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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Dok_Champa on February 19, 2021, 11:14:07 AM

Title: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 19, 2021, 11:14:07 AM
If you find yourself single again.  J/W.
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Reporter on February 19, 2021, 11:45:48 AM
Yes.

No doubt about it.

I know I will remarry.
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: theking on February 19, 2021, 12:44:59 PM
Depends on what stage of my life when that happens..
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Reporter on February 19, 2021, 01:57:22 PM
I'll remarry at any age in the future. But I know I won't have to after this next one. I'll choose her very carefully so that I won't have to remarry ever again.

Depends on what stage of my life when that happens..
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 19, 2021, 03:31:44 PM
Depends on what stage of my life when that happens..
Yes, depends....and may you never have to think about it..
I'll remarry at any age in the future. But I know I won't have to after this next one. I'll choose her very carefully so that I won't have to remarry ever again.

Yes it takes a loooong time to find that special person like finding a needle in a haystack so when you find such person, you remember the journey it took and you cherish the person ever more, cherish the love ever more...  May you never ever remarry ever again.

As for me, just for discussion sake, I don't see myself marrying again.  Why?  I don't like looking for needle in haystack.  Life is too short so I'll just play with the remaining times  ;D ;D ;D ;D Be a playa in my old age and a saint in my youth :D :D :D
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Reporter on February 19, 2021, 03:36:13 PM
Thank you.

Yes, depends....and may you never have to think about it..Yes it takes a loooong time to find that special person like finding a needle in a haystack so when you find such person, you remember the journey it took and you cherish the person ever more, cherish the love ever more...  May you never ever remarry ever again.

As for me, just for discussion sake, I don't see myself marrying again.  Why?  I don't like looking for needle in haystack.  Life is too short so I'll just play with the remaining times  ;D ;D ;D ;D Be a playa in my old age and a saint in my youth :D :D :D

Players exist at every age, too.

Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 19, 2021, 04:01:45 PM
Thank you.

Players exist at every age, too.
I was never one because I empathize with others too much.  In life, we all want to treat others how we want to be treated, the golden rule. 
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Reporter on February 19, 2021, 04:17:50 PM
I know.You have always been a very proper woman.

I was never one because I empathize with others too much.  In life, we all want to treat others how we want to be treated, the golden rule.
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 19, 2021, 08:07:20 PM
I know.You have always been a very proper woman.
I know we are getting off topic but I just want to clarify because I don't want the world to think I'm such a "proper" woman when in truth I am equally improper as I am proper....That's the truth. 
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Visualmon on February 19, 2021, 09:31:29 PM
After the break up/divorce? Nope, ain't have times to go through filing paperworks all over again.
:laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4:

I haven't married yet still single til this day. I'd imagine if I ever ran into a type of woman who always put restrictions on me 24/7. I'll make sure to put her in her own place where I have the right to tell her that I should have enough spaces I can roam around a little. I'm not talking about hanging out with other guys drink booze and get wasted. I'm talking about resting after long days of work.
If she doesn't get it then Sayonara (Japanese word for 'goodbye').

Just as an example:
https://youtu.be/sIbYUg1FKK4
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Reporter on February 20, 2021, 08:54:13 AM
You were a proper woman turned improper then.

Have you gone back to being proper, Dok?

Anyway, remarriage and getting divorced again can be very painful. I think people need to think seriously before they decide on the next partner.

I know we are getting off topic but I just want to clarify because I don't want the world to think I'm such a "proper" woman when in truth I am equally improper as I am proper....That's the truth.
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: ProudLao on February 20, 2021, 10:31:12 AM
Definitely if she’s the one who will call me jao nai lol ;D
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: DuMa on February 20, 2021, 11:19:23 AM
The problem is not wondering if I will remarry again.  The problem is that I'm stuck and she's not giving me a divorce.   :2funny:

but yeah, Hot young looking independent women is the final result.  It will waste her youth and her time to be with me cuz i'll stretch it out without any sign of marrying her.   :2funny:

The next phase in life if I miscalculate and marry the wrong one, I'll be typical.  Selling a house to buy a fast red sport car and I'm flossing it like leo DiCaprio and blowing snow off a hot woman's bubble butt.  There will be no one to stop me.  If they put me in an old people's  home, I'm fawking all them old ladies too.  Cot dayam I'm getting nasty.   :2funny:

Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 22, 2021, 10:07:27 AM
After the break up/divorce? Nope, ain't have times to go through filing paperworks all over again.
:laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4: :laughing4:

I haven't married yet still single til this day. I'd imagine if I ever ran into a type of woman who always put restrictions on me 24/7. I'll make sure to put her in her own place where I have the right to tell her that I should have enough spaces I can roam around a little. I'm not talking about hanging out with other guys drink booze and get wasted. I'm talking about resting after long days of work.
If she doesn't get it then Sayonara (Japanese word for 'goodbye').

