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Title: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: lilly on September 27, 2021, 10:13:36 AM
Damn it, man!  Why does life have to suck for so many of us?!!!  I want to know!  Like, some people don't wake up and choose a crappy life.  Or, people don't choose to be born and suffer every day of their life!  OF COURSE! People make their own luck and their own way and create their own happiness.  BUT!  You have to admit that, for some people, the stars seem to be aligned better for them than for others.  For others, it's one shit show after the next.  It's so friggin' tiring!  I swear!

So, is life tough for you too?  If life is NOT tough for you, well, damn!  Good for you!   :P :D  If it's tough for you, tell me why and how it's tough for you.  Thanks!
Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: lilly on September 27, 2021, 10:26:46 AM
It's tough for me because:
- Ever since I was little, it's been a tough life.
- I thought the guy I married would help make life easier but he only made it worse and I wasted 20+ years of energy and time on him.  I am still paying for the repercussions of choosing to marry him.
- I can't help being who I am because of what I went through.  If I don't smile all the time, I can't help it.  That's how life shaped me.  But I also understand that who I am, is not what a lot of people deserve either.  I wish I could always be chipper and happy but that's not me.  I feel bad for the people in my life because I hardly ever receive opportunities to smile.  But it doesn't mean that I don't love them.  It just means that I am working hard, every day, to survive.  I wish I could be someone else sometimes so that I can smile more often.  But damn it, I can't be someone else!
Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: hmgROCK on September 27, 2021, 10:44:30 AM
Damn it, man!  Why does life have to suck for so many of us?!!!  I want to know!  Like, some people don't wake up and choose a crappy life.  Or, people don't choose to be born and suffer every day of their life!  OF COURSE! People make their own luck and their own way and create their own happiness.  BUT!  You have to admit that, for some people, the stars seem to be aligned better for them than for others.  For others, it's one shit show after the next.  It's so friggin' tiring!  I swear!

So, is life tough for you too?  If life is NOT tough for you, well, damn!  Good for you!   :P :D  If it's tough for you, tell me why and how it's tough for you.  Thanks!

Naw

Life is not tough
You should think about getting remarried again
Having two person is much easier than flying solo

When i was single.... man it was rough money wise $$$
I was cutting close every month

I was never hungry but it was pretty closed

Than meeting my now wife
She help carry some of my weight

MUCH EASIER

Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: hmgROCK on September 27, 2021, 10:50:23 AM
It's tough for me because:
- Ever since I was little, it's been a tough life.
- I thought the guy I married would help make life easier but he only made it worse and I wasted 20+ years of energy and time on him.  I am still paying for the repercussions of choosing to marry him.
- I can't help being who I am because of what I went through.  If I don't smile all the time, I can't help it.  That's how life shaped me.  But I also understand that who I am, is not what a lot of people deserve either.  I wish I could always be chipper and happy but that's not me.  I feel bad for the people in my life because I hardly ever receive opportunities to smile.  But it doesn't mean that I don't love them.  It just means that I am working hard, every day, to survive.  I wish I could be someone else sometimes so that I can smile more often.  But damn it, I can't be someone else!

How many kids do you have??
I have older uncle who never been married
Really nice.... has has own place and stuff
Really dependable and hardworking

Will definitely make you smile for many years to come
Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: DuMa on September 27, 2021, 01:42:43 PM
It is all mental health issue.  You need to become your own shrink or hear them motivational speech people to be uplifted on the daily.  Like drinking a can of energy drink that gets you results like triple dose yourself in strong coffee.  That feeling is needed for some to stay on their sanity side for a while. 

Life tough but you gotta see that your tough life is better than most other people lives out there.  At least you have this and that.  A lot of other people have nothing but yet, to them, that is their daily norm and they are not complaining much about it. 

Doesn't matter who you are, even Jesus has issues.   O0


Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on September 27, 2021, 01:54:16 PM
its got its days.  still breathing, so just got to keep pushing forward.
Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: hmgROCK on September 27, 2021, 02:28:12 PM
its got its days.  still breathing, so just got to keep pushing forward.

Keep trucking brother
Working on that grind
Don’t forget to laugh sometimes
Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: theking on September 27, 2021, 04:37:07 PM
Life is much better now compared to Laos...

But still not as bad as THAT GUY:

Quote
DAMN

I HATE MYSELF :'( :'(
Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: Visualmon on September 28, 2021, 02:11:54 AM
Kuv tsis kam qhia.  :D
Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: Dok_Champa on September 28, 2021, 12:33:44 PM
This year has been particular tough for me.  It's one of my most challenging year.  When you are going through a tunnel, you don't see the light only darkness but eventually the light will appear. 

Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: hmgROCK on September 28, 2021, 02:20:25 PM
this year has been great for me
i get to spent lots of time with the honey traveling
and just spending time together
make my love for her even stronger

she going take me to florida soon

 ;D ;D ;D O0 O0 O0

i go whatever she want to go
Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: Cali Guy on September 28, 2021, 08:12:27 PM
this year has been great for me
i get to spent lots of time with the honey traveling
and just spending time together
make my love for her even stronger

she going take me to florida soon

 ;D ;D ;D O0 O0 O0

i go whatever she want to go

How much older is your sugar momma?  ;D ;D
Title: Re: Damn, is life tough for you too?
Post by: hmgROCK on September 28, 2021, 11:04:45 PM
How much older is your sugar momma?  ;D ;D

my sugar momma is about the same age as me
she takes me on sweet vacation and love me alot