PebHmong Discussion Forum
Relationship => General Relationship => Topic started by: hmgROCK on April 14, 2025, 10:49:22 PM
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these white men’s relationships advice don’t work on hmong people
culture difference
i won’t divorce someone over “he don’t respect my space”
LMAO WTF
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these are like white peoples issue
GET BACK IN THE HMONG KITCHEN
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look man
if you are having relationship problems
you need to call your clan and have them come lecture your ass
you will lose face
and be sooo ashamed
you just stop cheating
;D ;D ;D O0 O0 O0
none of this meeka therapy shyt
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Some of their insight is valuable, especially when it comes to strategies about how to heal and understanding attachment styles, BUT everything else is unsustainable and even garbage.
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Some of their insight is valuable, especially when it comes to strategies about how to heal and understanding attachment styles, BUT everything else is unsustainable and even garbage.
those are just the white mens problem for white folks
i don’t remember a hmong divorcing over “not respecting my space”. ;D ;D ;D
hahaha
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my uncle is brutal
you don’t want to find him lecturing you and your spouse ass
“i want my $3,000 back!!!!… you say you CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT HER”
“come begging me for money to marry your wife and today you do this to me”
$3000 plus interest
:D :D :D :D
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those are just the white mens problem for white folks
i don’t remember a hmong divorcing over “not respecting my space”. ;D ;D ;D
hahaha
Exactly. If you want space and independence then don't get married. In fact, don't be in a relationship at all. If you feel horny, pay a sex worker. If you feel sad and need someone to talk to, pay a therapist. If you want someone to hang out with, join a club. If you want someone to accompany you to an event, pay an escort.
Stop misleading someone else to believe that you want a partnership with them.
And by chance if you've already conned someone into a relationship and now you want out, have the decency to have the talk with them instead of:
cheat, pull back, stonewall, breadcrumb, or ghost
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Exactly. If you want space and independence then don't get married. In fact, don't be in a relationship at all. If you feel horny, pay a sex worker. If you feel sad and need someone to talk to, pay a therapist. If you want someone to hang out with, join a club. If you want someone to accompany you to an event, pay an escort.
Stop misleading someone else to believe that you want a partnership with them.
And by chance if you've already conned someone into a relationship and now you want out, have the decency to have the talk with them instead of:
cheat, pull back, stonewall, breadcrumb, or ghost
lol…. damn
you got issue girl
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those are white peoples problems
many of us hmong guy are lucky to even have a girl
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Hmong divorce rate is too high, unacceptable. So Hmong advices are no work either. We got to go back to basics. inteligence, integrity and intensity...oh wrong one. Hope, faith, and love. ;D
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you got issue girl
"girl"??
..'what happen to"...
There no girls here, bro
Just us dudes
No need to lied
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lol…. damn
you got issue girl
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those are white peoples problems
many of us hmong guy are lucky to even have a girl
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I don't have these issues because I don't get into these situationships . With me, it's all in or it ain't happening. I'll talk to you on the phone, maybe enjoy a movie or get some pho, but I don't play house.
Boyfriend/girlfiend relationships are unbiblical and pointless. If two people want to be exclusive and spend a lot of time together, then they might as well get married. Then they can have all the sex they want, spend money on each other, attend public and family events all they want, ALL within a marriage.
You know who does have those issues? People who date like mes kas people.
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I don't have these issues because I don't get into these situationships . With me, it's all in or it ain't happening. I'll talk to you on the phone, maybe enjoy a movie or get some pho, but I don't play house.
Boyfriend/girlfiend relationships are unbiblical and pointless. If two people want to be exclusive and spend a lot of time together, then they might as well get married. Then they can have all the sex they want, spend money on each other, attend public and family events all they want, ALL within a marriage.
You know who does have those issues? People who date like mes kas people.
those are white people's problem
we asian have a strong family structure
also have the lowest divorce rate in the world
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CULTURE DIFFERENCES
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I disagree and here's why
First off, can you measure my love? Can you measure a kadoo's person love? Can you measure a hmong person's love?
So you see, if Love is universal then to treat it, you need the universal antidote. The phrase, "I love you" or "I hate you" or I want a divorce are all universal coin phrases in all languages. We are not like dogs where we just sniff each other's butt and call it a day..
So if I need love advice, I can get it from a hmong, a kaydoo, a viet, a white person or anyone that is logically sounding with their advice. Sex is universal. It feels good no matter who they are. The antidote should then be universal as well. O0
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I disagree and here's why
First off, can you measure my love? Can you measure a kadoo's person love? Can you measure a hmong person's love?
So you see, if Love is universal then to treat it, you need the universal antidote. The phrase, "I love you" or "I hate you" or I want a divorce are all universal coin phrases in all languages. We are not like dogs where we just sniff each other's butt and call it a day..
So if I need love advice, I can get it from a hmong, a kaydoo, a viet, a white person or anyone that is logically sounding with their advice. Sex is universal. It feels good no matter who they are. The antidote should then be universal as well. O0
statistics speaking from mathematical viewpoint
asian tend to have the lowest divorce rate
THATS JUST STRAIGHT UP FACT
GOOGLE IT
CHATGPT
ASK YOUR COWORKER
ITS TRUE
ALL ALL DAMN TRUE
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these are white peoples problems that don’t exist with asian
i rest my case
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we asian have a strong family structure
Except for the idiot in Wisconsin that continues to abuse his mommy by leeching off her while living in her basement..
