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Creative Corner => Online Journal => Topic started by: Reporter on October 12, 2015, 03:09:44 PM
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October 12, 2015--Eau Claire, WI: Eau Claire is strange to me, but I feel safer here than back in St. Paul where I grew up in.
Lately, a stalker from another state has come to town and wanted to meet up with me for romantic indulgences. She has expressed her dying love for me. But we have never met before. She has seen my picture only on Facebook, and has not stopped to think that I might be photoshopping it or that I my have glossified it to appeal beyond my natural look. She said she is absolutely sure that I am her soul mate and that she was going to give me all her love and sacrifices and life.
The woman claimed in her messages that she has come to town on business matters and that she's very busy and cherished by so many and that she didn't have any time for me, even though I have not asked for her time or to meet up with her. But she stopped by my office to drop off a note and a bouquet of flowers last week when I was not in.
She didn't get to meet me. So, she stated in her new message that she was leaving St. Paul but that her friends didn't want her to leave, so she had to stay a few more weeks. Then another message followed that: she said she has left town two days ago and she was wondering why I had left my office so dark.
But last night a local friend called up a girl I knew and said someone from another state has been showing my picture around and asking if they knew who I was and that she claimed she has slept with me but then also said she has never met me before. "She's a very vicious lady," the friend said to the girl I knew. "We are not telling her about him. It's all trouble, and we don't want him involved with her."
I'll be in Eau Claire for another week to make sure she can't find me in my office.
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Hmmm, sounds creepy. If you go to meet this person, go with caution and be careful :o
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I'm not meeting her. I'll avoid her this lifetime. If she comes any closer or does any more, a restraining order will be in place. It's gotten that far.
Hmmm, sounds creepy. If you go to meet this person, go with caution and be careful :o
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Sounds so freakish! Be very cautious of people like that because they have that mad compulsive disorder and anything can happen. She was a random FB stalker? Such a creeper then....
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Shhhh...
She doesn't read English that well, and she doesn't come on PH though.
what are you afraid of reporter? if you're that scared, shouldn't be in your office so late at night.
oops...hehe, didn't mean to point out that you're only in the office at night. :-X :2funny:
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LOL,Tai Lau.... what Reporter means is for you to write in Hmong only, thanks!
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Thanks.
I have had to block her out a few times on Fb already. She kept coming up with new names to get on my accepted friends list.
Last week, I got 27 text messages on my phone from her.
She first got my number from my bio on Fb. Now I've taken down all contact info there.
Good thing she doesn't know where I live.
Sounds so freakish! Be very cautious of people like that because they have that mad compulsive disorder and anything can happen. She was a random FB stalker? Such a creeper then....
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LOL,Tai Lau.... what Reporter means if for you to write in Hmong only, thanks!
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Thanks.
I have had to block her out a few times on Fb already. She kept coming up with new names to get on my accepted friends list.
Last week, I got 27 text messages on my phone from her.
She first got my number from my bio on Fb. Now I've taken down all contact info there.
Good thing she doesn't know where I live.
Oh wow, you put all your personal information on FB? No wonder, you should only put that to family/friends.
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Just the business contacts.
But I've been kind enough to accept most requests for friendship--even those from strangers.
Oh wow, you put all your personal information on FB? No wonder, you should only put that to family/friends.
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Good thing we have these remote computers where I can access records from here. No need to always be in the office to access records.
I love modern technology.
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Yes, very handy, modern technology is suppose to make our lives less stress free but it opens up doors to other stress. In your case... being stalked :P
Perhaps try a business social media with less chances of being stalked O0
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I'm going to take up Kung Fu lessons on Tuesdays and Wednesdays from now on.
can you translate for me:
should i let reporter know that front doors doesn't lock, and like most of the time, he's always alone in the office and if she should show up... she could do anything to him, like sexually use and abuse him and no matter how much he screams, Nobody will know? :2funny: :2funny:
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FB is well-known around the world, and many of my professional colleagues are also using it. Major corporations use it. I think I'll just alter my name on it and continue to use FB. I will reconnect with those good people.
Yes, very handy, modern technology is suppose to make our lives less stress free but it opens up doors to other stress. In your case... being stalked :P
Perhaps try a business social media with less chances of being stalked O0
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Yes, don't let people such as those alter your perception of things you like. You have Linked-in? Less social and a good way to connect with individuals :)
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I know about Linked-in. I just haven't used it. But I will have to soon.
