides, tis the seasons of giving so it's ok.  Just show up to eat my food cuz it is sad that some people have food but no one show up.

Duma

We know you don’t get invited to party
Lol ouch

ITS CALL A POTLUCK

Its where people bring a dish
Just be like my coworkers
And bring cookies
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 05, 2019, 08:24:20 AM
I think every family has a family member that is like this.  Once or twice it's okay but when it becomes every gathering, it becomes a problem. All the hard working wives has a right to be upset. I would be to.

I know my wife(other wives house) was upset
Because i got an earfull on the way back home in the car

Don’t she know what a POTLUCK is”???


I just zip my mouth and remain quiet
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: DuMa on December 05, 2019, 08:27:54 AM
Duma

We know you don’t get invited to party
Lol ouch

ITS CALL A POTLUCK

Its where people bring a dish
Just be like my coworkers
And bring cookies

Your co workers got a job? 

ok, we know where you stand and it is written all over your face. 

Next time, when someone doesn't bring a dish to your potluck, gofund them $5  to help support. 

 :2funny:
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: DuMa on December 05, 2019, 08:29:51 AM
I know my wife(other wives house) was upset
Because i got an earfull on the way back home in the car

Don’t she know what a POTLUCK is”???


I just zip my mouth and remain quiet

You weak bra.  We all know you are scared chitless and your wife wears the peenus in your family. 

Next time, learn something from me and tell your wife to shut her trap.  The poor doesn't need to play on the same leveling field as the full.  Then again, your nursing wife makes more money than you so you better shut your trap.   :2funny:
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 05, 2019, 08:57:05 AM
Your co workers got a job? 

ok, we know where you stand and it is written all over your face. 

Next time, when someone doesn't bring a dish to your potluck, gofund them $5  to help support. 

 :2funny:

ROCK is a generiously guy
like i say
let me host and paid for everything
no need to bring anything but your stomach
so we don't have drama


O0
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 05, 2019, 08:59:41 AM
You weak bra.  We all know you are scared chitless and your wife wears the peenus in your family. 

Next time, learn something from me and tell your wife to shut her trap.  The poor doesn't need to play on the same leveling field as the full.  Then again, your nursing wife makes more money than you so you better shut your trap.   :2funny:

lol

i learn not to take side
just shut your mouth and be quiet (best advice i can give you)
trust me, you will learn when you get married or have a girlfriend

in the meantime, better LUBE UP THAT LEFT HAND and jerk away
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Yebleng on December 05, 2019, 05:51:54 PM
I know my wife(other wives house) was upset
Because i got an earfull on the way back home in the car

Don’t she know what a POTLUCK is”???


I just zip my mouth and remain quiet

Lol...I know what you mean brotha. I used to think like Duma, but after years of not contributing their part I just let my wife rant all she wants. It has gotten to the point where I don't even want to invite these people anymore...and its sad because I'm not that type of a person.
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on December 06, 2019, 07:58:41 AM
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Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: YAX on December 06, 2019, 10:14:52 AM
I think every family has a family member that is like this.  Once or twice it's okay but when it becomes every gathering, it becomes a problem. All the hard working wives has a right to be upset. I would be to.
and in the PH family, we have theKing.  ;D
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 06, 2019, 10:17:57 AM
and in the PH family, we have theKing.  ;D

we got some hella stingy people in here
they like to make fun of my $5 donation
but can't even lend a dollar to their mom
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: VillainousHero on December 06, 2019, 01:05:13 PM
I'm the guy, who usually has nothing to share or brings nothing.  That's why I keep telling people, that I do not want to leech off of anyone, when I have nothing or so little of nothing to even share or give.

I will bring the wine...but I need to go to the liquor store first.  And that's an almost never...
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: w1s3m0n on December 06, 2019, 03:17:08 PM
I'm so over STINGY and GREEDY people.  I'm to the point where I'm GLAD that they show up to spend TIME with everyone.  Money doesn't have a lot of value to me, but TIME, that's a commodity you cannot buy back even if you are Bill Gates.  Hopefully, this perspective helps to grow the goodness of your humanity.

