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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?

« on: January 03, 2019, 12:41:15 PM »

Depends on the situation in my experience but I prefer a simple but truthful response over a nice lie response...For example, I prefer a simple but honest "no" to a "I have a boyfriend already" lie...What's worst is the wishy washy lies like.. "maybe"...

more like laughs at you for the attempt then skips off with girlfriends giggling all the way.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?

« on: January 03, 2019, 12:39:59 PM »

so, she friendzone you?

nah. It was more of a final good bye. 

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Work Avenue / Re: Y'all need to find employment in San Jose California

« on: January 03, 2019, 12:39:04 PM »

but where you gonna live if you only make $15/hr?

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: married guys.. How would you feel if your wife wants to do plastic surgery..

« on: January 03, 2019, 12:37:56 PM »

Once she's changed herself, it's her decision whom to give it to, really.

Exactly, I'm sure there are those who knew someone who's wife got breast enlargements, only to post herself all over fb and then run off with some other guy who complimented her.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?

« on: January 02, 2019, 01:17:03 PM »

I normally, just say "sorry, I'm taken", but I like yours much more.

Had a girl tell me something similar once.

The story:
I was walking passed her on my way out at the Fresno HNY and I had a rose with me that I haven't given to anyone that day. I handed it to her and told her that she deserved a rose to match beauty.  My cousin rushed me off because we were leaving so I just left her with that line.

Couple of years later, I saw her again.  A friend of mine took me to her house to visit her and I didn't remember her but she remembered me very clearly. By then, she had a boyfriend already.  She said she's seen me around the soccer tournaments all the time, but I never came over to talk to her again.  She said she used to dream of being with me because I was so nice to her when she needed it but she's currently got a fiancee and they were planning on getting married soon so we can only be friends.  I never saw her again after that night.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: married guys.. How would you feel if your wife wants to do plastic surgery..

« on: January 02, 2019, 01:02:48 PM »

men should allow their woman to have plastic surgery...if possible, have them have plastic surgery on their heart, as well! ha!

But would she be doing it for you? For her or for other guys?

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Hmong ladies who marry white guys...

« on: December 28, 2018, 01:16:43 PM »

Better than Hmong ladies marrying khej-dub.
Seen too many already.

could it be the package? 

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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: Is this person's behavior acceptable within a family household?

« on: December 28, 2018, 12:25:21 PM »

3rd note to self: Yup, it's definitely working.   The volcano is exploding and it's hilarious. 

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General Discussion / Re: What's the advantage of

« on: December 28, 2018, 11:10:27 AM »

none?

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?

« on: December 27, 2018, 03:55:51 PM »

In sales, they taught you how to throw come backs.

A hmong girl in MN said that to me.  I looked at her ring and told her I can get her a bigger one cuz she deserves that much. 

I like to make them think for themselves cuz obviously, thinking hurts the head so we tend not to think.

Dude, my opinion is... if she's turning you down, she ain't gonna change her mind because of a witty comeback line. Just take it nicely and move on before she lays it on thick and wipes the floor with your ego. lol.

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General Discussion / funniest sh*t I read all day, #1 reason not to name your kid after yourself..

« on: December 27, 2018, 02:57:24 PM »

guy writes: I have the same name as my dad and one night, my parents were having sex and I heard my mom call his name.  I was young enough that I thought she was calling me so I ran into their room to see what she wanted.

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General Discussion / Re: Leave it to Trump to expose the location of special forces for the enemy.

« on: December 27, 2018, 02:22:57 PM »

Yax

Im tired of all these endless religious holy war
With ISIS and the tailban

Just leave these people alone

If they want to change
They will

These Muslim are heavyly into ALLAH

we easily forget the history behind it. Did you forget 911?

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The Single & Dating Scenes / What are some nice ways to turn down someone, especially men?

« on: December 27, 2018, 02:21:50 PM »

Here's one that I thought was very nice:

Sorry, you should've met me sooner. I'm taken and already happy with him now.

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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: Is this person's behavior acceptable within a family household?

« on: December 27, 2018, 01:57:38 PM »

2nd note to self: ignoring crazy only makes him crazier so Keep ignoring crazy. It's fun to watch.

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General Discussion / Re: Leave it to Trump to expose the location of special forces for the enemy.

« on: December 27, 2018, 01:55:49 PM »

Yes because it's TRUMP,unreliable and untrustworthy.

we all expected this when sharing classified info with an unreliable and untrustworthy person so I guess it's not shocking to anyone.