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Messages - JonniJacko

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When you're 45+ years old, you want a spouse who fulfills you intellectually, spiritually, and physically. This is the person whom you're going to be hanging out with most of the time. At this age, people don't go out as much with friends and so who you pick for a spouse is important. You want someone compatible and who will give you peace.

I don't need to know everything about my spouse, but we can only get to that point when a lot of trust has already been established. If he gives me anxiety then it just isn't going to work out. I might love him but he's not good for my health.

40's and going forward, means knowing you're pretty much halfway there and no more time for fun n games. yeah, I feel you. Life...it really is quick. :-\

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This is what they probably mean by love comes in all shapes, forms and sizes...lol it works for some, it wont for others. But I think this is the way to go, it looks like a trend. the words marriage and committment is to deep to many of today's breed. Including to today's women. haha co-habs are good for folks who wants to love how they want to without a paper or some commandments telling them how to. lols

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they say couples eventually start to look alike...they both kind of look alike already. ;D

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco
« on: May 10, 2024, 11:51:05 PM »
Love is like a slot machine. Sometimes you choose a winning machine, sometimes you choose a losing machine. Some say it's timing, but it really comes down to being lucky. There's no timing if it's meant to be. If its meant to be, you will win almost immediately, but if you don't keep your winnings and walk away once you're ahead, you might just lose it all back, which is likely. If it's not meant to be, you will lose from the start and continue doing so until you run out of ammunition. The more you feed it, thinking a big win is due to hit, but it never come...Leaving you broken.

What all people should strive for is hoping they hit that dream jackpot within a few spins...keep it, run, and never play again. Why would they need to anymore. They are set for life. lol Or they can say, they don't want to take the chance with slot machines, they rather just go hiking or bird watching and if they stumble upon a hidden treasure, then good, if not, they're happy with what they got.

 8)

(this is just a anology folks, please don't gamble, even for fun, if you do, losing is the best thing that can happen to you, winning is what get you hooked...lols)

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco
« on: May 10, 2024, 07:43:45 PM »
My Boss asked me if I would be okay, and comfortable with being employee of the month. This mean my photo will be display on the screens all throughout the building, lunch with the CEO and some positive words about me as a person, a worker and teammate. I said, sure, but I think there's others more deserving of the honor.  ;D He left with a smirk..while I was thinking, man I was trying to sound humble but only made me look arrogant. hahah

He did went with the plan. And the next thing I know, people come up to tell me about it. Some genuinely admiring, some low key jealous as hell, lols. It's part of life. Be wary of those who pretends to be a friend, when really they are probably jealous as hell of you. LOL

Anyway, I finally went to read what the manager wrote. His words, I can tell was from the heart. Very genuine. The CEO express his gratitude, emphasizing that I not only help better the building, but the whole network, worldwide. I came up with better techniques, getting jobs done quicker, safer, and more effeciently. I save the network millions by showing and proving some PPE's were a waste of money and is better off not using them. Overall, he said, I bring such a peaceful and togetherness energy into the building, where even the most difficult employees will calm down in my presence. He then said, I should expect a nice bonus on my next paycheck. Better be at least fay hundo or more..LOL

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco
« on: May 10, 2024, 06:49:12 PM »
If a hawk takes one of your chickens, then it is your fault for not making sure your chickens are protected, If you catch a hawk inside your coop, then its your fault for not making a sturdy enough coop. Should you still kill the hawk?

No,You let it free[/i]

The Good does not believe in Necessary Evil, but in Sacrifice. You got off easily, others have taken much harder hits, others- felt for the trap. This is what Good means by free will. It does not make decisions for you but it will give you signs what the best decision is and the better choice to make.

Let it fly away.

