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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: Today at 01:47:08 AM »

Talk to yourself sometimes, listen to your own advice...lols sometimes we give good advice to others, but we don't follow our own...haha

Conner is a 6 foot 200 lb good looking fella. Yet, he is very soft spoken and very gentle hearted. He didn't look like he was in any mood to be bothered or talked to. So all I said was "what's up man, I'll be around so just hollar if you need anything" and went on with my duties. It was towards our last break, that he was visibly upset. He was sitting down on the stairs with his head down, teary eyed and everything. Another worker informed me, so being the team leader sometimes meaning taking extra duties..haha So I went to where he was sitting, kindly asked him if I can sit next to him. He told me he just going through a lot. I said okay, I didn't ask, but I told him to tell me about it.
So holding back his tears, he told me..Struggling with bills, heartbroken, family issues, transportation issues...I said, keep fighting, it's all part of growing up and maturing into a responsible productive citizen..haha I told him, I will put in a ticket for extra hours for him personally, and direct him to company resources for mental health if he wants it. As for transportation, a co-worker said he can donate a bike and helmet..I said great. Conner kindly accepted the offer....

I left that day thinking to myself...if only I listen to my own advice...hahah a

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: June 01, 2024, 08:17:36 PM »

there are only two types of outcomes when you meet people out there.....thos e you come across, and it's either you hurt them, or they will hurt you..and then those where you both don't want to hurt each other, but win together...hah a The tricky part is, the second type is hard to come across..

In a world where competition is brutal, greed is real, materialism is praise, and superficial is real....it's a very sad time for humans....haha

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: June 01, 2024, 07:18:21 PM »

Life is like a math class, you learn some lessons early on, but if you don't go back from time to time to refresh and relearn how to solve those math problems, you forget how to after some time, and when it comes to the finals, you''re scrambling to memorize everything again the night before..or you get overconfident and think you will all the sudden remember how to solve it during the finals....Life lessons are the same, just because you learn a life lesson, if you don't take mental notes or actual paper notes of it, reflect back and review the notes, assuming you'll know what to do when or if it hits you again, but when it do, you don't exactly remember how to handle or deal with it...lols

This is why you set alone times to be reflective, introspective, refresh and recharge...Whe n you stop learning and relearning life lessons and if you do encounter the same problems, you're scrambling how to handle or deal with it...lols

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General Relationship / dating game is very different these days.

« on: June 01, 2024, 06:35:40 PM »

Must watch for those of you who keep settling for less...haha Wish I knew this sooner...but you either do this, or you give them the playa mentality....l mao


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRoEZ3-PmC4

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General Discussion / Re: Hmmm...Does Asian dude really have bad breath?

« on: June 01, 2024, 05:40:54 PM »

saw this story on the news..they showed his mugshot and dude look the same from 2005, nothing close to the age enhance photo..no wonder he was able to elude capture for so long..lmao

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: June 01, 2024, 05:15:14 PM »

Halfway through the year already folks....We are living in scary times...hahaha

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: May 29, 2024, 07:18:44 AM »

some of the most cliche sayings has stood the test of times and remain the most powerful....

You reap what you sow.....(this saying is eternal, don't care what no one says...)

Its not how much you love someone, but how much you love yourself ( I knew this from an early age, but, back to the first saying, you reap what you sow...and I fukeup too many times and forgot how to love myself...the only thing that save me was, though I forget to, I never stop to, deep within, I knew it was my savior) haha

well yeah folks...when you accept these two God given knowledge, and really live by them, you will escape Hell (earth) with minimal damage...

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General Discussion / Re: Two Democratic imbecile Reps...

« on: May 29, 2024, 06:07:20 AM »

haha..haha..wt h...this is mess up.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/eric-trump-slammed-particularly-disgusting-043230168.html

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General Discussion / Whoaa, shizz is this fer reals

« on: May 28, 2024, 10:58:01 PM »

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFwkRQSUa9g

the truth is folks, don't hide the ugly truths of life to your kids...at some point you got to show and tell them....and then teach them how to handle life's trials and tribulations.. the problem with most parents is they are too loving and protective of their children..this does more harm than good in the long run....they will be thrown in the battlefields with no experience or training.....h aha your children must enter the war zones as soon as they know how to write their name...hahah

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: May 25, 2024, 03:23:13 AM »

consider your mind, but always go with your heart. Your mind thinks, but your heart knows.....

