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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: YAX on March 11, 2019, 02:09:45 PM

Title: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: YAX on March 11, 2019, 02:09:45 PM: If your spouse cheats on you and wants to leave, would begging them to stay really work? I'm just curious why people would beg. I believe there's no point in begging since it'll only make them see you lower than they already see you, right?
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: VillainousHero on March 12, 2019, 12:02:35 AM: I begged...first time ever in my whole life.

Now I realized why I have never begged for anything in my whole life up to that point.

Reason...I had no reason. I couldn't give anyone a reason why I did what I did.

Now, I know why now. I am better than...I have always been better and now I am proof that I am better than gold. I am the platitude of platinum - Trophy! O0
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: Dok_Champa on March 12, 2019, 08:38:10 AM: Listen to the wisdom of this song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nW9Cu6GYqxo (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nW9Cu6GYqxo)
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: theking on March 12, 2019, 05:44:59 PM: Sadly some still think they CAN make someone love them even by force i.e., bride-napping, forced and/or arranged marriage, etc.
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: $weet_$ymphony on March 15, 2019, 08:43:46 AM: I would be happy to let them go. I deserve better than to be cheated on. They should be the one begging me to stay. Plain and simple.
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: Fancee on March 15, 2019, 08:52:37 AM: Quote from: YAX on March 11, 2019, 02:09:45 PM
If your spouse cheats on you and wants to leave, would begging them to stay really work? I'm just curious why people would beg. I believe there's no point in begging since it'll only make them see you lower than they already see you, right?
Until one is in that shoe, only then would one know.

We as human beings often times say things now, but when the situation hits us, it is a different story then.
So we should never assume what we would do now ... vs. then.
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: theking on March 15, 2019, 04:55:43 PM: Quote from: Fancee on March 15, 2019, 08:52:37 AM
Until one is in that shoe, only then would one know.

We as human beings often times say things now, but when the situation hits us, it is a different story then.
So we should never assume what we would do now ... vs. then.

In other words, *depends* on the individual or case... O0
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on March 18, 2019, 09:11:37 AM: Quote from: Fancee on March 15, 2019, 08:52:37 AM
Until one is in that shoe, only then would one know.

We as human beings often times say things now, but when the situation hits us, it is a different story then.
So we should never assume what we would do now ... vs. then.
That's what I've been saying all along.
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: Gucci K on March 18, 2019, 11:20:04 AM: i only begged to hit it one more time and then phuck them in the a$$! ha!
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: YAX on March 18, 2019, 02:01:56 PM: Quote from: ZDN on March 18, 2019, 11:20:04 AM
i only begged to hit it one more time and then phuck them in the a$$! ha!
She might never leave if you did that.
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: Gucci K on March 18, 2019, 02:18:02 PM: Quote from: YAX on March 18, 2019, 02:01:56 PM
She might never leave if you did that.
gotta send her off right! her new man will say, i didn't prepare her good enough! ha!
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: Fancee on March 19, 2019, 03:44:44 PM: Quote from: Mr_Mechanic on March 18, 2019, 09:11:37 AM
That's what I've been saying all along.
So if someone asks me, I would say "I don't know. I only know yesterday and at this moment. I'm not even sure about tonight".
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: Cali Guy on March 21, 2019, 01:55:23 PM: When desperate enough I guess people will beg but you can’t push someone to love or stay with you.
Title: Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
Post by: Hung_Low on April 12, 2019, 09:19:48 PM: Quote from: YAX on March 11, 2019, 02:09:45 PM
If your spouse cheats on you and wants to leave, would begging them to stay really work? I'm just curious why people would beg. I believe there's no point in begging since it'll only make them see you lower than they already see you, right?

It depend if kids are involved... unless you are in their shoe, you will never understand.