PebHmong Discussion Forum

Relationship => General Relationship => Topic started by: JonniJacko on December 30, 2025, 07:07:05 AM

Title: I thought I was the ultimate nice guy
Post by: JonniJacko on December 30, 2025, 07:07:05 AM

Until I came upon this story. lol...Dirk's another level of big heart and nice...lol

https://www.basketballnetwork.net/off-the-court/dirk-nowitzki-was-devastated-when-his-ex-fiancee-got-sentenced-to-five-years-in-jail (https://www.basketballnetwork.net/off-the-court/dirk-nowitzki-was-devastated-when-his-ex-fiancee-got-sentenced-to-five-years-in-jail)

Title: Re: I thought I was the ultimate nice guy
Post by: Prude on January 04, 2026, 07:24:57 AM

How is moving from a criminal Cristal to an angel Jessica considered big heart?

Title: Re: I thought I was the ultimate nice guy
Post by: JonniJacko on January 04, 2026, 09:43:12 PM

Well, if you actually read the whole article you might of got my drift...lol

Cristal call Dirk by accident (or so she claimed). they clicked and continue a online-phone relationship/ friendship...I t wasn't I think 2 years later before they finally met up...

I mean how many people out there, let alone a multi-millionaire Athlete like Dirk, are willing to wait 2 years to meet up? At least anyone looking for real connection..ha ha The average sane person will give it 3 months tops...haha Anything more than that raises suspicion...or both parties are perfectly fine just being online buddies or what not...hahah

But Here's a 7 foot, pro NBA basketball player, multi-millionaire, and he's in love with a woman he had never met in person for two years..all the while, he probably had a million other women wanting his wealth, I mean wanting to be his wife...hahaha

Many people today, they ghost the minute they feel disrespected.. ..lol

Title: Re: I thought I was the ultimate nice guy
Post by: Prude on January 10, 2026, 04:17:56 PM

I don't see that as big heart.

Because big heart is when actually take her no matter
what her crimes were...

Title: Re: I thought I was the ultimate nice guy
Post by: JonniJacko on January 11, 2026, 06:45:25 AM

Well, having a big heart sometimes means you forget to draw the lines and to self love and respect...so it's not always a good thing to have a big heart....9 out of 10 people will eventually stomp on your heart...hahah

Title: Re: I thought I was the ultimate nice guy
Post by: Believe_N_Me on February 16, 2026, 10:09:46 AM

Jonni,

There are nice guys who make horrible mistakes. And then there are guys who present themselves as "nice" but are really rotten on the inside.

Time always show which one a man is. Just look at the fruits that he bears, and his relationship history.

Title: Re: I thought I was the ultimate nice guy
Post by: JonniJacko on February 17, 2026, 09:10:35 PM

I never claim to be nice, people just call me the ultimate nice guy....but some are not fooled, they know at night Im the biggest mobster...lol I don't hurt women or children though....lol