Just as an example:
https://youtu.be/sIbYUg1FKK4
I'm thinking first marriage, we're full of ideals/dreams/etc..and then everything came crashing down.  2nd, we're more realistic and take more time.  But at the same time, don't lose hope because of the first experience.  The world is full of people..

You were a proper woman turned improper then.

Have you gone back to being proper, Dok?

Anyway, remarriage and getting divorced again can be very painful. I think people need to think seriously before they decide on the next partner.


No, still the same but going through life, I don't follow the norm or pressure by the norm...I follow my gut, values, beliefs, etc..and sometimes that takes me to the road less travel, being improper....bu t most of the time, I like following the straight and narrow paths.

Yes remarriage and re-divorce, do not wish on anyone.  I haven't experience myself but again, I can understand some what.  I think the most important thing is once you find that person who truly loves you for all your flaws, the rest can be worked out.  The problem is finding such person can take a loong time.  Also, some people get confused between genuine love and lust....

Definitely if she’s the one who will call me jao nai lol ;D
Yes she can set the parameter - Jao Nai Chef, Jao Nai household, Jai Nai massage, Jao Nai feet rub ;D ;D ;D ;D etc... and if you decline, she can say Laagorn Krab/Ka. ;D ;D ;D ;D
The problem is not wondering if I will remarry again.  The problem is that I'm stuck and she's not giving me a divorce.   :2funny:

O0 O0 O0 O0 She's a keeper and looks like you don't mind being stuck O0 O0 O0 O0
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Reporter on February 22, 2021, 12:43:48 PM
Men love women who have minds to stand up for their true selves.

I'm thinking first marriage, we're full of ideals/dreams/etc..and then everything came crashing down.  2nd, we're more realistic and take more time.  But at the same time, don't lose hope because of the first experience.  The world is full of people..

No, still the same but going through life, I don't follow the norm or pressure by the norm...I follow my gut, values, beliefs, etc..and sometimes that takes me to the road less travel, being improper....bu t most of the time, I like following the straight and narrow paths.

Yes remarriage and re-divorce, do not wish on anyone.  I haven't experience myself but again, I can understand some what.  I think the most important thing is once you find that person who truly loves you for all your flaws, the rest can be worked out.  The problem is finding such person can take a loong time.  Also, some people get confused between genuine love and lust....
Yes she can set the parameter - Jao Nai Chef, Jao Nai household, Jai Nai massage, Jao Nai feet rub ;D ;D ;D ;D etc... and if you decline, she can say Laagorn Krab/Ka. ;D ;D ;D ;D O0 O0 O0 O0 She's a keeper and looks like you don't mind being stuck O0 O0 O0 O0
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Niello on February 24, 2021, 05:18:20 PM
 :idiot2:
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: ProudLao on February 24, 2021, 05:29:30 PM
I'm thinking first marriage, we're full of ideals/dreams/etc..and then everything came crashing down.  2nd, we're more realistic and take more time.  But at the same time, don't lose hope because of the first experience.  The world is full of people..

No, still the same but going through life, I don't follow the norm or pressure by the norm...I follow my gut, values, beliefs, etc..and sometimes that takes me to the road less travel, being improper....bu t most of the time, I like following the straight and narrow paths.

Yes remarriage and re-divorce, do not wish on anyone.  I haven't experience myself but again, I can understand some what.  I think the most important thing is once you find that person who truly loves you for all your flaws, the rest can be worked out.  The problem is finding such person can take a loong time.  Also, some people get confused between genuine love and lust....
Yes she can set the parameter - Jao Nai Chef, Jao Nai household, Jai Nai massage, Jao Nai feet rub ;D ;D ;D ;D etc... and if you decline, she can say Laagorn Krab/Ka. ;D ;D ;D ;D O0 O0 O0 O0 She's a keeper and looks like you don't mind being stuck O0 O0 O0 O0

LOL
Good one. These days women don’t need men lol
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: Hunnaydew on April 10, 2021, 06:33:20 AM
In my mind I think no, but reality is probably yes.
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: venom on April 21, 2021, 09:20:50 AM
If you find yourself single again.  J/W.

no.
Title: Re: Would you ever re-marry again
Post by: floaty on May 10, 2021, 06:44:51 AM
Firmly, no.

I've been asked but sadly, I cannot. I won't even date.
I hope he understands.