But I've never learned how to use Twitter and Instagram.
Yes, don't let people such as those alter your perception of things you like. You have Linked-in? Less social and a good way to connect with individuals :)
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I like instagram, the setting is filtered good. No one sees anything unless they are your friends. I don't feel comfortable about twitter so I don't fiddle around with that social media.
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I'll have to try it sometimes.
I like instagram, the setting is filtered good. No one sees anything unless they are your friends. I don't feel comfortable about twitter so I don't fiddle around with that social media.
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10.14.15--This beautiful small town is beautiful in many ways. The people seem friendly, and there's also a state university nearby. I can run to the library any time and it opens late into the night, unlike the local public libraries.
I'm still here and will be here for another month or so. I will be using remote access to my files back in Minnesota. The stalker leaves me messages that she has left Minnesota. But I still keep getting news from local sources that say otherwise. She's still actively looking for me.
But isn't she a vicious lady? She seems to be a serial sexual predator, not in the sense of murdering but as in a player playing her preys. She has traveled quite a lot and has had guys wherever she has gone to. It seems she's trying to make me part of that collection but has been unsuccessful. No way am I going to let this woman know where I am.
I've changed my clothing appearances even here out-of-town.
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So........sinc e you've been getting the 411 on her........has this become the stalkee stalking the stalker. :D :P
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Information just comes to me as she goes around asking about me. Those who comes into contact tell me about her. lol
Easy, eh?
I had never been so afraid of anyone before.
So........since you've been getting the 411 on her........has this become the stalkee stalking the stalker. :D :P
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You're a lawyer. If you're really afraid, you know the actions to take and the procedures involved to accomplish your desired outcome . ;D
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10.15.15--Eau Claire is French for Clear Water. But there does not seem to be that much water around. No lakes. No rivers. Not enough to live up to its name. But it's still a beautiful town. Perhaps if I would run into a beauty here, Eau Claire might not just be Eau Claire but Belle Eau. We'll see when I feel gutsy enough to get out more.
Of course, Eau Claire isn't the greatest town in the world but a safe one at the moment. I am actually beginning to like it, especially with its friendly atmosphere and the shorter buildings. I feel powerful here because the heights of the buildings do not intimidate me like those skyscrapers in St. Paul and Minneapolis. There's a feeling of another culture here. Perhaps if I get too involved in the local grudges, that might feel different. But right now I'm loving the beauty of the surfaces of everything from physical to emotional.
True, tRouBle. I am and I know what to do. I'm just not interested in going full-blown on a restraining order or reporting this to the cops yet. I'm giving this stalker one last chance to peacefully end her actions. I already sent her a message to discontinue her harassments. If she keeps up, the next thing is a harassment restraining order--ex parte, they say.
The stalker continued to flood me with text messages overnight. I have refused to read the nine messages that appeared this morning but seemed to have been sent in the middle of the night. In the few months past, she actually called around 1 am to see if I was with another girl or if I would care enough to pick up her calls. I never picked them up. Yet she found her own motivation to keep calling. The tipster said the stalker almost convinced the tipster that the stalker had slept with me but then there was one point where the stalker slightly said the stalker has never met me before, too. Then the tipster realized the stalker was just dreaming things up.
In the months past, before I blocked her several nicks out on Facebook, she stated that she would commit suicide by drinking tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj--a that powerful poisonous cyanide that our people have used for cleaning silver jewelries. Drinkers of it have died within minutes after intakes. She claimed she already had it in possession and would soon be taking it. I think her idea was to intimidate me into rushing to stop her. And I did get scared of that. I didn't want to be responsible. I never knew her anyway. So, I just blocked her out some more.
But she has kept on coming at me with calls from a blocked number and has kept texting me and even creating new names on Facebook to send me messages. Now she's in my town pretending to be doing some business with others but her main goal is to check me out. The sources she's been in touch with have told me that she's been like that with other men, too. Not just in my town but in the west coast as well.
You're a lawyer. If you're really afraid, you know the actions to take and the procedures involved to accomplish your desired outcome . ;D
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If you've done nothing wrong, there's no need for you to hide/live like that. Are you going to hide forever if she decides to move to your town?
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Ex parte? That should be nice for you, then you won't ever have to meet/see her. I'm assuming you know what she looks like.
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I'm not going to hide like this forever. And good point: if she moves to town, what do I do? Well, a restraining order for sure.
