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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: theking on October 06, 2022, 11:01:17 PM

Title: I would considered this a dumb question in regards to finance and investments
Post by: theking on October 06, 2022, 11:01:17 PM
"My brother pays my mother’s mortgage and co-owns her home. How can I ensure that my other sibling and I each inherit 1/3 share?"
Title: Re: I would considered this a dumb question in regards to finance and investments
Post by: Cali Guy on October 07, 2022, 01:48:27 PM
Sounds like some Hmong life insurance policy’s stories. One person pays for it but when it’s time to collect, everyone wants a piece.

One of the saddest thing, fighting for stuff after a parent’s passing so have a will or a trust. Recommending a trust so that the children will have access right away instead of going through probate.
Title: Re: I would considered this a dumb question in regards to finance and investments
Post by: VillainousHero on October 09, 2022, 05:19:43 AM
Some people will always be(e) leeches or sucking parasites even when it comes to family.

Unsolicited advice to those kinds of people.  Your parents gave you life, that's all you need.  Go make a life for yourself.  Stop trying to leech off even from the dead.

Who ever pays for it, owns it.

If anything else is given, it's a gift and be grateful to whatever extra is given.
Title: Re: I would considered this a dumb question in regards to finance and investments
Post by: Reporter on October 09, 2022, 09:01:18 AM
Yeah. He’s right: How can he have that attitude towards this?
Title: Re: I would considered this a dumb question in regards to finance and investments
Post by: theking on October 09, 2022, 10:42:41 PM
Sounds like some Hmong life insurance policy’s stories. One person pays for it but when it’s time to collect, everyone wants a piece.

One of the saddest thing, fighting for stuff after a parent’s passing so have a will or a trust. Recommending a trust so that the children will have access right away instead of going through probate.

Crazy and sad at the same time...
Title: Re: I would considered this a dumb question in regards to finance and investments
Post by: theking on October 09, 2022, 10:43:32 PM
Some people will always be(e) leeches or sucking parasites even when it comes to family.

Unsolicited advice to those kinds of people.  Your parents gave you life, that's all you need.  Go make a life for yourself.  Stop trying to leech off even from the dead.

Who ever pays for it, owns it.

If anything else is given, it's a gift and be grateful to whatever extra is given.


I couldn't have said it better... O0
Title: Re: I would considered this a dumb question in regards to finance and investments
Post by: theking on October 09, 2022, 10:44:42 PM
Yeah. He’s right: How can he have that attitude towards this?

Unfortunately, some are just selfish like that....