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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: hmgROCK on September 23, 2019, 02:44:40 PM

Title: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: hmgROCK on September 23, 2019, 02:44:40 PM: I know the youngest son
Supposed to stay behind and look after the parents
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: lexicon on September 23, 2019, 04:33:38 PM: Depends.

If you're asking, then maybe you need to examine the situation.

This isn't a cheap shot at you. I lived with my parents into my single 30s and can sympathize.
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: theking on September 23, 2019, 04:37:37 PM: It's NOT ok if you just stay in "mommy's basement" and play COD all night and leech off them..

And no, this ain't the primitive days anymore so the "youngest son" don't have to stay with them...but more of a share responsibility among the siblings...
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: DuMa on September 23, 2019, 06:59:36 PM: The ones staying behind is the one that can't make it in the world.
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: thePoster on September 24, 2019, 02:22:50 AM: No, not if you are the one supporting your parents.
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: hmgROCK on September 24, 2019, 09:06:06 AM: Quote from: thePoster on September 24, 2019, 02:22:50 AM
No, not if you are the one supporting your parents.

Parents getting old and sick
Can’t take care of themselves

Its either this or hospice
All my brothers and sisters already say no

Ask me and my wife
Who don’t have any kids yet
To move back in with them

I don’t think they have much time left
5 tops

I will be taking over the property and house
Once the both pass away
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: one-tai on September 24, 2019, 09:53:42 AM: What makes you think that you'll inherit their property and house?
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: lexicon on September 24, 2019, 10:12:26 AM: Quote from: one-tai on September 24, 2019, 09:53:42 AM
What makes you think that you'll inherit their property and house?

I had the same thought. Wasn't going to ask but since you already did...

Family dynamics are different for every family, but...my suggestion is to make sure that's adamantly clear right now. Nothing is sadder than when family fight over money and possessions. I'm not implying that will happen in your case, but I've seen it happen more often than I could care for.
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: one-tai on September 24, 2019, 10:47:12 AM: Quote from: nkaujsee on September 24, 2019, 10:41:58 AM
w/ the economy now a days I don't think anyone care anymore...

What's going on with our economy now a days and why does anyone not care anymore?
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: hmgROCK on September 25, 2019, 10:23:19 AM: Quote from: nkaujsee on September 24, 2019, 10:41:58 AM
w/ the economy now a days I don't think anyone care anymore...

Im only speaking from experience
But when i was visiting California
You got full grown kids and their wives and kids
Living with the parents
The house was small too

Me, I don’t think nothing personally of it
Its great, you know
Free babysitter

Plus us Hmong culture,
The kids take care of their elderly
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: hmgROCK on September 25, 2019, 10:26:06 AM: Quote from: theking on September 23, 2019, 04:37:37 PM
It's NOT ok if you just stay in "mommy's basement" and play COD all night and leech off them..

And no, this ain't the primitive days anymore so the "youngest son" don't have to stay with them...but more of a share responsibility among the siblings...

This dude makes fun of people who still live with their parents
But he doesn’t know, admit to lose face
He is -$200,000+++ in the hole from his mortgage

A poor homeless person with zero debt, HAS MORE MONEY THAN HIM
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: ProudLao on September 25, 2019, 11:03:38 AM: You are doing exactly what you claimed he is doing.
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: Reporter on September 25, 2019, 03:18:34 PM: You mean he is doing exactly what he is putting the other guy down on.

Quote from: ProudLao on September 25, 2019, 11:03:38 AM
You are doing exactly what you claimed he is doing.
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: Cali Guy on September 25, 2019, 11:07:52 PM: Quote from: hmgROCK on September 24, 2019, 09:06:06 AM
Parents getting old and sick
Can’t take care of themselves

Its either this or hospice
All my brothers and sisters already say no

Ask me and my wife
Who don’t have any kids yet
To move back in with them

I don’t think they have much time left
5 tops

I will be taking over the property and house
Once the both pass away

Good for you! Having your parents with you during this time would be a blessing for your soul. Enjoy while time still permits.
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: theking on September 25, 2019, 11:28:31 PM: Quote from: hmgROCK on September 25, 2019, 10:26:06 AM
This dude makes fun of people who still live with their parents
But he doesn’t know, admit to lose face
He is -$200,000+++ in the hole from his mortgage

A poor homeless person with zero debt, HAS MORE MONEY THAN HIM

Just pointing the FRAUD for what he is...Purposely went "underground" to steal from the poor...as well as leech off his own "mommy" by staying in her "basement" all night playing COD ...zero contribution at all...

Then comes on PH to spread his lies just to get caught red handed by other PH members ...No wonder they called you "retarded"... YOU JUST CAN'T STOP REPEATING YOUR EPIC FAIL CYCLE ..;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Is living with your parents, still being look down upon in the Hmong community
Post by: nightrider on September 28, 2019, 01:49:50 PM: Only those whom think they are so better off can look down on others whom are still living with their parents. Price of living independently is just to damn high. If you can save $20-60k/yr living alone
and can bring home a different a guy/girl every night to your place then more power to you. I rather stayed in the basement saving what little money I can afford to stash away.