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Online Journal / Re: Life's Milestones

« on: March 08, 2024, 11:58:22 AM »

So I am in my fifties, got married, raised a family, got my own career, raised my children, and now at this point in my life, it's just me and him again. This next chapter of my life, I want to travel the world.  He's not into travelling as much as I am.

In my dream/fantasy, I'd want us to wake up to the sunrise and sunset of Santorini, Norway, South America, Africa, Bali, Maldives, where ever together.. But that's not to be. I've come to accept that.

However, the world is so big fills with amazing places waiting for me to explore.  My journey has only begun....

Note to self: To many beautiful travels...

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: What Would You Do?

« on: March 08, 2024, 11:32:55 AM »

This is a personal choice for folks. Some people will stay through thick or thin, better or worse (marriage vows) while others will bail out. 
What would I do?  I'm not married to Derek Chauvin so can't say.  But let's say it's my husband, thru thick or thin because I'm all he's got.

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Travel & Vacation Forum / Re: Amalfi or Santorini

« on: February 27, 2024, 01:22:19 PM »

Italy & Greece is calling this year.  I hope to be zipping a glass of ice beverage on the caldera cliff overlooking the ocean by the year's end.....

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Tomorrow is Valentine's Day

« on: February 15, 2024, 01:08:44 PM »

Gentle reminder works!

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Marriage & Family Life / Tomorrow is Valentine's Day

« on: February 13, 2024, 02:01:40 PM »

Don't forget.  Hmm, a friendly reminder. 

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Online Journal / Re: Life's Milestones

« on: February 01, 2024, 03:08:54 PM »

Life keeps going until it's gone, a lyrics from "Then You Looked at Me."  It's still one of my favorite songs from Celine Dion.  I am enjoying life, the simple things in life and doing traveling... trying to go to as many far off places as I can.  The world is beautiful and there's so many places i've yet to see.  I'm looking forward to visiting them.

Now at my age, I learn to be my own complete person and having a man is a luxury.  I will not bind myself to a man who does not see my worth or value in his life. Sorry hon, I do love you but that's the truth.

I'm resilience and my faith in God is the foundation of me.  Life is beautiful...

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: What I learned from divorced people.

« on: December 19, 2023, 01:05:20 PM »

One door closes another door opens and it's not the end of the world.  Self love is an essential ingredient to finding love again.

Also, people using the new found freedom to live recklessly will end up most often in disappointment s. 

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General Relationship / Re: Once Married Foks: It's Harder and Harder To Find Love These Days

« on: December 19, 2023, 01:00:09 PM »

Those mos ab marriages are temporary.

Some can be long lasting too.  I've seen it w/ my own eyes..  Anyway, temporary or long, everyone got what they wanted at the end:  Mos ab cross over to a new land and the old folks went into the temporary land of blissfulness before departing into the land of nothing more.  Listening to those Hmong Neej Neeg, those Mos ab ultimate dream is landing a Hmong Mekas beau, young or old, they don't care.  Yeah Hmong Mekas is the ultimate prize for one and hmong nplog is for the other

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Movies / Re: What is the MOST recent movies you've watched at the Cinemas?

« on: December 14, 2023, 02:59:29 PM »

Going by myself to watch The Boy and the Heron, another animation, today.  Sounds interesting... spoilers but did the boy really ventures into HELL (place of the dead) looking for his mother?  I shall find out tonight!

So, I watched the film and it did not disappoint. No, he didn't venture into HELL but he did went somewhere.....

Good movie...

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General Relationship / Re: Once Married Foks: It's Harder and Harder To Find Love These Days

« on: December 12, 2023, 10:19:56 PM »

Just something for us to discuss.. but people are not as proactive as before looking for love so not sure if people are losing faith or the dating pools are dwindling down because of the Laos factor... don't know.  I do see people are more open to dating outside the race now then before....

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General Discussion / Re: RIP hmong comedian TOU GER XIONG

« on: December 12, 2023, 03:26:02 PM »

This is so sad....!  Didn't expect him to go like this...and this young.  Condolences to his family.

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General Relationship / Once Married Foks: It's Harder and Harder To Find Love These Days

« on: December 12, 2023, 10:20:29 AM »

Divorced/widow folks, their new destination for love is LAOS

so if Laos is not where you want to go, you're left with other race..

I see so many niam nkauj mos ab and txiv mos ab that's it's becoming a norm/new normal now.  I'm not even shocking no more...

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General Discussion / Re: Wow, Republicans rejected in Wisconsin??

« on: December 11, 2023, 03:23:31 PM »

Oh my goodness here we go...  Glad Regent Dana Wachs has common sense..!

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Online Journal / Re: Life's Milestones

« on: November 27, 2023, 10:51:01 AM »

Life is Unpredicatable

Kuv yuav luag tsis pom PH lawm.  Zoo siab tias tseem muaj hnub no.

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Pet Forum / Re: I'm looking for a little TEA CUP

« on: November 08, 2023, 12:50:31 PM »

Even I donate a tea cup to someone else, you'll be screaming at me for a revenge. 

Sharing is caring, our PH moto