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco
« on: May 10, 2024, 03:26:25 PM »
One night a long while back, I drove out to a casino about 2 hours away from me. I don't know why, but I felt a need to. Usually I like to go  there during the daytime for its scenic routes. I got there sometime in the wee hours, but for some reason, there were a ton of people. Finding a parking spot was tough, so I ended up parking by all the big rigs and RV's. I didn't really like my parking spot, it was a little tight, slanted downhill, and I remember I had a minor power steering fluid leak. After sitting in my car for a few minutes, I decided to back out and look for a different parking spot. However, due to my lost of memory of the layout of the casino, I exited out of the casino instead. That's when I got lost...It was pouring, and my windows started to fogged up. I turned on the defroster, and it clear my windows up. However, my front windshield starting to what seem "absorb" anything it can laying in my car. Clothes, plastic bags, emptied cans. I keep taking them off from the windshield, but it seemed like a neverending task. It just keep magnetizing itself back to the windshield. As much as I wanted to pull over and stop, it was out of my control, it felt something was pinning my arms to the steering wheel and my foot on the petal. I was really in a desperate state of shock now, and I asked the Truth to forgive me of all my sins from previous lives, and that I will surrender for reals this time.

I finally had a little control of the car. I made a right turn unto a small business. I got out of the car to take a breather, and if there were anyone around that can direct me back home. I saw a not so friendly looking man but he just walked pass me with a glaring look. He opens the door to one of the buildings, took a little boy, by his hand, and they both quickly walked pass me again, without looking at me. I pray one more time, Yes, I double promise this time....The truth, still not convinced, so at this time I started to say to myself, Forget you then, I will find my way back myself....

Big mistake...This time the car is out of control completely, I finally said Okay, it's either the devil or the almighty. Choose now..I chose the ALmighty, because I know spiritually I can never lose if I do...The car came to a violent abrupt stop into a medical clinic this time. As soon as it stopped, a car pulled right behind me. It was a unmarked police car. The cop was furious, angry and asked me loudly "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??!!"

I said, look officer, look at my windshield. It was still absorbing all sorts of things blocking my view. He look puzzled, a little skeptic, then more puzzled. Then a car pulls right in front of me. The cop said, "hang on, don't go anywhere or you will be sorry, be right back". He starts shouting at this driver who pulls in front of me. The other voice was a woman. THey both exchanged shoutings, and then she drives off. He comes back to me. The windshield still magnetizing everything it can. He calls for back up.

Next thing, 3 more cars show up. They told me to get out of the car, while looking at the windshield, and how it was magnetizing every thing it can. They then all helped me take out all the junks in my car, pulling one item at a time from the windshield. One of the guy said, unfortunately, we're going have to take out all of your seats but the driver's seat as well.

Once they did that, they said, "you're free to go now"....I asked the first cop that stop me, if someone can escort me back home. His phone rang, and he answer, and his shouting match with his wife began again. He gently looks at one of the other cop, he was the quiet one out of the bunch, and whisper to him to give his number to me in case I get lost on my home again. The quiet cop verbally tells me to dial his number, and when I did, he showed me the screen on his phone. He then said "this is to assure you, you're in good hands"

The first cop, still bickering on the phone. The two other cops were playing tricks with the medical workers who were starting to show up for work. They were writing notes that something needs to be cleaned up, or this or that is a violation. They were even flirting with the lady medical workers...It was slight dawn at this time, so they were starting off their day.

The quiet cop put his hand on my shoulder and said, don't worry, you'll get home.

This was when I slowly opened my eyes, and realized I was dreaming...My heart pounding, one half of my body numb.......... ..


This must be the final warning, final dream of a recurring dream I have about getting lost and not able to find my way back home.

This must be what The almight meant, when he said there are a hundred arrows aiming at me.........The devil wanted me bad....to carry out his missions.....a nd trust me, I would have cause havoc if I'd not surrender FER REALS to the Almighty that fateful night......... ...... :-X

Folks, believe it. There is indeed GOOD and EVIL among us...........C hoose GOOD, and you shall be save.... :-X

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Opposite Sex Friends
« on: May 10, 2024, 02:51:10 PM »
True. The more I block them, the smarter they'd become
in sneaking out. Then they'll have more excitement in
sneaking out. The harder the  husband restricts, the
better she and the boyfriend feel in bed together. Etc.

You just add more wood into the fire huh...lmao

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Opposite Sex Friends
« on: May 10, 2024, 02:28:18 PM »
Yes it's possible..  I mean if other race can be friend with the opposite sex why can't us Hmong?  After all, we're the same human being?  Are we saying we hmoob people have less self control? We don't know our boundaries? We can't think for ourselves?  If other race can do it so can we.  Maybe we just never put it to the test or maybe we did but we just don't talk about it  OR maybe we're just too afraid to go outside our comfort zone.