If you've done nothing wrong, there's no need for you to hide/live like that. Are you going to hide forever if she decides to move to your town?
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I know what she looks like. She has sent me lots of pictures of her. And she has gotten mine from my Facebook profile, too. That's how she's been able to ask around for me.
I will make sure the courts do not require us to appear in court together for granting the restraining order. Right, so I won't ever see her and she won't ever see me in person.
Ex parte? That should be nice for you, then you won't ever have to meet/see her. I'm assuming you know what she looks like.
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10.15.15-Nine more text messages this afternoon. But I don't open them up. I don't read them.
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10.16.15. A few more messages came in this morning followed by one call from the stalker. But I refused to pick up the call and to read the messages. I didn't even open them up.
The tipster continued to secretly provide information, however. The stalker has been very angry that she has not been able to see me, after having traveled so far to come to town and that her return date has not been certain. "She says she'll be here for a long time," the tipster has been quoted as saying.
The stalker has been to my office building five times, according to the anonymous source. She has not found me there.
I have not lured anyone to St. Paul.
But Eau Claire has continued to be beautiful with this chilly weather that resembles Minnesota's around this time of year. Just an hour away from home makes it no difference than St. Paul but for its less-jammed traffic and clearer atmosphere--clear in that there aren't no big, tall buildings to clutter up the sky or surroundings.
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10.16.15. 7:25 p.m. More text messages came tonight to my phone. A few pictures, too, from the same number that the stalker has been using to text me from. But I have opened none of them. I've had no interest in them.
Friends tell me I should be careful even when I'm in Eau Claire and not in St. Paul. The stalker could be anywhere if she could read English and found my whereabouts out. However, I'm not disclosing my exact location at this time. The city itself it rather big at about 68,000 people with fewer Hmong than other groups, and I'm here all aloof as a solo traveler paying no attention to the local Hmong events. Most likely the stalker will attempt to locate me in the Hmong community and not outside. Therefore, I feel safe still. I've run into a few Hmong at the local Walmarts and other non-Asian grocery stores. But I've acted with the honesty that I don't know them and that I don't care to mingle with anyone here.
According to sources and the stalker's messages, the stalker is pretending to have left the state but yet remains here among friends. Some locals have driven her around since she has been here with no car of her own. And yet her messages say she's left St. Paul long ago. Sources claim she is here for business, although no particular business has been disclosed. I have the feeling that her only business in disguise it to stalk me. At least that is the fear I've had in the circumstances.
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10.16.15, 11:48 p.m.--Stalker called five times and sent four pictures tonight.
As friend said the sources have told her that the stalker said the stalker would make every effort to see me. "I'm not sure what you are going to do if you meet her," the friend teased me. "I just can't imagine what you will do, whether you are going to run or not."
I didn't say anything. I don't see this situation to be funny or anything less than serious. I would not stick around if I saw the stalker anywhere. I would be heading the opposite direction.
Friends we have never been before. Nor are we friends now. Friends we won't ever be.
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11:53 p.m. Another call. No pickup.
I know it's Friday and people want to take someone out on a date to eat, drink, and do other things. Stalker is obviously in that mood.
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11:58 p.m. Yet another call from her.
Of course, I'm not going to pick that up. Phone's still ringing.
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Stalker is not doing herself good service. The more she hunts for me, the more local sources tell me about her.
Apparently, another guy in the west coast has cut off all his phone lines just to hide from stalker a year ago. They had been in love for awhile though. But he was married already and stalker kept courting him. After a few flings, stalker got dumped. He moved from his apartment into another one and stalker could no longer find him.
A drinker, too, she is. Just two months ago, some friends of hers and she were gonners for a whole night. No one could gain any consciousness until breakfast the following day. They had been drinking whiskey the night before in the largest amounts anyone could take.
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If you know her, go ahead and get her side of the story.
If you read my first entry, I said I wasn't all that, and that is why I was surprised she's after me. Nothing to be envied by you. Don't worry. I'm never going to take her over you or anyone else. :P
No, it's not my fault. I am not the initiator of our contacts. She got my info from FB and started sending me messages. I have not lured her to me or to St. Paul.
I have a feeling she isn't serious about killing herself. She's using that to get my attention--like I said, to rush me into stopping her in person. So, no need to involve the cops. Not yet anyway. If she does end up killing herself over this, there's nothing that will involve me. Didn't I already say I don't know her?
That tactic doesn't work with me. I have full control over my actions and feelings.
