Lets talk about them sugar babies first.
Imagine your daughter comes up to you and say... .Hey daddy, I'm getting payed by this guy and I'm giving him some emotional support and if the money is right, I'll have to have sex with him too. He's older, has a wife and kids or he can be like your boy G, not married, no kids and I'm milking his easy money about half of his paycheck.
Know any daughter would go to their dad and be saying that chit?
Now lets talk about them sugar daddy.
IF he's older, with his own wife and kids but he is still lacking that emotional support and sex from his wife, he may reach out to a sugarbaby to fill in such void. Poor wife got cheated upon. You think this is ok?
Now your boy G's turn. He's like a chump guy who wants a hot hollywood dime and can't get it so he can either go the incel route by hating all beautiful women or worse yet, get a gun and go shoot them all with murder suicide case. He can pay the sugar baby industry to fill in his void as well.
Notice something here. I remembered our boy G made his first posting about how he got a hot date with a dime. Now no where in such posting he said he got her through the sugar dating website. Why? I'll tell you why. It is the true fact that he knows what he is doing is not universal sound or accepting. There is a stigma that is ugly about it just like a guy who goes and pay for sex, that such guy will never be proud to accept the feat of paying for sex unless he's a loser and he doesn't care.
There are a lot of layers to these bad stigmatize fascist if you want to see it that way. I'll name a few and some, we are guilty of it. The world is slowly accepting it but some may never.
1. Paying for sex, escorts , prostitution (sex only)
Sub layer would be the Sugar baby/sugar daddy route. (emotion involved and sex)
Sex club
Strip club
2. Having internet friends or finding a gf on the internet or social media sites or apps. I'm a loser because I have no real friends so I make friends online. Other people say how you guys met and how am I suppose to answer to this?
3. Marry an oversea wife. No one I know that is proud to say that they went oversea and go ta wife there. Most if all will try to fake the funk by not bringing it up and pass her as a local grown wife that I married.
4. May not apply to you guys but if I marry hmong. I'll be proud to marry her but knowing what my people will say, I don't know how to explain it to them. If you see me saying that she's thailand or from laos, you know the stigma that still bothers me.
Many More but you know the Stigma is there.
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