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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: theking on June 19, 2023, 01:51:24 AM
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I used to shower twice a day during morning and night but now I'm mainly just do it at night now. How about you?
Man Asks If He's Wrong For Refusing To Sleep In Bed With His Wife Unless She Showers After Work
A husband wonders if he was too harsh on his wife after refusing to sleep beside her and instead moving to the couch, he explained that his wife works long hours at her job, and would prefer if when she came home, she showered. the 33-year-old man revealed that his wife works as an OB-GYN at a hospital, and recently mentioned that she is often exposed to a lot of bodily fluids while working, which is a completely normal feat for doctors.
"While I'm proud of her for doing such an important job, I'm uncomfortable with the idea of sleeping in the same bed as her without her showering first," he admitted. While he's tried telling his wife multiple times that he would feel more comfortable with her taking a shower, she disagrees, saying that it would be "unnecessary."
She told him that she's still fairly clean when coming home from the hospital since she wears protective gear such as gloves, makes sure to change out her scrubs regularly, and takes the appropriate precautions to avoid cross-contamination.
"I still feel uneasy about the potential exposure to bodily fluids, and I don't think it's an unreasonable request for her to take a quick shower before bed," he continued. As a solution, he's decided to just sleep on the couch in their living room instead of sleeping next to her in their bed.