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Relationship => General Relationship => Topic started by: Believe_N_Me on May 21, 2025, 01:48:32 PM
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Using someone for a relationship.
At least when a person gets cheated on, they don't question if the relationship was real and the cheater doesn't say the relationship wasn't real.
But if someone is only in a relationship for any or all of the following reasons, they are despicable and it wouldn't surprise me if they ended up lonely and miserable.
1. to get over an ex
2. to spite an ex
3. to cope with the person they're in a relationship with at home
3. to distract from whatever dysfunction they got going on in their personal life
4. to kill time
5. to please their family
6. to have a place to live
7. to be a placeholder
8. to have stability until they get their finances in order
9. to have someone to hang out with
10. for convenience because you were already hanging out and have the same social circle
11. because they don't have their own family and they enjoy hanging out with yours
12. they don't really have friends and being with you and your friends give them a social life
13. because you take care of the daily mundane things that they don't want to do
These are just a few things.
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The truth is, A relationship isn't hard at all.....when you do find the right one....LOL and the truth is, there's plenty of fishes in the sea, but only a few nemos for everyone in their life time....haha
Someone might be a horrible partner to you, but to someone else, they might be the perfect partner....vic e versa...so it all comes down to...the good ole saying...it's either there or it's not...just like how we are closer, more comfortable with some people than others...hahah
oh but that list, yeah..those things are never excuseable..Yu p, protect yourself 25/8...haha
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That is very true. Couples in a sick relationship have a mutual agreement to be each other's default. Their arrangement is a way for them to cope with their own personal childhood traumas, and that's why this type of situationship almost always never bear fruit.