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Relationship => The Single & Dating Scenes => Topic started by: Rebel on January 06, 2020, 10:58:20 PM

Title: A sex question in dating: accident or purpose?
Post by: Rebel on January 06, 2020, 10:58:20 PM
A couple hav been dating for a while and finally feel they are ready to have sex... That night the guy had a condom on and he knows that she's off birth control. They both talked about it n want to be responsible and prevent any sort of pregnancies.
In the middle of having sex, the man got up and took the condom off WITHOUT the girl knowing and he sorta finished inside her.....,,she thought he had a condom on the whole time and was just adjusting it... a month later she's pregnant... n the guy claimed it was an accident.

Okayyyy, so did he purposely wanted to impregnate her or was this truly an ACCIDENT???
Title: Re: A sex question in dating: accident or purpose?
Post by: VillainousHero on January 06, 2020, 11:02:23 PM
That's saying I kissed on the lips by accident...nev ah!

When said person can't be accountable for their own action, then said person would likely not be reliable for any other actions...
Title: Re: A sex question in dating: accident or purpose?
Post by: Reporter on January 07, 2020, 12:27:01 PM
That's not really the question, right? What you are really asking is whether he should be responsible, right?

Two things can happen here:

1. If they get married, they raise the kid together in the family.
2. If they don't get married, the kid stays with one of them and the other pays child support.

You decide if that means he's responsible or not.


A couple hav been dating for a while and finally feel they are ready to have sex... That night the guy had a condom on and he knows that she's off birth control. They both talked about it n want to be responsible and prevent any sort of pregnancies.
In the middle of having sex, the man got up and took the condom off WITHOUT the girl knowing and he sorta finished inside her.....,,she thought he had a condom on the whole time and was just adjusting it... a month later she's pregnant... n the guy claimed it was an accident.

Okayyyy, so did he purposely wanted to impregnate her or was this truly an ACCIDENT???
Title: Re: A sex question in dating: accident or purpose?
Post by: theking on January 07, 2020, 04:43:06 PM
A couple hav been dating for a while and finally feel they are ready to have sex... That night the guy had a condom on and he knows that she's off birth control. They both talked about it n want to be responsible and prevent any sort of pregnancies.
In the middle of having sex, the man got up and took the condom off WITHOUT the girl knowing and he sorta finished inside her.....,,she thought he had a condom on the whole time and was just adjusting it... a month later she's pregnant... n the guy claimed it was an accident.

Okayyyy, so did he purposely wanted to impregnate her or was this truly an ACCIDENT???

Not sure if he purposely wanted to impregnate her but he purposely took off his condom so nope, not an "ACCIDENT"...
Title: Re: A sex question in dating: accident or purpose?
Post by: DuMa on January 07, 2020, 11:21:55 PM
Wanting is not the answer.  No guy wanting would start with a condom and then pops it off. 

Guys mind are dumb fawks of society when they are in the heat of the moment.  We dont think during sex cuz thinking will ruin things.  If he can think of having a few children with you, he will not have sex with the condom on period.  IT is a boner killer to think too much when in the heat of the moment.   Eff first then think later. 

So this is not an accident.  He probably wasn't getting the right feeling he wanted with a bag over his diick so in order for him to cum, he's gonna take it off. 

I've done it, I've guilty of it but I got lucky. 

I also had a few times that it broke too.  When it is like a frog's azzhole, it will break and you will hear a pop like popping virgins and then it will be slippery and sliding from here on out.   :2funny:
Title: Re: A sex question in dating: accident or purpose?
Post by: Visualmon on January 12, 2020, 08:30:11 AM
Probably it's not accident or purpose. I think it's a retarded thing to do without knowing the high risk getting STDs from unhealthy partner during sex without condom on. It's obvious he's so dumb that he did not learned proper education in female anatomy where the female's vagina is the tedious place to clean from the inside. If he did bust a load in her then that's too bad he does deserve a karma in return where he just got STDs from her. He got the taste of his own medicine. smh
Title: Re: A sex question in dating: accident or purpose?
Post by: Dok_Champa on February 28, 2020, 09:38:34 AM
Accident or purpose makes no different now.  Good luck w/ those two.