I have had nothing with her. We aren't family members or cohabitors nor have we had any past relationship. I won't be able to get an order for protection against her because of that. But I can get a harassment restraining order against her because of that and her actions.
This is my journal. It's still private because her identity isn't disclosed. No one will ever know about her true self.
Man, I love Eau Claire. I might get licensed in WI, too, and expand my practice into this state, although I think I'll do just Hudson, Eau Claire, and LaCrosse. Other parts of this state are too far for me to travel back and forth. In fact, for LaCrosse, I will be traveling on the MN side of the pleasant St. Croix, especially near the southwestern parts of highway 61. Not a bad idea.
Reporter, please don't get mad for what I'm about to say. I don't know who you are. But I think it was your very own fault for her to stalk you. You didn't love her, but you mislead her to believe you do so you can duck her all you wanted. Now she's in love with you. You can run but you can't hide. It takes two to tangle. It seems you enjoy being stalked by her because you talked so proudly about it.
You repeatedly told us about her her her but what really happened we don't know. Why did she start stalking you and for the fact that You kept on hiding from her but didn't have the guts to confront her, tells me that you must have done something with her. There's always two sides to a story. I want to hear her side too. A normal person will never stalk you the way she does-shes crazy and needs help, if what you said is true.
Why did you make it sound like you are all that and she's a slut and stalker who's crazy about you. I wouldn't date men who handle things like a no Brainer. If she is a truly a stalker, call the cop and put her in mental institution -Stop making fun of an ill person, attorney!!!💔 if you are truly an attorney, when someone threaten to kill herself, by law you are supposed to report her to the authorities and handle the issue privately.
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10.18.15. A few more text messages came over the weekend and missed calls, too, from her again. But all are being ignored again.
I keep having the fear that she might pop up somewhere unknowingly or that she might fool someone who knows me to take her to me. In fact, I've been so scared that this weekend I didn't even attend a relative's funeral in case she showed up there. The source told a friend who further told me that the stalker is going to do everything to see me. That doesn't make me feel any hotter but more like burning with fear instead.
What if she comes to my office and just won't leave? Ok, the cops can be called if I want to be that harsh and if all peaceful ways are exhausted without success.
What if she finds my house and comes there without leaving? Same method. Oh, that would be quite harsh, too.
According to the source, the stalker has some local accomplices. They have been driving her to my office to find me. I'll say when I do the restraining order, they, too, could be listed with her to keep away from my places.
Fear continues to overpower me. The other day I drove back to my office and saw a Somali lady with black hair peeking through a window near my door. I got scared that that could be her. So, now, whenever I'm back to my office building, I would drive around the parking lot and to the back and front of the building to make sure I'm safe without stalkers before I park my car and run into my office. Whenever I got out, I would look around before rushing to my car, too.
This is not good. I might have to get a guard soon.
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No ducking. No intimacy of any kind. No luring. What surprise a person would create such fearful thrill over this.
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Reporter, I would suggest reading the messages and viewing the pics, in case it should foreshadow/forewarn anything that could/would occur in the future. It's always better to know and be prepared/equipped than not know and be unsuspecting, if possible.
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I don't get it why you take a drastic measure to go into hiding like you are afraid, don't want to be found, like you did something wrong. Logic/common sense says it's normal to have fear but when you have fear in the presence of innocent (when you're innocent) breeds courage and when you have fear in the presence of guilt (when you're guilty of something) breeds cowardice.
Using this logic, I think you are guilty of something that's why you're running away hoping she'll disappear and your problem solved.
Good luck!
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I feel totally uncomfortable and unwilling to let her see me. She's so unreasonable that she'll blow it up to the world that I have met her in person, not that she has met me. lol
No. I have not done anything wrong and I'm not guilty.
I don't get it why you take a drastic measure to go into hiding like you are afraid, don't want to be found, like you did something wrong. Logic/common sense says it's normal to have fear but when you have fear in the presence of innocent (when you're innocent) breeds courage and when you have fear in the presence of guilt (when you're guilty of something) breeds cowardice.
Using this logic, I think you are guilty of something that's why you're running away hoping she'll disappear and your problem solved.
Good luck!
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Aws. Zoo siab uas koj ntseeg kuv thiab hos txhawb kuv siab ntsws thiab nawb.
