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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: theking on September 23, 2019, 04:42:17 PM

Title: So the Asian girl Brock raped at Stanford finally step out??
Post by: theking on September 23, 2019, 04:42:17 PM
She's no longer "Emily Doe"...

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Title: Re: So the Asian girl Brock raped at Stanford finally step out??
Post by: DuMa on September 23, 2019, 07:02:24 PM
so that's the type of girls that goes black out at parties eh?   

Raping unconscious anything is totally wrong. 
Title: Re: So the Asian girl Brock raped at Stanford finally step out??
Post by: azn-guy on September 23, 2019, 07:49:59 PM
this was a sucky situation for her, getting rape by this dude and having to find out that he only got 3 months in jail instead of 6 to 14 years
Title: Re: So the Asian girl Brock raped at Stanford finally step out??
Post by: YAX on September 24, 2019, 10:42:24 AM
You mean, convicted Rapist Brock Turner?
Title: Re: So the Asian girl Brock raped at Stanford finally step out??
Post by: lexicon on September 24, 2019, 11:39:27 AM
I want to stir the pot.

Quiet some years ago I had a friend who had a family member that was raped by her "friend" at a party. Long story short, they went to a party, guy gets handsy and forces himself upon her. The girl's family forces the rapist to marry the victim but with the already ill feelings towards one another, it does not end in wedded bliss whatsoever.

Another story involves an entire soccer team raping a teenager.

I had a seatmate while traveling, who happened to be Hmong, and throughout the entire trip he was showing me photos of some 15yr old girl he wanted to hook up with. Bear in mind, my fellow passenger was in his mid 20s at that time. I should also mention that during the trip he was constantly being handsy with another teenage female passenger who happened to be travelling alone.

And lastly, locker room talk of "training" GIRLS. Not women, girls.

Now, all that being said...was there, has there ever been or does there exist a rape culture in the Hmong Community? Thoughts?
Title: Re: So the Asian girl Brock raped at Stanford finally step out??
Post by: azn-guy on September 24, 2019, 12:18:20 PM
Quote from: lexicon on September 24, 2019, 11:39:27 AM


Now, all that being said...was there, has there ever been or does there exist a rape culture in the Hmong Community? Thoughts?
yea it except the dont call it rape they call it bride kidnapping
Title: Re: So the Asian girl Brock raped at Stanford finally step out??
Post by: lexicon on September 24, 2019, 01:01:24 PM
Quote from: azn-guy on September 24, 2019, 12:18:20 PM
yea it except the dont call it rape they call it bride kidnapping

Yes, that's one perspective.

But an argument can be made that bride kidnapping, bridenapping or marriage by abduction is an altogether different subject.
Title: Re: So the Asian girl Brock raped at Stanford finally step out??
Post by: one-tai on September 24, 2019, 01:09:10 PM
A rape culture? I suppose, that or individuals (regardless of race) who think it is ok to rape women and girls.
Title: Re: So the Asian girl Brock raped at Stanford finally step out??
Post by: lexicon on September 24, 2019, 02:18:06 PM
Quote from: one-tai on September 24, 2019, 01:09:10 PM
A rape culture? I suppose, that or individuals (regardless of race) who think it is ok to rape women and girls.

Maybe rape culture was inaccurate.

How about due the Patriarchal law of rule (men first), rape in our community isn't investigated, considered bad/evil/wrong and blame is put on the victim more so than the perpetrator?