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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: April 27, 2024, 10:21:47 PM »

You didn't betray me, you betrayed yourself, did you disappoint me, yes, but it was expected- stick to your roots, hold tight to your values- your kind is born, not made- You are now ready- the time has come

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General Relationship / Re: Best relationship advice

« on: April 27, 2024, 10:09:45 PM »

too many relationships today are transactional. no longer mutual and genuinely reciprocal. That my friends, is the root cause of such high divorce rates.....choo se wisely, your happiness and time depends on it.....

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: April 27, 2024, 11:54:31 AM »

Sister n law asked me if I remember Tammy. I said who? Tammy, Lous ex wife. I responded I know Lou and his wife separated but I don't know her like that. Why the hell you bringing her up, Lou is a good guy. Lol well Lou cheated on her. But she said before meeting Lou you guys use to chat on Hmongtalk all the time. I have to think back hard. Okay I remember a Tammy now but we never did meet in person and we fizzle out. Then it dawn on me, Lous ex wife does look a lot like the photos I remember this Tammy girl sent me. I didn't know Tammy was just her nickname. In real life she goes by her birth Hmong name. Lol Maybe she look different in person. I thought to myself, no wonder this girl always give me a slight smile during extended family gatherings. Sometimes in front of Lou. I never thought much of it but that that's just how she is with everyone.

I said sorry, she had her chance a long time ago . Lol
 

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Do you need to know everything about your spouse?

« on: April 27, 2024, 11:30:07 AM »

I need to know everything, every little details. Lol j.k I don't care as long as she is honest and confess she was wrong or should have done something differently. It's about second chances and new beginnings for some. Nobody's perfect except for. Mr perfect. 

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: April 26, 2024, 11:03:37 PM »

You don't realize you've been walking on the path of darkness until you realize that the road starts to look familiar, realizing, you have been walking in circles and that, that light in the end of the tunnel, is not attainable, unless you take that leap of faith over the burning pit that separates the dark road and the light.


Slay the last of your demons. Your time is running out.........

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General Discussion / Re: Beta Males and Low Vibration Females

« on: April 26, 2024, 08:34:56 PM »

Betta females are very selective when it comes to breeding. Some will rather die if no qualified male is introduced to them. Everything has to be right. Water ph, temp, and even privacy for her to surrender. Humans can learn from bettas. Lol

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Risks you take when dating someone younger?

« on: April 26, 2024, 08:22:38 PM »

Dang woman is crazy. She probably the type to hold unto her husband's corpse. Lol

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General Discussion / Re: Took photo of old Asian that said NO to over $200k offers, NtsesHnub understands

« on: April 26, 2024, 08:18:34 PM »

He'd even say no to Jay Leno. That thing emits too much good vibes.

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General Discussion / Re: GODDAMN.... have you see that new NIKKI THAO music video????.. lots of CLEAVAGE

« on: April 26, 2024, 08:13:51 PM »

Oh she's my sister...haha

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Hmong Stories / Re: Share something strange that you experienced

« on: April 26, 2024, 08:09:45 PM »

Went fishing with a old friend once. He knew of a nice and scenic place to fish for crappies. Though this place was out in the middle of nowhere. It was summer and the sun bright. We stopped to get some baits first and some beverages. When we got to the spot, and set up our fishing poles, I open my soda and as I was about to take a sip, my pole started moving. So I set the can down to yank my pole. I caught a good size crappy. Shortly after that, I sat down and grab my soda. It was nearly empty. I told the friend to stop playing games. He look at me confuse asking what I was talking about . I showed him my can, and he didn't seem bothered only said
he  must have unknowingly tipped it over and forgot that he put it back up.

We stayed all the way til the sun started to set.

It wasn't until the following year when we return and the closed off that spot. A close by neighbor told us a body was recover in the area. A ranger who was missing 5 years ago....

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Faith & Beliefs / Re: Why do you think God has a "chosen people"? It's more logical than you think...

« on: April 26, 2024, 07:50:23 PM »

Truth is not everyone is born equal. We all just go equal. Ha ha

No, tell us why.

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General Relationship / Re: A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: April 26, 2024, 01:31:02 PM »

A hunting friend of mine says that you should only take the shot if it's a clear shot.

Some hunters have the clear shot but take too long. Now all they can do is tell their buddies how they saw the perfect 12-pointer. It will just be a story they keep telling everyone. 

Oh I had one or two of those shots. I can't pass up on this one now. But what if I want the doe not the buck. lol I can't shoot something I want as a pet. Lol guess if I can get it to eat off from my hand then I don't need to manipulate or shoot it.  Lol

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General Relationship / Re: If you give someone unconditional love and they don't want it...

« on: April 26, 2024, 01:25:46 PM »

In the Disney version they get each other but in the real little mermaid story by Hans Christian Anderson, she dies at the end.

The prince had a clear shot and didn't take it.

I see, I see it so clearly now

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Online Journal / Re: The Not so private Diary of JonniJacco

« on: April 25, 2024, 08:28:58 PM »

Boss said for me to take an hour lunch if I'm willing to go fetch him a pack of cigarettes and beers. Lol drove to 7/11. Got my chicken wings, my tea and the boss's stuff. A mean looking clerk rang up the stuffs. Asked me how old I am. I said 25. She said I.D. I hand her my i.d and said just joking, I'm 40. She laughed out loud and her co clerk laughed out loud as well. She then handed back my I d and said you look no more than 21. Lol

I knew I shouldn't have shave this morning. Lol

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General Relationship / Re: A man who wants stability always know what he's looking for...

« on: April 25, 2024, 08:20:02 PM »

From the perspective of the hunter, 10 minutes is way too long to decide if you want to shoot that buck or not.

Some bucks are way too hard to tell if they are within shooting limit. Maybe a bush or rock is blocking him partially, maybe it might be a doe with horns. Maybe it's a decoy. Something is off.lol patience will have to be practice in this scenario. Lol