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General Discussion / I fully support the obliteration of the Islamic Regime in Iran

« on: Today at 07:16:29 AM »

...I said what I said.

I know that the PH lefties want to know where I stand on this issue. Especially whenever I post on PH under other discussion forums. If I'm here, at some point one of them has to know how I feel about Trump's decisions. I feel more than fine. He's doing what I elected him to do. I elected him to clean up the Democrat's mess and bring back common sense to their nonsense. I elected him to do what the cowardly countries in NATO won't do. I elected him to finally push back against the rising Muslim agenda.

If you think that Muslims don't wish the world to be ALL Muslims, in which you're not going to be ranked the same as them even if you do convert, then you're ignorant or willfully stupid. Can't help you there. 

I am Pro-Israel ALWAYS AND FOREVER.

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General Discussion / Re: While at Universal Studios EPIC during Spring Break

« on: Today at 06:34:06 AM »

My sister says don't even bother going to Disney in Japan. Those people have no sense of urgency. lol!!!

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General Discussion / While at Universal Studios EPIC during Spring Break

« on: Today at 06:33:02 AM »

My family and a black guy with his son were the only people standing in the "How to Train Your Dragon" rollercoaster line who spoke in English.
 

We were surrounded by people who spoke Spanish, French, Portuguese, Mandarin, among other languages. lol!

I slipped in a few Hmong sentences. lol!!!

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Marriage & Family Life / Married couples who stay together are admired...

« on: Today at 05:50:38 AM »

...not because of a perfect marriage but because they overcame challenges and obstacles.

I find this to be very true.

I know of couples who stayed together through affairs, addictions, and even couples who came back to reconcile after separation and divorce. This shows the love they have for the life they built together and for their children and the descendants to come.

I have never seen anyone admire divorced people who remarried to someone whom they're never going to have children and build a family with. The public just doesn't find these second-chance relationships where no children are born from the relationship as inspiring or a cause for celebration.

It appears that such relationships are only to benefit the two people in it. For example, if an older divorcee remarries, that relationship really is just so she can have a companion, and not become a burden to her grown children. Her new man isn't exactly going to be daddy to her children. That relationship belongs only to her. And since they don't have children together due to their inability to produce children, what legacy are they really leaving? She has no real value to his clan so if he dies first, welps, that's it for her. Who from his clan is going to keep tabs on her when there is no child to be the link? She is only in their thoughts if she has some relation to them. Perhaps her new man was connected to her maternal clan in some way. If her new man is an introvert who isn't involved with his clan, it's likely that his own clan won't even know much about her.

But married couples who reconcile are viewed as strong and everyone rejoices.

A man whose extra-marital affairs became public scandal threw a retirement party for his wife. The guests showered them with compliments about the longevity of their marriage and hoped their own marriages would outlast the struggles of marital life.

A man abandoned his wife and young children, and married another woman. After 55 years of living separate lives, he found his way back to the first wife and proposed to remarry her. His grown children were overjoyed, and the community rejoiced at their renewed vows. 

People like to see families stay in tact. They like to see parents, and grandparents stay together so that children have elders who are their blood.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Is it true that men don't marry the love of their life?

« on: Today at 01:52:07 AM »

Having strong feelings for someone does not make them the love of your life. Love is more than feelings. Love is the life that you two built together. Love is the fruit that comes from the relationship.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: One of the biggest benefits of having an engagement period

« on: Today at 01:33:59 AM »

He did the right thing.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Even Superman learned reconciliation after almost divorcing the love of his life

« on: February 16, 2026, 01:30:23 PM »

I know a couple who got a divorce, and after 53 years apart they got together again. They are getting remarried.

Nobody judges a couple who has children together if they do decide to get back together. Most people view that as a good thing because the family is being restored. They see that as a true testament of love and how they beat the odds together.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Is it true that men don't marry the love of their life?

« on: February 16, 2026, 01:24:57 PM »

Yes, thank goodness I'm the one that got away!

Those men tend to be opportunist and only marry their wife based on how she can serve him at the moment. Who wants a husband who has "the one that got away?"

I don't know about other women, but it's not positive energy to be with a man who left the last woman heartbroken, used, and lied to. Especially if this is a pattern in his relationship history. You end up inheriting his karma, and curses by association. The universe will deliver justice. In addition, it's most likely that this man is a narcissist or has heavy narcissistic traits, and all his relationships were built on who could provide the best supply for him during whatever season he was experiencing in his personal life. He appears loyal (by making big grand gestures (love bomb) like making big purchases, moving in together, sharing personal accounts, etc.) in order to win trust so that he can get the supply. But make no mistake, he has no problem discarding the girlfriend/wife when the situationship no longer suits him or he finds better supply.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Is it true that men don't marry the love of their life?

« on: February 16, 2026, 01:20:21 PM »

Especially Hmong women because many were forced to get married and sometimes to a much older man that they had zero connection with...SAD BUT TRUE!

Unless the husband is abusive and a bum, many of these women find contentment with the husband. There are countless stories of women who divorced only to find out that the men who are available are even worse. And for the ones who divorced and reconnected with an old lover, it always turns out that the old lover was only using them.

This is why I still firmly believe that no man is going to love you more than the one who married you, raised children with you, brought you into his family, and made plans to build a life with you. If he is willing to make things work then always choose that.

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General Relationship / Re: Two becomes one

« on: February 16, 2026, 11:56:58 AM »

Some people have many true loves. 

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General Discussion / Re: Anyone you know got deported?

« on: February 16, 2026, 10:13:30 AM »

.....

Yes, and rightfully so. They know what they did to have been deported, and they own up to it.

The past always catches up. This seems to be completely lost on leftist liberals. 

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General Relationship / Re: I thought I was the ultimate nice guy

« on: February 16, 2026, 10:09:46 AM »

Jonni,

There are nice guys who make horrible mistakes. And then there are guys who present themselves as "nice" but are really rotten on the inside.

Time always show which one a man is. Just look at the fruits that he bears, and his relationship history.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Is it true that men don't marry the love of their life?

« on: February 16, 2026, 09:53:05 AM »

If he isn't married to me, then he isn't the love of my life.

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General Discussion / Re: Marriage Advisor Online

« on: September 29, 2025, 02:34:32 PM »

Sound like you haven't gotten beaten by your husband before. 

No. I have never been beaten by any man.

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General Discussion / Re: Marriage Advisor Online

« on: September 29, 2025, 01:43:14 PM »

What do you mean recover? Do you mean stay married?