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Faith & Beliefs / Re: god is a liar… the serpent was being honest

« on: April 29, 2025, 06:53:43 PM »

Homeboy still thinking that adam and eve is still running around here, all naked and looking lost under Trump's care.   

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General Discussion / Tourist most famous Pier 39 Fisherman's Wharf and business......

« on: April 29, 2025, 03:30:43 PM »

I can not believe it.  Like a ghost town

Lots of factors but some could be the viral rumor of car window break ins and homeless issues.  Plus them SF politicians are so soft on crimes and they seems not to care or bail out these SF landmarks.  It's a shame as I haven't been back to the fisherman's wharf in at least 10 years.

How can a world's iconic landmark be like this?  This is crazy and sad.   

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtYx6OeFUkc&pp=ygUaZmlzaGVybWFuIHdoYXJmIHRlcm1pbmF0ZWQ%3D

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General Discussion / Re: Well, she is Hmong after all so the family factor should come naturally?

« on: April 29, 2025, 03:23:38 PM »

I would say as long as she the money flowing in then she's more happy. 

I mean she could marry a hmong guy but you know how happy she would of been if this hmong guy is so typical that he rather goes fishing and hunting and neglect his family and kids.

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General Relationship / Re: YOUR WHITE MAN RELATIONSHIP ADVICE don’t work on hmong people

« on: April 23, 2025, 03:20:07 PM »

Okay, who hurt you?

I sense that you had a childhood trauma that influenced you to pick the wrong partner. That wrong partner damaged you.

Btw, I didn't say that to mock you or judge you, or anything. I know another PHer who is in the same boat as you.

Without commitment, there is no love.

It is just an understanding to the dating culture nowadays.  If you are calling me "damaged" then I'll call you old school.  You keep your old school ways of thinking when it comes to love and romance but  you need to understand something and that is the evolution of love.  Everything we have learned in our generation has become obsolete.  We now have gen Y, gen z, the alpha....

These are the gen that I'm adapting when I talk about love nowadays because as these are the reality.  Haven't you heard?  Those same gen in china are called the "lying flat or rat people" when it comes to the work force.  They don't want to work and are living with their parents till they die.  It's a reality.  Our generations have them too but it is not a rising trend that becomes an epidemic over there in china.  Our generation calls them lazy bum but I'm concerning about this new rise in this newer generation.

read more here
https://www.yahoo.com/news/chinas-broke-burned-young-workers-102018415.html

Bottom line is that there is an evolution changes and if you don't know, you better know.  Love is still over rated.  The next generations are now marrying for security first and not love.  Boarder line gold digging mentality but that's just the way it has been working in these days.  Getting marry to be rich or poor, it's a personal choice.  Not many are old school who would marry for love and accept for poor and death do them part.  Financial issue is still the #1 causal for many divorces. 

"54% of people believe a partner with debt is a reason to consider divorce "
https://www.cnbc.com/select/national-debt-relief-survey-debt-reason-for-divorce/

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General Relationship / Re: The Hmong way is all backwards

« on: April 21, 2025, 07:19:48 PM »

lol

Both ways are horrible.

Can people not grow a relationship without the sex??? That really ruins a person when it doesn't work out. I didn't even know about this thing called a "soul tie", but apparently even pastors talk about it.

soul tie is real and if I think what it means

For instant, if I don't know you, there is a firewall between you and I.  We are strangers however, once we hook up and in the heat of the moment, my body heat will become one with you.  After the incident, no matter how much I tried to deny it, I can see my aura around you.  I once dated a chick.  We were seen in public and this guy came up to us and he would pet her hair which I thought was disrespectful but he did it anyway.  I then questioned her to who the hell he is and she said it was one of her fling. It doesn't give him the permission to do what he did but his energy field is with her still. 

I mean doesn't it get hot and bothered when you guys are having sex?  It is like dragon ball z.  Energy fields all around us and that is why some people say that the sex will bind the two of you guys together.  This is why some women that likes you will not say no to you when you want sex.  They think that it will make the relationship stronger.  Only if they know that I'll hit and run.   

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General Relationship / Re: A true scientist is someone who believes in the existence of God

« on: April 21, 2025, 07:02:23 PM »

The science of psychology. 

More non god believers are coming from that sector.  They have an answer for everything but can not figure out why a Christian would believe in a God.  By digging further, they might be afraid that the truth will lead them to God. 

The god of the self

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General Relationship / Re: YOUR WHITE MAN RELATIONSHIP ADVICE don’t work on hmong people

« on: April 21, 2025, 06:55:28 PM »

Love is a commitment that bears fruit. End of story.

Love is old school and over-rated.  These next generation of kids are starting to go for status first and love can take a back seat.  They can marry someone without loving them, as long as they are financial stable.  The term "gold digger" are for women.  As a guy, if I had to start over, I'll be a diamond digger.  Had the chance with an older lady with 5 pho shops in the santa ana area when I was a lot younger.   

