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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: theking on June 23, 2025, 11:30:37 PM

Title: I don't see much of an issue mainly because both are consenting adults
Post by: theking on June 23, 2025, 11:30:37 PM

I'm 59. She's 19. We're in love. Now what?

Is age really just a number?

I’m 59, she is 19. I’ll wait while you shake off the obvious initial reaction, the one that says I'm a predator or, at best, simply with this young woman because of the sex! She and I have found intimacy at a level we never thought existed while navigating the complexity of falling in love. You guys could not be more correct … love is indeed messy!

Finding the courage to step off the cliff of "settling for less," in hopes of experiencing the kind of love that even the best poets, artists and musicians can't fully describe, is paralyzing! She and I are currently standing on that cliff.

Can you offer some non-judgmental feedback about how — or whether — to pursue this relationship?

Hope to hear from you and congratulation s on stepping off that cliff yourselves!

Title: Re: I don't see much of an issue mainly because both are consenting adults
Post by: Prude on June 29, 2025, 01:28:58 PM

There's no better commonality than that 9 you two have in your
ages. The relationship fits right in. Congratulation s!