Other things I seek are LISTENING (coachability), RESPECT, KINDNESS, and GRATITUDE.  As a true giver, the people I dislike the most are ingrates.  Even then I try to tell myself that I am undeserving of Christ and he grants me GRACE by MERCY and so I grant them mercy like Christ granted me mercy and granted me grace.  Truly this is the core message of the Holiday and the SPIRIT.

Had a family potluck thanksgiving
Every family was supposed to bring something
My wife make some fried noodles

Just as we suspected
This family members show up empty hand
Did bring all his kids (6 of them)

They say they don’t have money
And just show up to eat anyway

My wife and the other housewives are a little upset
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: VillainousHero on December 10, 2019, 04:12:14 AM
Just wait till you met the "Generous" person.  The're "generists" with anything.  :2funny:
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 27, 2021, 11:55:00 AM
Damnnnn

Got some stingy people these holidays

Hahahah

My wife was expecting some present
After having spent $300++ on gift
She did not get any

 ;D ;D
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on December 27, 2021, 12:09:43 PM
Damnnnn

Got some stingy people these holidays

Hahahah

My wife was expecting some present
After having spent $300++ on gift
She did not get any

 ;D ;D
you didn't get her any.  talking about stingy.
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Cali Guy on December 27, 2021, 12:35:44 PM
Damnnnn

Got some stingy people these holidays

Hahahah

My wife was expecting some present
After having spent $300++ on gift
She did not get any

 ;D ;D

It’s apparent that you and your wife don’t genuinely give from the heart. Give to expect something in return, grow up already!
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 27, 2021, 02:07:35 PM
I drop $20 to those salvation army bell ringer
ROCK is a generous type

Can’t carry that stuff with you to the afterlife

 ;D ;D
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 27, 2021, 02:14:18 PM
you didn't get her any.  talking about stingy.

I ask if yall want to do secret santa
And got trash and yell at
For suggesting such a thing

 ;D ;D
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Cali Guy on December 28, 2021, 10:43:27 AM
I drop $20 to those salvation army bell ringer
ROCK is a generous type

Can’t carry that stuff with you to the afterlife

 ;D ;D

Who you trying to impress? That’s how stingy people work; they give so little and announce it to the world of how giving they are. Of course you should be ashamed but doubt you can feel anything.
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: YAX on December 28, 2021, 05:57:16 PM
Had a family potluck thanksgiving
Every family was supposed to bring something
My wife make some fried noodles

Just as we suspected
This family members show up empty hand
Did bring all his kids (6 of them)

They say they don’t have money
And just show up to eat anyway

My wife and the other housewives are a little upset
its okay. It’s a time for giving. A time to be thankful. Help the less fortunate. Don’t be too Republican this time of year.
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Believe_N_Me on December 28, 2021, 07:02:27 PM
Had a family potluck thanksgiving
Every family was supposed to bring something
My wife make some fried noodles

Just as we suspected
This family members show up empty hand
Did bring all his kids (6 of them)

They say they don’t have money
And just show up to eat anyway

My wife and the other housewives are a little upset

As a Dummycrat, aren't you suppose to be a philanthropist? You don't seem to have problems giving blacks non-stop welfare. Plus, why are  you even having a potluck? You're suppose to be in lockdown because of COVID.

Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: hmgROCK on December 28, 2021, 10:21:34 PM
<<<<< this guy is a giving person

Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: VillainousHero on December 29, 2021, 11:52:56 AM
All I can say is it's better than dealing with generous hmong people.  I mean they so generous with other people's things that don't even belong to them.  :D
Title: Re: how do you deal with stingy hmong people???
Post by: Sith on December 29, 2021, 05:01:27 PM
Damnnnn

Got some stingy people these holidays

Hahahah

My wife was expecting some present
After having spent $300++ on gift
She did not get any

 ;D ;D

that's sad. if no one give, maybe YOU should've given her something that night!


 :2funny: :2funny: