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Relationship => General Relationship => Topic started by: Believe_N_Me on April 24, 2025, 01:47:02 PM

Title: This is the only way to a loving relationship...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on April 24, 2025, 01:47:02 PM: I'm fascinated with studying attachment styles, love languages, relationships, and the whole gambit. I love studying about what works, why they fail, how some relationships turn toxic, etc. But after all this studying, THEY ALL STILL GOT IT WRONG!!!

This is the only way to a loving relationship.. ..

1. Identify the purpose and expectations of marriage.
2. THIS SECOND ONE IS KEY!!!!

How about I just worry about loving you, and you worry about loving me? We both get what we want from each other without having to ask or demand. The love will take care of the rest.
Title: Re: This is the only way to a loving relationship...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on April 24, 2025, 01:49:43 PM: A relationship expert says that take time to know someone during the dating stage. ::) You're never going to know everything that you need to know about them. Instead, what you end up doing is finding their faults and justifying why you won't marry them. Plus, extending the courtship will only create attachments.

People, pick someone to love. That's all there is to it!
Title: Re: This is the only way to a loving relationship...
Post by: JonniJacko on April 24, 2025, 03:40:24 PM: took you this long to figure it out? I've been trying to tell you this all along....LOL

All we can do is express our perspectives.. .the difference is this, there are those who looks for the truth- those who do, asked the TRUTH itself...hahah a then there are those who just wants to sound interesting, intelligent, and take credit for "figuring it all out"....LMAO

So when in doubt...All you got to do is ask the TRUTH for the truth...I don't say God, because there's many false Gods out there..But there can only be one TRUTH...hahah 8)
Title: Re: This is the only way to a loving relationship...
Post by: Believe_N_Me on April 24, 2025, 03:49:53 PM: Quote from: JonniJacko on April 24, 2025, 03:40:24 PM
took you this long to figure it out? I've been trying to tell you this all along....LOL

All we can do is express our perspectives.. .the difference is this, there are those who looks for the truth- those who do, asked the TRUTH itself...hahah a then there are those who just wants to sound interesting, intelligent, and take credit for "figuring it all out"....LMAO

So when in doubt...All you got to do is ask the TRUTH for the truth...I don't say God, because there's many false Gods out there..But there can only be one TRUTH...hahah 8)

O0
Title: Re: This is the only way to a loving relationship...
Post by: JonniJacko on April 24, 2025, 07:35:05 PM: Quote from: Believe_N_Me on April 24, 2025, 03:49:53 PM
O0

I might just be able to save you....now ;D
Title: Re: This is the only way to a loving relationship...
Post by: Cali Guy on April 28, 2025, 01:34:47 PM: I like the simplicity and depth of your approach, it cuts through the noise and lands on something profoundly true.