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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: theking on January 23, 2022, 10:03:29 PM

Title: Glad my wife & I don't have any issues with keeping our ex's photos and memories
Post by: theking on January 23, 2022, 10:03:29 PM
I hear stories of couples fighting over this. One wants to keep his/her past memories but the other says no and thus it becomes a big fight. It's over nothing really because that's just the past IMO. Guess some folks are just really insecure.. ???

My wife and I still have photos of our ex as well as things they've given to us in the past. We also stay in touch with some of our ex and are still friends with them. No issues with us what so ever...
Title: Re: Glad my wife & I don't have any issues with keeping our ex's photos and memories
Post by: Freeman on January 27, 2022, 06:28:21 AM
I till have tons of my ex photos but my wife and I don't talk about it. I know my doesn't like to talk anout my ex. Now she could be my e,x any time. I mean soon
Title: Re: Glad my wife & I don't have any issues with keeping our ex's photos and memories
Post by: Reporter on January 27, 2022, 06:45:59 AM
Will you keep our wife's photos when she becomes your ex? :2funny:

I till have tons of my ex photos but my wife and I don't talk about it. I know my doesn't like to talk anout my ex. Now she could be my e,x any time. I mean soon
Title: Re: Glad my wife & I don't have any issues with keeping our ex's photos and memories
Post by: Dok_Champa on January 27, 2022, 08:24:12 AM
Yes I'm one.  My mom told me to leave all photos of my ex/male friends behind and she said the only photo I should have from now on is that of my husband.  So, that's what I did.  I think the elders are wise by doing that.  Some couple would be no problem having such around while others could be different.
Title: Re: Glad my wife & I don't have any issues with keeping our ex's photos and memories
Post by: Reporter on January 27, 2022, 09:28:34 AM
Some just won't say anything till they are ready to move on.

Yes I'm one.  My mom told me to leave all photos of my ex/male friends behind and she said the only photo I should have from now on is that of my husband.  So, that's what I did.  I think the elders are wise by doing that. Some couple would be no problem having such around while others could be different.
Title: Re: Glad my wife & I don't have any issues with keeping our ex's photos and memories
Post by: theking on January 27, 2022, 04:12:50 PM
Some couple would be no problem having such around while others could be different.

BINGO!

My wife and I have been together for many years and we have zero issues with it. Plus, we are still friends with some of our ex's...

Nothing applies to all universally except death....
Title: Re: Glad my wife & I don't have any issues with keeping our ex's photos and memories
Post by: Freeman on January 27, 2022, 08:40:48 PM
Will you keep our wife's photos when she becomes your ex? :2funny:

Yes why not. There in nothing wrong to keep pic of her. I will keep tons of her as well
Title: Re: Glad my wife & I don't have any issues with keeping our ex's photos and memories
Post by: Reporter on January 28, 2022, 10:06:02 AM
Heated divorce case got to court, so both sides were being questioned on every detail.

Attorney to opposing lady: "Why were you mad when you husband called you Mary during sex?"

Opposing lady: "That's because my name is not Mary."

all is good until someone yawns out or calls out someone's else's name while they sleeping and or you know while you know...... :2funny: