Wow, women are one of the biggest mysteries in the world but this guy nailed it?

[theking]

Single Women Are Absolutely Losing Their Minds Over This Man's Spot-On Analysis Of Women Who Like Being Alone
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/single-women-absolutely-losing-minds-173135663.html
As a woman who thoroughly enjoys her alone time, I was absolutely floored by a recent TikTok video from Éros Brousson, aka @gettothepointbro, explaining what it's like to date a woman who is used to being alone. The video has gone mega-viral, with women saying he "knows too much," calling him a "spy," and revealing they've been "exposed."

Éros started out by saying, "Some women have been single for so long, they don't date anymore. They grant you access to their peaceful little empire like a reluctant queen handing you a visitor's badge."

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"You think you’re gonna be her boyfriend?" he continued. "Bro, she’s sleeping diagonally in her bed for three years. She’s not giving up that territory because you opened the door and paid for a coffee. Her vibe is ‘I love the idea of you, but your physical presence is kind of ruining my aesthetic.’"

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"You plan a cute date, she’s thinking, ‘That sounds nice, but also, I could stay home, deep clean my apartment, do a 12-step skincare routine, order sushi, and not have to listen to a man breathe.’"

He continues: "Romantic surprises? Risky. You show up unannounced with flowers? Cool. She already scheduled her evening: 2-hour bubble bath, wine, watching Pride and Prejudice for emotional stability. You’re not part of the itinerary, Jonathan."

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"You try to check in emotionally. ‘How are you feeling?’ [you ask]. She’s feeling fantastic because you’re not here. When she says ‘I need space,’ she doesn’t mean ‘I am upset.' She means she wants to lie face down on her bed for three hours without explaining it to anyone," Éros said.

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"You’re not competing with other guys," he continued. "There are no other guys. You’re competing with her weighted blanket, her peace, her cat named Chairman Meow, and the simple joy of not having to share her fries."

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"The second you cause even 0.0001% stress? Gone. Vanished. Back to her solo adventures and 87 unread therapy newsletters. ‘Are you okay?’ [you ask]. Yes. She’s thriving; she just booked a solo trip to Iceland while you were still composing your ‘Good morning, beautiful’ text."

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Éros closed the video by saying, "Dating a [woman] who is used to being alone is not romance. It’s an extreme sport for your self-esteem."

A person with a beard and curly hair looks at the camera. Text reads, "it's an extreme sport for your self esteem."
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Women were quick to praise Éros for his comments, hilariously noting it hit too close to home. "Ladies, there's been a security breach," one joked. "Put your places on lockdown."

Comment with a joke: "Ladies, there's been a security breach. Put your places on lockdown," followed by laughing emojis
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"Alright, who's told him this info??? So exposed right now," said another.

"Love when a man realizes he's not competing against other people, he's competing to join a life that a woman has curated for herself."

Text about relationships: A man competes to join a woman's life, seeking to offer improvement, not compete with others
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The TikTok video also made its way over to Twitter (now known as X), where even more women agreed. "Finally, a man who has read the current mood of women accurately," said one.

Tweet by Heidi N. Moore stating: "Finally, a man who has read the current mood of women accurately."
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"That man is a SPY."

Tweet from '@alexissTyler': "Nahhhhhhhh that’s WAY too close to home. That man is a SPY."
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"what he describes is so precisely accurate that he actually started to make me feel uncomfortable like he was a double agent ... if all men understood and accepted this, it would be such an insane game changer."

Tweet expressing that someone’s description was so precise it felt like they had inside information; wishes more men understood this for societal impact
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You can watch Éros's full video below, and follow him over on TikTok or Instagram.


And now, independent ladies — I have to know — does this video accurately represent how you feel about dating these days? And are you lying diagonally across your bed reading this right now? Let us know in the comments or anonymously in the Google form below.

[JonniJacko]

those women are for in a rude awakening once they hit their golden years...and realize her 1 million subs and followers has move on to the next big thing...They need to learn from the mistakes of J-LO and Madonna...LOL

j.k folks. Being single and truly content is very powerful....Ho wever, if one finds their soulmate, that is Legend. Better than hitting the powerball IMO...Money and freedom only buy happiness temporily....L ove conquers all. Cuz Stone Cold, I mean GOD says so. haha...haha

[Dok_Champa]

He has a point but applies to both men and women.  Back in the day, in my generation, 99% of single folks ended married.  Why? relationship is top priority or one of the tops.  Everyone has someone, a boyfriend, a girlfriend.  If you didn't you look for one until you have one.  Now, that's not the case anymore.  Now, career, finance, hobby, friends, family take over priorities of relationship. 

Also, now relationship happens by LUCK meaning waiting for that chance encounter and not actively seeking for relationship.  In my generation, you don't wait for luck.  You make it happen.  You visit this girl, that girl, have many many chance encounter to find her.  AND because you put yourself out there, you find that person.

[Believe_N_Me]

That guy is imbalanced and broken to be interested in that kind of a woman.

He has a thing for avoidant women and now he thinks that he knows all women. 

Healthy people look for healthy partners, plain and simple.