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Faith & Beliefs / Re: God is not your friend

« on: February 28, 2025, 12:13:28 PM »

A nephew asked me, if God is real, why doesn't he or it show himself or itself. I said because He doesn't want people to know if he's real or not. He wants to test people. He then said, there's no such thing as good or bad. I said, if that is so, then we all be doing bad things atm. LOL then he asked what happens when we die. I said, I don't know, because we're not suppose to know...but I actually do know...we live forever, our body just gives up or expires eventually...G od only gives bad people two choice. Go back to earth and try again, or go to Hell...

so yup, this my message to all....take life.....very very seriously and do good....have fun, be lighthearted, but never get too comfortable. haha

Sermon for the day folks. don't forget to thank me later. or now if you like. LOL

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General Discussion / Re: !!!!HOME DEPOT HUSKY TOOL REVIEW!!!

« on: February 28, 2025, 12:05:58 PM »

dude, Harbor freight has it for half the price..lol

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General Discussion / Re: This is the email...

« on: February 28, 2025, 11:59:55 AM »

reminds of the times in grade school when the teacher made us sit in a circle and asked us one by one what we did over the weekend...one time I said, I played video games all weekend, when I don't even own a gaming console..LOL

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General Discussion / Re: Trump Voters Now Regret Voting for him

« on: February 28, 2025, 11:50:36 AM »

hmm, airplanes flipping over, school buses catching on fire...Wasn't this the same guy who was president when covid struck the world....Sorry folks but these are all signs that humans need to get their shat together or it will be the end of humanity...lol

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Inheriting someone else's karma

« on: February 27, 2025, 09:55:08 PM »

I hate to say it, but someone has to say it. When bad things happen to us, it's because we fuke up somewhere along the way..these could be things we fuke up deliberately, or inadvertently. The only other reason why misfortunes or bad karma might happen to us, is for sacrificial purposes.....S uch as going through trials and tribulations.. ..suffer now, so when the blessings come, we don't abuse it or take it for granted.

We're all here to sacrifice and learn. And unless we pass, will we be allow to enter Heaven...other wise, the universe makes us come back to earth over and over again until we get it right....I sure don't want to come back to earth next time around....most fuking humans are dispicable...l ol

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General Relationship / Re: How are you when it comes to this?????

« on: February 27, 2025, 09:45:33 PM »

You do what works for you

But I'm betting it is not working 

You can't go against the science behind it.  Companies are paying millions just to conduct this stupid question of the dating game.  It may be old but it is golden.  Calling her up right away is only reserve for those who gets to tap it on the first date.  Well if that happens for me, I'm only calling to make sure she's not feeling morning sickness.   

Hasn't fail me yet....haha i mean hasn't fail me by protecting me and dodging bullets. few close calls, though, one or two very close, left a permanent scar, but never underestimate the grace of light....lol

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General Relationship / Re: Perhaps why some friends are afraid of falling for each other romantically??

« on: February 27, 2025, 05:24:33 PM »

That doesn't stop some people from sleeping with each other after the couple divorces.

Oh yeah, that and while one is in a coma....I've seen it before...I never talk to any of my married friends' wife. We might say hi, bye. that's it...Heck, I don't even say hi to my sister n laws. LMAO

opposite gender friends is mostly a secret hidden agenda. I mean exp. for women. A man is not gonna stick around, if she can't help come over to fix his car, or go to the strip joints with him...LOL Well, in any case, I don't really see what's wrong if two people agree to be friends with "possibilities"...LOL Some men end up with their wife that way. The Long game as they call it. I don't think I'm open to that though. I got too much pride and ego...lol

this remind me, back in high school, there was a brother and sister. They kept to themselves, but they were always together...Eve ryone thought they were a couple, until, someone befriended them, and turns out, they both were just really shy people and didn't really know how to make friends with other people.. LOL Senior year, and I see them slowly hanging out with their own circles.

Same thing at work. A viet guy and gal is always together. One day, I asked him, where's your wife? she was on Vacation and was spending a few months in Vietnam. The way he look at me, made me asked him "she's your wife right? LOL

He was a good sport about it and said "a lot of people think the same, but we're actually first cousins, her mother and mines are sisters.

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General Relationship / Re: How are you when it comes to this?????

« on: February 27, 2025, 04:40:10 PM »

There is a science behind it and plenty of money have been used to unravel it.  Like the art of dating.  How fast are you going to response back to a person after you get their numbers?  Too soon means needy so the 3 days rule is there to keep the other party waiting in anticipating like it is done on purpose.  Once you have forgotten about me about the 3rd day, I'll strike up a hi and your heart will skip a beat.  Now I got your attention.   

