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Marriage & Family Life / Re: A decade is a good chunk of time just to get stabbed on the back

« on: May 04, 2024, 05:07:44 PM »

I know someone who's wife did the same. Almost 10 years. He knew he should leave, but he kept her around, but now he's cheating left and right on her...lols

point here is, if you cheat on someone, bare in mind, they will probably eventually get back at you if the accept you back....if someone cheats on you, you not might, you will cheat on them...this mean using them for other means...if not for intimacy with others.

this is how human nature works...if you cheat, or they cheat. IMO, it is best to leave....hangi ng on is like hanging onto a corpse...lols

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: No one loves you more than your spouse

« on: May 04, 2024, 05:00:41 PM »

It's not so much about buying the cow first or not. Or someone wanting to test drive first, it's really about who is serious about buying and keeping, and who is buying but plan to get a refund...or someone who just want to kill time with no intention of buying anything because they call in sick for work, and is killing time at the store before going home to their spouse and say work is slow so Im home early...lols.. .or work is busy, so they asked me to do overtime...lol s

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: May 03, 2024, 11:05:39 PM »

Damn it, I'm screwed..

Sister called me: "hey dude, Jacob said he found a cigg in my car and thinks Im smoking or cheating, was wondering if you used my car and accidentally drop one in there, or if Matthew went into your room and got a hold of one and brought it with him"

Me: "what brand is it? Matt always goes into my room when Im not home looking for the Tablet, he must of have found one somewhere I accidentally dropped in my room somewhere and thought it was cool to have it"

Sister: "its all white, marlboro?"

Me: oh yeah okay its mines, I never smoke in front of him though.

Sister: "its all good, we just needed to sort it out, Matt confess he found it under your bed when he was trying to find the tablet and thought it was cool to keep it"

Fuke, I'm screwed..Don't think my bro n law is ever gonna talk to me again after this...but it's a sure sign to kick the habit for good....

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: No one loves you more than your spouse

« on: May 01, 2024, 08:48:26 PM »

love is a two way street. the question where they say love the one you love, or the one that loves you, the correct answer is the one that does both for you. If its only one or the other, then its better to stay single. haha

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General Discussion / Can't believe this happen

« on: April 30, 2024, 09:48:05 PM »

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSz3tEZg6xc

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General Discussion / Re: do us hmong shaman and nonbelievers… go to hell???

« on: April 30, 2024, 08:31:40 PM »

Listen carefully to the Hmong shaman, their chants are actually bible verses. Nraug oos is Adam, and nkauj iab is Eve. Lol

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General Relationship / Re: BNM…. you think the single hmong divorce mother DEEDA THAO will find another hus

« on: April 30, 2024, 12:06:02 PM »

new single hmong divorce mother with lots of kids DEEDA THAO
do you think she will find another husband??

split custody and everything

good luck to any brother who will take on the task

 

This is your chance to save yellow river.lol

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General Relationship / Re: A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: April 30, 2024, 08:05:49 AM »

That is manipulation. 

Earning trust is manipulation?? Okay I will use a trap instead and force it to trust me. Lol

But yes mam, I know what you mean.

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General Relationship / Re: You'll have your dream guy when you look for these things:

« on: April 30, 2024, 08:03:23 AM »

It's not really chasing but more like initiating and showing leadership qualities.

I don't want to drive all the time..you drive sometimes. Haha

Yes mam, you are correct 💯

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General Relationship / Re: Best relationship advice

« on: April 30, 2024, 08:01:57 AM »

I think they call it "codependency". Some people stay because there are children involved and they've built up too much assets to throw away. But unmarried people living together who can't separate even though the situationship has run it's course are just broken. They're now in it just for vengeance.

Yes mam, correct. Ive see people who forgave their partners infidelity bc too many co signs here and there.

some people turn and stab the world, and prey on the vulnerable or unaware. Very broken people. They are the ones who should try to heal the world. Not further the cuts and bruises.

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General Relationship / Re: ...

« on: April 30, 2024, 07:55:59 AM »

Good I screenshot... dang it, I was too late.

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: April 28, 2024, 10:35:28 PM »

Fuke, shit, sorry fam, I have more than just a few demons left in me...I have a lot left actually...ple ase excuse the erratic behavior.....b ear with me....I'll be back soon.

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General Relationship / Re: You'll have your dream guy when you look for these things:

« on: April 28, 2024, 09:43:30 PM »

everyone has their own style or approach when it comes to talking,dating, and committment.

The old school way, yes, Men are encourage to chase, be persistent, and prove his worthiness...l ols But keep in mind, this was when women in general were still angels and would never dare kill a ant...lmao

Today, its very different. It's very fast pace. If one or the other does not show the same matching energy, interest, or effort, it's pretty much onto the next...lols Men today are very sensitive to being call creeps, desperate or simps. Women in general, I notice does not like to be chase either. They will say something, if I like you, you will know. If you still don't know, get ready for a restraining order..lols

J/k I'm just speaking from observations and from other men that tells me about their love life. lols

I have too much pride to chase women. I do agree with most modern men though, if she likes you enough, you won't have to chase her or play her mind games. lols Because if you do chase and chase, and she say yes, one or two things gonna happen when one or both decide to part ways. if he's going to break up he will say, she never liked me anyway. Or if she breaks up, she's going to say, I never liked him anyway, i was just being nice...lols

so I strongly suggest you women out there, do not make him chase you, do not test him. if you don't like him like that, make it clear, if you do like him, make it obvious. It's not about being easy or desperate, its about being mature and civil..lols Only resentment will arise down the road when you decide to play games..

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: April 27, 2024, 10:21:47 PM »

You didn't betray me, you betrayed yourself, did you disappoint me, yes, but it was expected- stick to your roots, hold tight to your values- your kind is born, not made- You are now ready- the time has come

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General Relationship / Re: Best relationship advice

« on: April 27, 2024, 10:09:45 PM »

too many relationships today are transactional. no longer mutual and genuinely reciprocal. That my friends, is the root cause of such high divorce rates.....choo se wisely, your happiness and time depends on it.....