Reporter, hlub os hlub os. 💗don't be afraid, people like that are losers. I just don't understand why someone would be stalking you pom duab on FB xwb. Ummmmm you sure you haven't made.........t o her? *wink. Tsi make sense but we are a big family in PH so we will ntseeg whatever you said mog. 😊
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I read some in the past, and they weren't pleasant. I'll just take them all to mean threats and I will always be careful wherever I go or whatever I do.
Thanks for the suggestion though. I'll think more about that. I haven't erased them because I want to keep them as evidence and proof of her stalking.
Reporter, I would suggest reading the messages and viewing the pics, in case it should foreshadow/forewarn anything that could/would occur in the future. It's always better to know and be prepared/equipped than not know and be unsuspecting, if possible.
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I don't want her to spread false words about me. lol
Reporter...you should do what I do!
I let them have their way with me but tell them we can't be together, because I'm gay! They would stop stalking me afterward! a win-win for both! :D ;D
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;D
Cas tsi muaj neeg stalk hlici ne??? :'( ntshe nws tsi zoo nkauj pob? Thiab ua factory work xwb.
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10.19.15. Only one call came today from her. No messages.
That's good news--fewer means that she's giving up and letting go.
I'm still cautious, however. Not just that I like Eau Claire a lot now but I'm keeping away to avoid any confrontation or unpleasant surprises.
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10.20.15, 12:04 a.m. There goes another call. This late in the night or this early in the morning and she calls.
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12:09 a.m. Another call came in again.
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12:20 a.m. Yet another call.
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That would have some meaning if the call was from someone else.
Cas reporter yuav haib ua luaj li lau! Tsktsktsk💚
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Reporter...try using some of the break up lines... O0
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Like?
Give me some examples, bro. Thanks. But we've never had any relationship. I'm not sure any break up line will work.
Reporter...try using some of the break up lines... O0
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10.21.15. The calls have slowed down. In fact, only two calls in the last day, though still late into the night. But nine more messages along with a few picture messages came again earlier today.
As usual, they aren't read or viewed. No need to.
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10.23.15. She can't stop sending pictures of herself, although I don't respond and I have no opened them to view. Only my phone tells me they are picture messages.
Then the text messages have continued even during day-time hours. Three came this afternoon between 4:43 p.m. and 4:47 p.m. Again, no reading.
But she seems to have the guts and motivation to keep making contacts.
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Like?
Give me some examples, bro. Thanks. But we've never had any relationship. I'm not sure any break up line will work.
Hmmm...okay you know your stalker better than I do.
Maybe it's time for you to play the game to win... LOL. Text her ten times more and repeatedly send pictures of whatever...she probably will be in so much bliss, she will stop and wait for the next message...LOL.
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10.25.15. A few more texts came over the weekend but got ignored. Somehow I've felt being terrorized by this lady with all these text and picture messages.
I keep wondering to myself: what does it feel like when someone wants another so much and can't get that person's attention at all? There must be some madness and bitterness in the stalker for sure. Feelings of being unwanted or unsuccessful.. .terrible for sure. Of course, I don't feel bad, since I've not sought this attention. Nor have I lured anyone into seeking me out in this manner.
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Will that really work? I think that if she thinks I'm interested in her, she'll be even more motivated to contact me back. This one is unlike any other girl we've known of. At one point, when I was still reading her texts, she said she knew I couldn't live without her--although it was the contrary. lol
Hmmm...okay you know your stalker better than I do.
Maybe it's time for you to play the game to win... LOL. Text her ten times more and repeatedly send pictures of whatever...she probably will be in so much bliss, she will stop and wait for the next message...LOL.
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Will that really work? I think that if she thinks I'm interested in her, she'll be even more motivated to contact me back. This one is unlike any other girl we've known of. At one point, when I was still reading her texts, she said she knew I couldn't live without her--although it was the contrary. lol
Well it works in this crazy madness method. Cuz nothing jives and none of your responses connects with anything she thinks. Its like you have your own world and she isn't a part of it. Now, here's the trick. You just suddenly say, we are not connecting. Nothing matters. Dumped...no more contact.
But you know your stalker.
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Right. I know my stalker. I don't think she will understand such miss-matchings. She will take the responding texts to mean I'm keeping in touch with her constantly or something of the sort.
I even had a girl talk to her one time in the recent past. I told the girl to tell the stalker that I already had someone. Yet the stalker asked to meet both of us for dinner. She begged the girl for permission. lol
"No way!" the girl said. "Never in my life will I do that."
