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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Believe_N_Me on April 23, 2025, 09:51:21 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EDRaLYeONOI&list=PLTi6COY1KUltCjjYLxsSUqYwJvsiNoZcP&index=174 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EDRaLYeONOI&list=PLTi6COY1KUltCjjYLxsSUqYwJvsiNoZcP&index=174)
It's a pretty long video but well worth the watch.
Married people who are serial cheaters. Basically, any couple in a toxic relationship but won't get out. Even when they've broken up, they are still engaging with each other and doing vindictive things towards each other.
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like trauma bond, this is ego bond...haha both have too much ego to just walk away.
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I posted this because we have a lot of Hmong couples (married or dating but living together) who have this "sick" relationship. That's what the professor called it. As a society, we automatically assume that it's the mistress/lover who is the culprit when in actuality they are victims of these twisted people in the "sick" relationship.
I won't say her name but there is a Hmong Youtube content creator who came out blasting her married lover about a month ago. The guy is definitely in a sick relationship with his wife. Many people who are close to them or were affected by them have come out to share their ugly encounters with this pair. The victims are nothing but pawns and tools used by the couple to seek vengeance on each other.
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I posted this because we have a lot of Hmong couples (married or dating but living together) who have this "sick" relationship. That's what the professor called it. As a society, we automatically assume that it's the mistress/lover who is the culprit when in actuality they are victims of these twisted people in the "sick" relationship.
I won't say her name but there is a Hmong Youtube content creator who came out blasting her married lover about a month ago. The guy is definitely in a sick relationship with his wife. Many people who are close to them or were affected by them have come out to share their ugly encounters with this pair. The victims are nothing but pawns and tools used by the couple to seek vengeance on each other.
Oh yeah, it's like when you know someone is only talking/ flirting with you to get their lover jealous or something...ha ha Why people, why? Why can't people just break up peacefully if and when it's no longer working......W hy Hmong People, why? I mean people...regul ar people of all colors....why so petty? if it's no longer working, say your goodbyes, wish each other blessings, cried a little, and move on......just move on.
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Some people start a new relationship even when they're already in one. That is what these couples do.
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People with bad intentions will always be found out. No need to go digging for dirt because God has angels who reveal this information.
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When a boyfriend/spouse cheats, most women take it out on the girl... but NO, take it out on your cheating boyfriend/ or spouse. BUT also look at yourself, take a good look at yourself...may be you are to blame as well. A guy does not suddenly decide one day to go out and cheat... Something happened... Same goes when a woman cheat on her boyfriend/husband.
No need to be vindictive to one another when the relationship is over. Be good to yourself enough to walk away from such toxic relationship.
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When a boyfriend/spouse cheats, most women take it out on the girl... but NO, take it out on your cheating boyfriend/ or spouse. BUT also look at yourself, take a good look at yourself...may be you are to blame as well. A guy does not suddenly decide one day to go out and cheat... Something happened... Same goes when a woman cheat on her boyfriend/husband.
No need to be vindictive to one another when the relationship is over. Be good to yourself enough to walk away from such toxic relationship.
A normal, balanced person would just leave the relationship if it has become toxic. However, these people don't leave. They stay and become very vindictive towards each other. Even when they leave each other, they still keep tabs on each other.
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Twenty-five years ago, I helped a woman and her two kids
survive some hardships because we were somewhat in love then.
After she continued cheating at my expenses, I left her.
She has become vindictive all these years and still is.
She's married already.
Five years ago, she learned that I was dating another
chick. She called up that chick and bashed me to her.
My next relationship has been clandestine. :2funny: :2funny: