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Relationship => The Single & Dating Scenes => Topic started by: Gracified23 on July 09, 2022, 03:01:39 AM

Title: Do you know what frame control is?
Post by: Gracified23 on July 09, 2022, 03:01:39 AM

The person most invested in a relationship feels the most attraction and the person least invested has the most amount of power.

Now ask yourself this: who's controlling the frame right now. You or her? 

Power dynamic is REAL. Overtime it's gonna lead to who's chasing who.

So how do you know when you CONTROL the frame? When she wants to PLEASE YOU rather than be PLEASED.

The beta male worries how he might please his woman. The Alpha male's woman worries how she might PLEASE HIM.

Title: Re: Do you know what frame control is?
Post by: Visualmon on July 09, 2022, 04:19:39 AM

I'm the alpha male. I'm worry what she's gonna do with me.  ;D

Title: Re: Do you know what frame control is?
Post by: Gracified23 on July 09, 2022, 08:13:54 AM

Quote from: Visualmon on July 09, 2022, 04:19:39 AM

I'm the alpha male. I'm worry what she's gonna do with me.  ;D

What's your definition of an alpha male?

Title: Re: Do you know what frame control is?
Post by: Gracified23 on July 09, 2022, 08:29:38 AM

How to maintain her? It's simple...alway s answer her hypergamous doubt with a definitive YES.

Let me repeat: always answer her hypergamous doubt with a definitive YES.

This means she must feel confident you are her best option.

She must always FEEL you are the BEST SHE CAN DO.

If she sees you as her SUPERIOR, she'll never leave you.

Title: Re: Do you know what frame control is?
Post by: Gracified23 on July 09, 2022, 06:50:40 PM

Now you may think you have confident and frame.. let me tell you this... that's still wont help below average guys at all.
They're invisible to women. Women know their worth.