Well it works in this crazy madness method. Cuz nothing jives and none of your responses connects with anything she thinks. Its like you have your own world and she isn't a part of it. Now, here's the trick. You just suddenly say, we are not connecting. Nothing matters. Dumped...no more contact.
But you know your stalker.
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Right, Hlici. Thanks for that affirmation. I'm not responding.
Attorney, don't let her get to you. That's exactly what she wants.....to ua Kom koj respond. Just ignore her.
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10.26.15. Another call came in at 9:14 a.m. today. I told a friend that the calls are still coming.
"Oh, she isn't giving up, is she?" said the friend.
"Looks like not," I said.
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I guess she's the Hmong Barbarella... :2funny:
She will never give up...
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I talked to a Hmong police officer about this. He said there are some in the community like that. Right, they don't give up. One old divorced lady, for example, demanded to marry a young married guy whom she met only once at a southern Minnesota new year vendor booth. :2funny:
I guess she's the Hmong Barbarella... :2funny:
She will never give up...
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10.27.15. One call and three messages came to my phone again this morning.
I think it's time I take this more seriously and get a restraining order for this woman to back her out. I don't have to live with the fear that someone might harm me or is watching over me from a distance or that she could pop up any time. My friends shouldn't have to be afraid to be with me or they shouldn't be thinking I'm in touch with this unreasonable person.
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10.29.15. More messages and even picture messages flooded my cell phone again in the last two days, especially earlier this morning. I'm not peeking into them.
Again, it is time to take this professionally by giving her one text message warning to stop the harassments or face the restraining order.
This is not that I don't respect her. It's just that she hasn't respected me and I've had enough harassments without my cause in any way.
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Wow, she's persistent. Her mottos must be:
If at first you don't succeed.....tr y, try, try again.
OR
I don't get worn down, I wear them down.
;D :D
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I think she's just mentally unstable. lol
This is not something she'll succeed in by trying over and over though.
Wow, she's persistent. Her mottos must be:
If at first you don't succeed.....tr y, try, try again.
OR
I don't get worn down, I wear them down.
;D :D
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October 12, 2015--Eau Claire, WI: Eau Claire is strange to me, but I feel safer here than back in St. Paul where I grew up in.
Lately, a stalker from another state has come to town and wanted to meet up with me for romantic indulgences. She has expressed her dying love for me. But we have never met before. She has seen my picture only on Facebook, and has not stopped to think that I might be photoshopping it or that I my have glossified it to appeal beyond my natural look. She said she is absolutely sure that I am her soul mate and that she was going to give me all her love and sacrifices and life.
The woman claimed in her messages that she has come to town on business matters and that she's very busy and cherished by so many and that she didn't have any time for me, even though I have not asked for her time or to meet up with her. But she stopped by my office to drop off a note and a bouquet of flowers last week when I was not in.
She didn't get to meet me. So, she stated in her new message that she was leaving St. Paul but that her friends didn't want her to leave, so she had to stay a few more weeks. Then another message followed that: she said she has left town two days ago and she was wondering why I had left my office so dark.
But last night a local friend called up a girl I knew and said someone from another state has been showing my picture around and asking if they knew who I was and that she claimed she has slept with me but then also said she has never met me before. "She's a very vicious lady," the friend said to the girl I knew. "We are not telling her about him. It's all trouble, and we don't want him involved with her."
I'll be in Eau Claire for another week to make sure she can't find me in my office.
I'm sure a few guys in here would love to have her number. O0
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I think she's just mentally unstable. lol
This is not something she'll succeed in by trying over and over though.
Mental instability can be frightening since you don't know what that individual is capable of doing and their unpredictable behavior. IF she is that way, just be cautious...... but I'm sure you're already aware of all this since you're in the legal profession and you've dealt with people like this.
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If I didn't respect her confidentialit y, I would have just given it out so you guys could terrorize and harass or court her to your likings. But, despite her illwill, I still respect her confidentialit y.
I'm sure a few guys in here would love to have her number. O0
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Right. Thank you for the advice. I have been careful about this and I have dealt with this very cautiously. I have seen things like this before. She isn't anything new. That's partly why I don't think her claim of love is genuine! lol
Sources say she claims she will soon be able to fly because she's so powerful. They have also said she would refuse to honor their requests for things; she insists that she would not honor their requests unless I see her in person.
Mental instability can be frightening since you don't know what that individual is capable of doing and their unpredictable behavior. IF she is that way, just be cautious...... but I'm sure you're already aware of all this since you're in the legal profession and you've dealt with people like this.