Men of different race are no different from Hmong men...maybe even worse. lols.

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One of my older sister-in-law says that a man will never get rid of a good woman who keeps sticking around. Good, meaning that she does the cooking, cleaning, pay the bills, etc. He might not love her or find her all that exciting anymore, but he has a use for her and if she keeps staying despite the fact that he's lost all affection and is courting other women, then that is on her. The guy I'm talking about is definitely keeping this woman around as an unmarried niam loj. lol She is his main supply while he gives affection and attention to other women, whom he most likely has no intentions of committing to either.

Suppose to tell her to kick his ass to the curb and make him pay child support. lols People gotta understand, for most couples, that butterflies have a very short life span. And that there are phases in a partnership. If we all lived up to 200 years old, most couples will probably eventually hate each other's guts by 150 years old at best..Those who really like each other..Some don't even last 6 months...lols So its a good thing we only live up to 100, even still that is too long for butterflies to live. Gotta take it slow and steady to make sure it outlasts time..Beat it before all else goes to hell .lols

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco
« on: May 08, 2024, 05:41:40 AM »

We finally were assign to work together again the other day. Both of us started around the same time, and one day he was tailgating me for a mile to work. So we both had some animosity since. Never spoken to him until recently. LOL Both us express our workplace frustrations. We both agree, though we both disliked a lot of the things here, we get a away with a lot here where we wouldn't elsewhere. Showing up late, just use PTO or Sick time to cover it. No being called into a office and have a interrogation session. LOL Come back a few minutes late from break, if they don't get yell at by their boss, they don't care much. lols..We stop to think how long since we been here, I jokingly told him he has more grey hairs but look better shape from what I remember 6 years ago, and he joke, Always thought you were either mute or deaf at one point. Joke to him, this place turned me into a Jackass...LOL We had mostly small talks intermittently throughout the shift. But our last one got me thinking. He said the word "control" should not even exist. Said we don't control the next second, minute, hours or days. How others perceived or feels about us. All we can do is go with the flow and take our best precautions from anything bad happening. We don't really get to choose what we get and how we get it, if we do get it- but to work hard towards it. Like driving, all we can do is make sure our tires and suspensions are in good shape. But a blow out tire or a pot hole we didn't see can damage one or both of it while driving on the roads.

Shift was over, we both walk out to our cars together, and that was when he brought up the tailgating incident. haha He apologize, and I joke, it's a while back, I've forgotten about it..... 8)

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Si, men gotta look at it from a different angle. We want our sisters, daughters and nieces to be with a man with vision and missions.we can't expect one thing, and expect to get another.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Family
« on: May 06, 2024, 04:38:06 PM »
If people don't understand that they have an obligation to their spouse and their children then they really shouldn't create a family.

I see, the demons been feeding me free food all my life. Will need to el correcto it.

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Why? He es el Perfecto.

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco
« on: May 04, 2024, 08:31:01 PM »
I went back in this dream, to my teens. I had a rooster at the time, and I loved him dearly. His feathers were all black, not a single spot of white or any other color. The unique thing about his feathers was they emit such a strong sheen of green, even in the shade. His plummage too was unique. His tail sickles curls inward and they were long. One day, I notice he wasn't crowing. I don't know if he was sick or not, but he was just roosting and looked normal. Something in me said he needs a hen, thats all. We lived in the city at the time, and technically we weren't suppose to have any chickens, let alone a rooster in the city limits. But our neighbors didn't seem to mind the crowings. Well, I call a uncle if I can get a hen for him. He said, he had the perfect one, all black hen, yellow feet, eyes and even beak. He insisted he brings her over because he wanted to see the rooster too. (I kept it hidden away from most people) and my uncle wanted at least two of his sons from the breeding. lols

I raised this rooster til his last breath. He lived up to about 9 years old. Before his last breath, he attempted to crow. He did, but it was very weak. I pluck two feathers from his body to keep, and buried him the next morning.

In this dream, I revisited the good times. I was no more than 16. I had some ground beef, some feed mixed with milk and other goodies. The rooster wasn't crowing, but.......sing ing....... :-X and this was the song he sang.....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39eEKjeq6qg

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