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: May 25, 2024, 02:29:21 AM »

your life is coming together, not falling apart, your journey is not coming to end, it is just starting, you're not late, you're on time.

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: May 23, 2024, 09:51:42 PM »

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bILneRll2no

The truth is fammies, I didn't choose to be chosen, it chose me..haha

this video got me having the chills...i can relate to most if not all the points...but that last one...electric al and electronics... they act weird around me when I'm on high alert...lols but still....

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: May 22, 2024, 10:16:35 PM »

I feel like these young dragons still needs me, I feel like they are sensing me thinking of leaving them behind, why else would they all the sudden be even more drawn to me as of late? you mean this was just a test to test my faith ?

You already know the answer

Stop by 7/11 first thing this morning. 3 guys were in there before me, they all had green shirts on. I thought they were all together, until noticing they were by themselves. I was the 4th guy walking in,and I just happen to have a green shirt on as well..Army green, dark green, not bright green..haha I don't know, but I think subconsicously we all were like WTHeck?? The clerk rang us all up, one by one. Everyone spoke soft and low but clearly and with authority. Thank you, you too sir. Same to you, good day. Thanks, enjoy your day. Cool, don't work too hard.

Got to work, and not sure why. Everyone said Hi to me. I mean I usually get 10-20 on average every day I go to work. But today, I must of have at least 50...lols Some of these people, are people you just know, you just sense, are very very good people. I don't need validation, lols, but I will take it and I return the favor. That's all it takes folks, just treat everyone with some respect, love, and that they exist and is important in their own ways. Little gestures like these means the world to some. Some people appear very normal, but could come from very broken families, maybe some are hiding their mental illness of some sort, or someone may just need a extra boost of confidence...B e kind, give love freely and expect nothing in return....in the end, we're all here together, and in essence, we all going to leave pretty much the same some day.....life is short, love as much as you can...it's the only way to a truly rewarding and fullfilling journey...wher e small talks are deep connections and a simple HI leaves a lasting impression on stangers....th is is what God means, we're just one move to making it a so much better and wholesome place...All we have to do is CHOOSE to LOVE....

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: May 17, 2024, 11:34:48 PM »

Dear Fam, this could be my last post in here. This time is for reals. haha

Our Hmong people are special. The Almighty had a plan for us all along. It chose to save us. Brought us out of the jungles of Laos into America. Our elders have a difficult time to assimilate, and so we had to navigate the ins and outs of American Life on our own. That of course did not come without a price. As we all know, as time progresses, so has us. We come to assimilate, go on to have successful lives. We overcame adversity and obstacles. The rise and downfall of Hmong gangs, the slow down of underage marriages. The evolution of our traditions and customs to better fit the younger generations to come, the practice of freedom of religion, as many has parted ways with the old ways. It is time, the Hmong people can only progress from here on out, and it looks like we are headed into the right direction so far...however, there is a new evil among us. It is very mainstream actually and it has reach to all Americans. Americas are headed into a very dark space if we do not stop this evil force. The new generations today are the future leaders, and will be the game changers. They are built to take on this new war. I have so much faith in them. So many bright and smart kids out there. Wisdom and intelligence Beyond their ages, at least for us older generations we think so. haha It's going to be a very different world in a few more decades. I asked everyone to give them our support and faith. This is a time, we need to be spiritually United and stronger than ever.
This new evil force is even more manipulative and viscious than what we seen in the past...

Do it for our children....do it for our kids....look into their innocent little eyes, and be reminded, life isn't about you, but about those after you........... .............. .......

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General Discussion / Re: WASUP with these young hmong buck going oversea to get married LAOS...

« on: May 17, 2024, 10:55:19 PM »

everything costs money these days...even love...lols the Hmong had it right all along..You have to buy the wife...lols