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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: ProudLao on May 31, 2019, 07:21:01 AM

Title: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: ProudLao on May 31, 2019, 07:21:01 AM
No one is perfect, so list them up  ;D
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: VillainousHero on May 31, 2019, 08:07:37 AM
my eyes are up here...not below my belt line... :2funny:
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: Reporter on May 31, 2019, 08:59:45 AM
Always fishing.

How can any woman who cares about family put up with that, huh?
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on May 31, 2019, 09:16:42 AM
 :dontknow: :icon_scratch:
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: flint-rod on May 31, 2019, 09:44:46 AM
imma phenomenal lover which makes me desired by many... i kid, i kid... lol!
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: theking on May 31, 2019, 09:56:54 AM
Narrow minded ignorant folks see me as a BIG RED FLAG because I'm a fan of FACTS and use it to beat their ignorance and thus, caused them to foam at the mouth when I call them out for making up stuff and challenged them to prove it... ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: Yebleng on May 31, 2019, 11:08:02 AM
My impatience.
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: lilly on May 31, 2019, 11:17:56 AM
:dontknow: :icon_scratch:

I concur, because that's for others to say about me.  So my answer is same:  :dontknow: :icon_scratch:
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: VillainousHero on May 31, 2019, 11:29:01 AM
I concur, because that's for others to say about me.  So my answer is same:  :dontknow: :icon_scratch:

Ummm   look in the mirror...with low lights.  :2funny:
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: Dok_Champa on May 31, 2019, 03:09:49 PM
Not the biggest red flag but a red flag, loves Kdrama.
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: Reporter on June 03, 2019, 04:37:13 AM
I did it again this Sunday. My third time already this spring.

Always fishing.

How can any woman who cares about family put up with that, huh?
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: Reporter on June 03, 2019, 04:37:46 AM
Sounds like the type who get mad when others just joking around for fun.

Umm it's hard to realize your own red flags because you're biased to like yourself already so at most you'll only be able to list your worst qualities if you even have that kind of self-awareness. Red flags are more like figurative warnings that other people notice about you.

For instance, one red flag that I notice about certain PH users is their inability to disagree with others in specific matters without resorting to name-calling, blatant hostility, or childish behavior. And since I want my PH experience to be pleasant, I usually ignore them.

But since we're all on PH killing time let me join in the fun and try to answer the question anyway. One of my biggest "red flags" is that I have a tendency to overanalyze or complicate situations simply by thinking too much. I also like things a certain way and will micromanage in order to get things done right. I can be entirely too serious sometimes, letting people's jokes go over my head and answering them somberly and then realizing too late that they were joking. On the flip side, I sometimes think people are joking when they're being serious. I also don't like to talk about myself unless I'm asked directly; this arising from the fact that many people ask me questions not out of pure interest but just as a way of opening a conversation where they just want to talk about themselves. In reality I don't mind not talking about myself and enjoy just talking about them if that's what they want however I dislike the disingenuous way it starts with questions about me that they clearly have no interest in.
Title: Re: What's the biggest red flag about you?
Post by: Peachy Fish on June 04, 2019, 08:24:15 AM
If I know that you did something shady towards your parents or spouse, we cannot be friends. If you don't have respect for them, there is no light in day that you would respect our friendship, too.