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11.03.15 A private anonymous source called in this morning and said the stalker has been in town all this time and still in town at this time.
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I have started protecting myself and not just hiding. I've alerted my office building manager and some colleagues about this stalker. Anyone asking for me will be questioned and I will be secretly notified first to see if they should point the person my way. If she becomes a threat, they'll get security involved.
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Maybe she secretly works for a collection agency.....I've heard they can be persistent as well. ;D :D
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Collection agents will go away if you write them a letter to tell them to back off. It must be in writing, not just orally over the phone.
But I understand the persistence you are referring to. True, they wouldn't give up and they don't take rejections personally.
But she's no collection agent. She probably lets her own feelings drive her instead of reasons and laws. I have no induced her, and yet she insists that I can't live without her when that's not true. I'm not even seeking her out. I'm not even interested in getting any more text, call or picture message from her. Is she too proud of herself?
Her actions are very disrespectful. Earlier today (11.10.15), the anonymous source informed me that the stalker plans to be in town through "Thanksgiving" new year and thinks that she can win me from any other girl I may be dating since I'm not married yet.
I understand persistence does succeed in many endeavors. But this case seems to be her temerity rather than a try, try-again-until-succeeding kind of thing. She isn't going to succeed here.
I have fought a case similar to this for a client before, and I know what type of person she seems to be. A new arrival from Thamkrabok with the old-fashioned mentality of chasing a man for a husband...even to be a second or third wife.
If ultimately the restraining order has to be issued, she could be sent to seminars for rehab programs.
Maybe she secretly works for a collection agency.....I've heard they can be persistent as well. ;D :D
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I think Reporter dude is secretly liking the attention, hahahaha.
But you know, having a stalker isn't as fun as guys would like to think it is. I've been stalked before, that was quite the experience.
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You're so funny, Hamster-Hero! lol
The feeling of being watched everywhere you go isn't fun to have.
I think Reporter dude is secretly liking the attention, hahahaha.
But you know, having a stalker isn't as fun as guys would like to think it is. I've been stalked before, that was quite the experience.
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11.13.15. The stalker has convinced herself that I'm interested in her. A call and other texts came in over the week and two more this morning that hit my phone at 9:27:26 a.m.
The anonymous source said last week that Ms. Stalker continued to seek my attention. She went as far as claiming that she could compete with the local girls for me.
What she doesn't know is that, even without any girl competing with her, she isn't winning anyone.
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I'm astonished she hasn't given up yet.........ma ybe "failure" is not in her vocabulary. ;D
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She has no plans to give up, according to the source. Perhaps it's viewed as "failure", that's why she isn't giving up. I think she needs to think of it as a change or an alternative or something so she wouldn't feel like losing or surrendering.
I'm astonished she hasn't given up yet.........ma ybe "failure" is not in her vocabulary. ;D
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11.16.15. Lots more text messages came again this week. Two calls came in yesterday.
I'm not opening my office door for anyone. Anyone coming to see me must have my permission in advance.
Eau Claire just celebrated its little new year and so I did have some fun here. :2funny: :2funny: Didn't meet anyone that I would kill for. But the sights were beautiful.
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You may want to start looking for housing in Eau Claire ;D ;D Looks like you'll be a permanent resident there :2funny: :2funny:
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Don't you think Menomonie or Hudson is closer, although fewer Hmong there and easier access to my office in St. Paul? :2funny: My chances of hooking up with a romantic chick are better in the city of Clear Water. A new house here is nothing more than preparation for a new life, a new girl or perhaps even a wife, correct? lol
You may want to start looking for housing in Eau Claire ;D ;D Looks like you'll be a permanent resident there :2funny: :2funny:
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11.20.15. Stalker has demonstrated herself to need rehab. Just over the week, the source said stalker claimed to have been talking to me for three consecutive nights and that was a big relief and satisfaction to her. She even went as far as saying we have made promises to each other. All the while, I had been out of town and never picked up any of her calls.
But a letter to my office from stalker, received today, says stalker is convinced we are a good pair for each other and that stalker has spoken to her spiritual advisors and they, too, have told her that she was predetermined to be with me. But she states further that true love does not have to be with the person and even if she cannot have me all she wanted was that she got to love me from the distance.
lol
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Don't you think Menomonie or Hudson is closer, although fewer Hmong there and easier access to my office in St. Paul? :2funny: My chances of hooking up with a romantic chick are better in the city of Clear Water. A new house here is nothing more than preparation for a new life, a new girl or perhaps even a wife, correct? lol
It seems you prefer the city of Clear Water and it's a great plan with new house and all that you mentioned. Now make it happens :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: ;D ;D :D :D :D perhaps then your lady admirer will leave you alone.
