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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: theking on September 08, 2025, 11:15:51 PM

Title: Once you cut it, it may be hard to reverse it even if your new spouse wants it
Post by: theking on September 08, 2025, 11:15:51 PM

My second wife wants kids, but I already have two — and a vasectomy

I am a 45-year-old man with two kids from my first marriage.

After having those children, I got a vasectomy.

I remarried 4 years ago and told my current wife about my vasectomy while we were dating.

OK, good.

Now she's asking if I would want to get the vasectomy reversed so we can have our own family.

I don't know what to do.