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Now that there is closure, the healing begins. Time to get back to business and remove this toxicity.
I don't know if this is a conflict but it can be rather an unproductive use of your time when you discover that the previous person in your position made a lot of errors that you now have to rectify, and it isn't going to be an easy fix. This is not one of those job positions where you were hired to give the company an overhaul and it's to be expected that you are there to clean up the mess.
I saw that movie. Genghis said he did not trust women with big eyes.
Which one is that?
You should make banh xeo with it.
For some reason, I just can't get into a relationship with someone unless I sense that he really loves me a lot and has a strong sense of commitment. I know of too many women who settled for a guy who was just into them enough and it became a relationship of convenience for him. Then when the woman became nagging, considered other options, etc. (mainly because she knew he wasn't as into her as she was into him), the man had the audacity to use that as an excuse to break up or to further delay making a real commitment.
If there is one thing I know about men, it's that they know instantly if you're the one. I get it, there will be a short period of getting to know you but those moments are always a way of them taking action to lock down a serious commitment. A man who takes too long after that is just using you. A lot of men don't want to hurt your feelings so what they'll do is drag it out, pull back their energy, and hope that you get bored and move on. Some men will breadcrumb a woman to keep her hopes up. It's his way of keeping her on reserve for when he needs an ego boost.
Maybe it's a family thing where she and her brother touch each other's hands while eating Pho at an out-of-the-way Vietnamese restaurant, okay?
People can be like a job/career sometimes. You think you really want it but once you're there, it isn't what you thought it would be.
There was this one person who was typically viewed as a nice person. However, I always felt that something was really off. They must've sensed that, too, because it seemed like they tried even harder to win my trust. After months, I finally let my guard down. Needless to say, that is when they turned out to be everything that I initially suspected. Let's just say that they are a very dishonest person and there is hard evidence out there to prove it.
Some day I'll share it on here. It's public record so not like I'm exposing anyone. Or I can PM you the dets. lol
Anyways, I've been disappointed before but I didn't feel as offended as I did with this person. I literally felt betrayed. Everything was a lie, one after another. Nothing but deceit, manipulation, and so on. Probably because this person had ample opportunities to be truthful but lied. In addition, have you ever told a white lie just to get through but then you never brought it up again because it would start sounding too sketchy? Well this person continued to bring up the same lies and present them as truths.
When someone tells you that they were only with their brother or sister, but you know the activity sounds off, yep, they're lying.
lol people? Maybe I've been talking about the same person. lol
Actually, I'm around a lot of good people and that is why I just get the sense that this particular person isn't right. lol