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A buck keeps his territories, even from other bullying bucks.
It seems you prefer the city of Clear Water and it's a great plan with new house and all that you mentioned. Now make it happens :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: ;D ;D :D :D :D perhaps then your lady admirer will leave you alone.
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11.23.15. The texts and calls simply won't stop. It's clear now that a restraining order is necessary.
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11.24.15. I have no more storage room for the stalker's text and picture messages. Each time I delete one, a new one quickly fills up the room. I can't delete fast enough, since I can't do mass deletions on this Samsung phone of mine.
That's very annoying.
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A buck keeps his territories, even from other bullying bucks.
I'm familiar with the City of Clear Water perhaps I could play fairy godmother ;D ;D ;D 11.24.15. I have no more storage room for the stalker's text and picture messages. Each time I delete one, a new one quickly fills up the room. I can't delete fast enough, since I can't do mass deletions on this Samsung phone of mine.
That's very annoying.
Get a new phone where you can do mass deletions and Black Friday has some pretty good deals.
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I'm keeping the messages for evidence on the restraining order. It's being drafted now.
I'm familiar with the City of Clear Water perhaps I could play fairy godmother ;D ;D ;D Get a new phone where you can do mass deletions and Black Friday has some pretty good deals.
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12.01.15. At least 7 text messages came over the holiday weekend. Another friend on FB said the stalker has messaged her, questioning what her relationship with me was. The stalker even accused me of having interest in the stalker. But, no, I have no interest in the stalker.
It's very clear that a restraining order needs to be in place. A defamation suit could come about, too, but it does not seem like the stalker would be able to pay for any damage. She's been floating in town without a car and traveling and living with friends only. She does not seem to have enough money to pay for any large amount from a defamation lawsuit, although I might still consider suing if she keeps this up.
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12.01.15. At least 7 text messages came over the holiday weekend. Another friend on FB said the stalker has messaged her, questioning what her relationship with me was. The stalker even accused me of having interest in the stalker. But, no, I have no interest in the stalker.
It's very clear that a restraining order needs to be in place. A defamation suit could come about, too, but it does not seem like the stalker would be able to pay for any damage. She's been floating in town without a car and traveling and living with friends only. She does not seem to have enough money to pay for any large amount from a defamation lawsuit, although I might still consider suing if she keeps this up.
Reporter, send her my way and your problem will be solved. lol.
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Sounds like someone I know in here. :2funny:
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Hi, my angel.
You need to help Reporter or he'd go insane soon.
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I'm torn about the restraining order.. a part of me think it's a little harsh and another part of me sympathized with you. Good luck!
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Hi, my angel.
You need to help Reporter or he'd go insane soon.
There's not much I can help him with except tell her that I'm his gf but I doubt that will help the situation either. You see, these type of people do not take "NO" for an answer. They will go to the extreme if they know that they can get away with it until they've been served with a restraining order. Being stalked is very scary. You always have to watch where you go. Who you're with. Always scouting the places before you enter. Can you imagine living and having to watch your back all the time? I've been there.
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There's not much I can help him with except tell her that I'm his gf but I doubt that will help the situation either. You see, these type of people do not take "NO" for an answer. They will go to the extreme if they know that they can get away with it until they've been served with a restraining order. Being stalked is very scary. You always have to watch where you go. Who you're with. Always scouting the places before you enter. Can you imagine living and having to watch your back all the time? I've been there.
It seems you know how stalkers work, too damn well I have to say. You were one, weren't you? I mean a stalker....... not the victim. ;D
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There's not much I can help him with except tell her that I'm his gf but I doubt that will help the situation either. You see, these type of people do not take "NO" for an answer. They will go to the extreme if they know that they can get away with it until they've been served with a restraining order. Being stalked is very scary. You always have to watch where you go. Who you're with. Always scouting the places before you enter. Can you imagine living and having to watch your back all the time? I've been there.
Someone is stalking me on fb right now. This is far from stalking physically, but it's still very scary. She waits for me days and nights and whenever I sign in she'd message me right a way. I'm really nervous whenever I signed into fb.