He also "showing off" his daddy's guns and his mommy's investment portfolio and meat and claimed its his...like THE LIAR that he is...
:idiot2: ;D
...quit showing off your daddy’s guns.
Looks like you were showing off but failed miserably. Sad existence really but do continue to be our very own ph clown.
all you did was went to a meat locker...
That picture looks like someone just gave meat to your parents and I know you come as fake as it comes. “Fake it til you make it huh”
"SEEING IS TRULY BELIEVING YO"
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I disagree and here's why
First off, can you measure my love? Can you measure a kadoo's person love? Can you measure a hmong person's love?
So you see, if Love is universal then to treat it, you need the universal antidote. The phrase, "I love you" or "I hate you" or I want a divorce are all universal coin phrases in all languages. We are not like dogs where we just sniff each other's butt and call it a day..
So if I need love advice, I can get it from a hmong, a kaydoo, a viet, a white person or anyone that is logically sounding with their advice. Sex is universal. It feels good no matter who they are. The antidote should then be universal as well. O0
Love is a commitment that bears fruit. End of story.
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Love is a commitment that bears fruit. End of story.
Love is old school and over-rated. These next generation of kids are starting to go for status first and love can take a back seat. They can marry someone without loving them, as long as they are financial stable. The term "gold digger" are for women. As a guy, if I had to start over, I'll be a diamond digger. Had the chance with an older lady with 5 pho shops in the santa ana area when I was a lot younger. :2funny:
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this is just white people’s problem
“he doesn’t respect my space”
“he doesn’t have motivation” like c’mon 50+ hour per week is motivation enough
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Love is old school and over-rated. These next generation of kids are starting to go for status first and love can take a back seat. They can marry someone without loving them, as long as they are financial stable. The term "gold digger" are for women. As a guy, if I had to start over, I'll be a diamond digger. Had the chance with an older lady with 5 pho shops in the santa ana area when I was a lot younger. :2funny:
Okay, who hurt you?
I sense that you had a childhood trauma that influenced you to pick the wrong partner. That wrong partner damaged you.
Btw, I didn't say that to mock you or judge you, or anything. I know another PHer who is in the same boat as you.
Without commitment, there is no love.
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Okay, who hurt you?
I sense that you had a childhood trauma that influenced you to pick the wrong partner. That wrong partner damaged you.
Btw, I didn't say that to mock you or judge you, or anything. I know another PHer who is in the same boat as you.
Without commitment, there is no love.
that wicked hmong witch of the EAST
ask me "why i only buy one happy meal for her two kids"
<<< im poor and broke BTW
if im going keep continuing doing that
than we should not continue to see each other
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THOSE ARE REAL HMONG RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM
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It's not just divorced people with kids that have baggage. A lot of people who date mes kas style have a lot of baggage, too.
What I picked up from listening to those stories is that the older and more experience a person has, the more manipulative and calculating they are. They really don't know how to date for love. They only date for sex, companionship, and supply. In the back of their mind, they are already planning an exit plan or how to protect themselves should the situationship end. Sometimes a connection is good and they will still end it because they prioritize themselves first.
They've been burned too many times, and have burned others too many times. They don't trust or believe in real love.
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Okay, who hurt you?
I sense that you had a childhood trauma that influenced you to pick the wrong partner. That wrong partner damaged you.
Btw, I didn't say that to mock you or judge you, or anything. I know another PHer who is in the same boat as you.
Without commitment, there is no love.
It is just an understanding to the dating culture nowadays. If you are calling me "damaged" then I'll call you old school. You keep your old school ways of thinking when it comes to love and romance but you need to understand something and that is the evolution of love. Everything we have learned in our generation has become obsolete. We now have gen Y, gen z, the alpha....
These are the gen that I'm adapting when I talk about love nowadays because as these are the reality. Haven't you heard? Those same gen in china are called the "lying flat or rat people" when it comes to the work force. They don't want to work and are living with their parents till they die. It's a reality. Our generations have them too but it is not a rising trend that becomes an epidemic over there in china. Our generation calls them lazy bum but I'm concerning about this new rise in this newer generation.
read more here
https://www.yahoo.com/news/chinas-broke-burned-young-workers-102018415.html (https://www.yahoo.com/news/chinas-broke-burned-young-workers-102018415.html)
Bottom line is that there is an evolution changes and if you don't know, you better know. Love is still over rated. The next generations are now marrying for security first and not love. Boarder line gold digging mentality but that's just the way it has been working in these days. Getting marry to be rich or poor, it's a personal choice. Not many are old school who would marry for love and accept for poor and death do them part. Financial issue is still the #1 causal for many divorces.
"54% of people believe a partner with debt is a reason to consider divorce "
https://www.cnbc.com/select/national-debt-relief-survey-debt-reason-for-divorce/ (https://www.cnbc.com/select/national-debt-relief-survey-debt-reason-for-divorce/)
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If you don't think the older generation married for security than you are wrong.
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A romantic partnership can be subjective. It shouldn't because romantic love is simply genuine mutual affection, empathy, compassion and intimacy...To sustain this partnership, will take understanding of changes eventually, but faith and loyalty will need to be the foundation for it to last the test of time.......
8) Yup, I never been in love before....but I'm divine, and I only speak divine wisdom..Many things humans do or think is very foreign to me...hahah