Cone On mang, that shitt's hella old now. The last time I try that trick, I got ghosted hella bad. Call her ass right away when you get home and set up a date for the next day right away...if she can't handle it, she aint worth your time..LOL

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General Relationship / Re: Love is not precondition, but built

« on: February 26, 2025, 11:27:01 PM »

Here is what I believe based on experience.

Who we end up with is somewhat determined by fate. God brings the people into our circle and then it is up to us to put in the effort to make it happen. Having said that, some relationships inevitably end or they never take off despite all our efforts.

Some people believe that we have karmic contracts with people and when the contract ends, so does the relationship.

All I know is that the person for you will always be for you.

Remember BNM, that is only in the movies and novelties. Love in real life comes down to two people making the choice to give it a chance and see where it goes. If it goes well, Then, it all lies in the care, protection, and nurture they give it.

A couple falls short, only when.....one or both have fail to protect it or prevent it from failing...prot ection from intruders, physical and spiritual..fai ling to prevent it from failing, such as friendly flirtings at workplaces, or not being honest of their status...Take for examples many of our elders. They are with their first. Many of them...lol They have no idea what they're doing by coming to AMerica and popping out hella kids for no damn logical reason...LOL

But they had the foundations correct. Faith, love, and hope. And everything falls into place.....one way or another...haha

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General Relationship / Re: Perhaps why some friends are afraid of falling for each other romantically??

« on: February 26, 2025, 10:21:55 PM »

You mean friends with sexual tension or friends like you only view each other as brother/sister?

The people who end up dating means that there was always sexual tension in the friendship. Otherwise, I don't see how anybody who only viewed each other as brother/sister can suddenly start sleeping with each other.

This is why it's never a good idea to have opposite gender friends if you're already in a relationship. That "friend" can quickly turn into a bed mate.

Way back in my late teens and early 20's, when I was actually a lot more sexually stimulating to the women, lol, I did have a few friends of the opposite sex, and we keep in touch not frequently, but periodically through email, phone....well, they all eventually fell in love with me....LOL after telling me they only see me like a brother or friend...When their relationships goes sour, or ends, then they want me like that now......so it's like, Man, I'm just a back up or what? Second options? LOL

I only had two choices to make...three. One was take advantage of the situation, hit n run, smash and dash as they say, LOL... Protect my dignity, or.....Ghost them .....LOL I had no choice but to stop contact. If they stay, Karma will make me get revenge, eventually...S o in order to save them, I give the lesser punishment. Hurt them now, it'll go away after a few weeks...Or hurt them later, and they will be broken for life....hahaha

I learned early on, better not to even have friends of the opposite sex...Unless she's old enough to be your grandma, and just needs you to move her pot of plants, or check her car's fluids.....or wait, nvm, no friends of the opposite sex, unless you are friends with her b-f, husband as well! haha

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Good never finds Good

« on: February 19, 2025, 07:17:09 PM »

It's not because good women choose toxic men. It's toxic men choosing good women. Read my post about selfish people.

Oh no, no no no...Lol,....a man offers his love, a woman choose to accept or not.  Ultimately, she has the final say..There's many men out there who are married to the woman that offer herself to them instead...lol All in all, both subconsciously chose each other- it's usually up to the man, to take the first shot. If she fires back, great. If she runs away.....well, there's more deers out there. lol

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General Discussion / Re: Trump Voters Now Regret Voting for him

« on: February 19, 2025, 06:55:26 PM »

WWIII is in the horizon folks. Tell all your love ones you love them..LOL

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Good never finds Good

« on: February 19, 2025, 07:49:23 AM »

one thing I have to give to the "poj Laibs" is they learned early to never to a good man for granted. lol They understand men and treat men better- also they know a genuine good man from a fake. The problem is, her body count may be too much for him to look past. so it'll take a man with a heart of gold to accept her, but usually under one condition- she has to let him fool around once a year. LMAO While men, who felt duped out, turn into Serial Chads and Tyrones....the y never look at women the same once they get hurt from being nice and deserving.

life, it indeed is good vs. evil...and only those who truly listen to the voice of light will be protected and save.

this is why the story of Adam and Eve is still reiterated til this day. One wrong, little move, or seemingly little, can change the whole infrastature.. .haha

This is whay it really means, that God is just trying to save us all..........h e gives love freely, and ask of nothing in return, but those who do good and right- shall be bless...hahaa

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Good never finds Good

« on: February 19, 2025, 06:46:38 AM »

modern women- where's all the good men at?

modern man-You turn them all into ass-wholes.

LOL

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Good never finds Good

« on: February 18, 2025, 10:33:22 PM »

You women say that, but you guys always choose the ass-ole  over the nice dude anwaya...lol

wise old man once told me, only time a woman will appreicate a nice guy is when she's a grandma. LOL