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General Discussion / Re: Your Favorite Drinks and Snacks No Longer Available

« on: April 21, 2025, 06:39:56 PM »

im just trying to figure out why a HMTL computer science engineer…
… is using foodstamp to buy soda

 

thought you make 6 figures

He makes 5 figures.  With EBT, it goes up to 6 figures.

6 fingers discount 

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General Relationship / Re: Loving someone is not enough to make them ready

« on: April 16, 2025, 07:29:15 PM »

Marriage is a partnership. What do you mean by what do you do afterwards?

lol

I mean getting married is an easy process.  Just get a witness and go to the courthouse and pay a fee and you are done.  Now what do people do after they get married?  Immature people would not know.   

It's like the same saying....You can go anywhere in this world.  Just pay a flight fee and the plane will get you there.  Once there, what am I suppose to do? 

So the answer is proper preparation.  With marriage, you have to have a pre marital talk.  If 2 become one then you both have to figure out what role you guys are going to play after getting married.  There is a big list with things or goals to be made.  You do this and I'll do this. 

With flying to another country, lots of research so you have an idea to what you are going to do once you are in a foreign place. 

It's that easy right?  On paper it is. 

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General Discussion / Re: Factory workers don't usually get pay much so that's probably why??

« on: April 16, 2025, 03:23:54 PM »

So then trump tariff is a failure eh?

Put tariff to get companies from oversea to set factories in the USA.. but but

no one in the USA wants to work these factory jobs..   

Next wave is to raise the min wages for a livable wages for these factory workers to entice employment.  Uncle orange guy got this all figured out   

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General Relationship / Re: Loving someone is not enough to make them ready

« on: April 16, 2025, 03:12:37 PM »

Results may varies and everyone has a story

It used to be mid 20's is when people getting married and start popping babies thereafter so these people are timing themselves to hit a goal at a certain age.  Some even focus on the big 30 for women as they are racing to pop babies as science has said that complication of birth is anything beyond the 30+ mark. 

Then we get gen z, the group that is built differently.  Gen Y, they rather not get marry or popping kids and they even have a financial acronym like DINK, duel income no kids or the Fire movement - Financial independent retire early and to get there, no kids are a given because children is a money constraint that goes against their narrative.   

As for myself, I'm just a victim of circumstances.  I don't plan anything when it comes to relationship.  To get marry is easy but what to do after you get marry?  If you can't figure this out then it is best not to get marry. 

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General Relationship / Re: YOUR WHITE MAN RELATIONSHIP ADVICE don’t work on hmong people

« on: April 16, 2025, 02:52:03 PM »

I disagree and here's why

First off, can you measure my love?  Can you measure a kadoo's person love?  Can you measure a hmong person's love? 

So you see, if Love is universal then to treat it, you need the universal antidote.  The phrase, "I love you" or "I hate you" or I want a divorce are all universal coin phrases in all languages.   We are not like dogs where we just sniff each other's butt and call it a day.. 

So if I need love advice, I can get it from a hmong, a kaydoo, a viet, a white person or anyone that is logically sounding with their advice.  Sex is universal.  It feels good no matter who they are.  The antidote should then be universal as well.   

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General Discussion / Re: WE live in scary time

« on: April 16, 2025, 02:44:49 PM »

I kind of liking the challenge of getting deported.  To me, it is like the great escape game.  Drop me on any country and watch how I hitchhike, bike, climb, crawl my way back to the USA.  I mean if you are educated and with streets credentials, you can find your way back "home" 

 

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Faith & Beliefs / Re: Burning Man

« on: April 10, 2025, 08:12:20 PM »

I lived 3 hour away from a burning man event and I have no intention of going.  First off, it is for the elite and entitled people and overpriced for the commoners.  Secondly, I wouldn't want to do camping out there in a dust storm and say it's fun.  I did however went to Reno and stayed at a resort casino during their events and there, I found some fake hippies.  They dressed like they were going to the burner and perhaps they did but they need to head back into town to take their showers.  Like What?   

The whole experience is like the story of Moses and his people.  When he went missing up them mountains, his followers below would make their own god and partied and having tabooed sex and being sinful with everyone else.  At the burner, they created this big guy out of wood hence why they are calling it the burning man and they would lit it on fire.  It is for spiritual hoopla if you want to go that route but to reach there, you will need to eat some shroom and do some drugs. 

Not my type of crowd.   I have seen pictures of the event and as a once upon a horn dog myself, you will get to see a lot of naked bodies there.  Top executives of the silicon valley are frequent visitors there but they have their own private jets to take them there and are staying in resort style makeshift camps.  One can say that most are poser and are ruining the scene. 

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General Discussion / Re: Leftie/Demmie politicians launched investigation...

« on: April 10, 2025, 07:57:01 PM »

Oh really? 

Didn't I talk about this before?   

Jeffries accuses Trump of tanking the economy to create opportunities for the rich

https://www.newsnationnow.com/politics/jeffries-accuses-trump-of-tanking-the-economy-to-create-opportunities-for-the-rich/