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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: My daily support...If you want to complain.
« on: September 20, 2019, 12:16:04 AM »
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General Relationship / Re: for those of you who's still single
« on: May 17, 2019, 11:06:38 PM »
First thing first, he has to be a few yrs older than me.
2nd, he has to be single, never been married, and no illegitimate kids anywhere.
Once these two are fulfilled, then everything else can be negotiated.
2nd, he has to be single, never been married, and no illegitimate kids anywhere.
Once these two are fulfilled, then everything else can be negotiated.
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General Discussion / Re: Hot Topic: Abortion
« on: May 17, 2019, 08:14:51 PM »
lily,
i completely agree with everything you said 100%! you took the words right out of my mouth!
i completely agree with everything you said 100%! you took the words right out of my mouth!
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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Do you know her?
« on: January 10, 2019, 10:38:25 PM »
put a restraining order on her. if she comes around, call the cops on her. since he's willing to pay child support, if she comes fight for the kids, give them to her. if she doesn't, great, he can keep them. but put a restraining order on that crazy woman before your brother gets accused of anything!
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Marriage & Family Life / Re: Paternal DNA Testing...oh, my!!!
« on: January 10, 2019, 10:27:49 PM »
as for staying and being the father of the kids, he has made the right decision. since he cannot have kids, raising these kids will be the same as adoption like you said. so makes no difference. however, as for remaining married to the cheater wife, i personally wouldn't stay married. one, she cheated on him. even though she gave him two kids, there were resulted from her cheating. two, she did it twice, she will do it twice and another twice. and three, since you and your brother decided to conceal the truth from her, she will think that you guys don't know and will continue to cheat. i can adopt others' kids as my own and love as my own, but i cannot remain married to a cheater knowing she/he will most likely cheat on my again. these are some of the options, in my personal opinion, that he has:
1. he could either hide the truth forever and suffer the silent pain. if she cheats again and have another kid, he will have to continue being dumb.
2. tell her the truth and exposed her cheating ways so she knows that he knows. hopefully she will stop and hopefully they will live happily ever after. and do let her know that he is willing to love the kids as his own so she won't have doubts.
3. if after he exposes her and she decides to leave him, then oh well. what can he do. you can't make someone stay when she/he doesn't want to.
honestly, if he were my brother, i would tell him to confront her. i never want anyone to live a life of lies and suffer silently.
1. he could either hide the truth forever and suffer the silent pain. if she cheats again and have another kid, he will have to continue being dumb.
2. tell her the truth and exposed her cheating ways so she knows that he knows. hopefully she will stop and hopefully they will live happily ever after. and do let her know that he is willing to love the kids as his own so she won't have doubts.
3. if after he exposes her and she decides to leave him, then oh well. what can he do. you can't make someone stay when she/he doesn't want to.
honestly, if he were my brother, i would tell him to confront her. i never want anyone to live a life of lies and suffer silently.
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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: say you dated someone and they ran off to marry their ex but then they come back
« on: January 10, 2019, 10:14:54 PM »
to me, heck no. if he choose her over me once, he will choose her or someone else over me again. i'm not giving him another chance to f*ck me over.
maybe men can do it because they have nothing to lose. women, if we do it, we will just continue to lose. but at the end, i guess, it all depends on your pride and self worth.
maybe men can do it because they have nothing to lose. women, if we do it, we will just continue to lose. but at the end, i guess, it all depends on your pride and self worth.
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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Hmong Match Making
« on: January 10, 2019, 10:11:29 PM »Interesting stories..thank you for sharing.
I think now a day we need hmong match making more than ever before. If we don't, we're going to find many of the hmong singles dating out of race. Why? They are so busy w/ careers, education, and they hide themselves pretty well from one another to the point if we're not helping, they won't find one another.
I completely agree. Now that we live in world that's blended in, it's harder to see people, especially our own kind for those that still want to stay within the race if possible. you don't see your own people anymore unless at family or social gatherings. as i grew older, i realized how much i needed hmong match making. lol. sometimes i wish i have old ladies that can refer me to someone nice or can refer someone nice to me. because i'm one of those quiet women who doesn't go out or socialize much, so without the elder's help, i might just be a single old maid forever.
I also know a few people around my age that need help in finding a partner too. so i completely agree with you that now a days we need hmong match making more than ever.
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The Single & Dating Scenes / Where do single hmong men/women hang out at?
« on: August 24, 2018, 07:00:20 PM »
Where are the single people 30+ at? How does one find a single hmong guy/girl this day and age? It's so hard now a day. Even new years are not helping bc most ppl there are either kids or OGs only. 😔
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General Relationship / How to get out of a relationship
« on: July 06, 2017, 11:12:53 AM »
How do you get out of a relationship that you feel you are stuck in? Having been broken hearted before, you don't want to be the one to break anyone's heart. However, your partner isn't exactly who you want in life, and you only discover this after dating for a few years. Your religious beliefs are different and you guys do not see eyes to eyes on many different things. Plus, the relationship is so boring, nothing exciting at all. You feel that if you marry this person, your life with this person will lack many things and will definitely crave many things as well. This person's family already accepted you and are just waiting for you guys to be married. Your family already accepted this person as well. How do you get out of such a relationship when you can tell already that you won't be satisfied later on, but this person isn't willing to let go of you? How do you end this without being the bad guy?
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Food Forum / Re: Homemade Orange Chicken (Panda Express style)
« on: August 15, 2016, 04:43:51 PM »
thank you so much moonangel! 
i'll give this a try this weekend! so excited! 
i'll give this a try this weekend! so excited!
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Food Forum / Re: Homemade Orange Chicken (Panda Express style)
« on: July 28, 2016, 03:34:59 PM »
care to share the recipe? lol. looks really good! the texture and the look are to drool for!
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Food Forum / Re: Made goulash for the first time
« on: July 28, 2016, 03:33:57 PM »
i love this kind of food! perfect for autumn weather.
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Food Forum / Re: We all have that one dish that we are great at making.
« on: July 01, 2016, 10:24:11 AM »
nab vam for me, maybe because i love it so much that i learned to perfect it in my own ways through trials and errors.
i think i also make good fawm kauv.
i think i also make good fawm kauv.
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Hmong News / Two Arrested On Drug Charges After Traffic Stop In Texas County
« on: May 25, 2016, 10:37:08 AM »
Hmong os Hmong aw. Ua cas tiag os. Ua cas tsis xyaum ua txoj kev zoo li os. I'm glad more and more of these people are being caught. Hopefully that will discourage others from doing it. I hope. *fingers crossed*
The Texas County Sheriff’s Department seized over $100,000 worth of marijuana after a traffic stop Sunday evening in Texas County.
Tong Thao, and Cha Xiong were arrested and booked into Texas County Detention Center on violations of the Uniform Controlled Dangerous Substances Act.
At Sunday night, a Texas County Deputy Sheriff stopped a silver 2016 Toyota Rav 4, driven by Xiong, for a traffic violation on US Highway 54, near Mile 33.
During the traffic stop, a Texas County Sheriff’s Department K-9 Unit was called to the scene and alerted to the presence of illegal drugs in the vehicle.
The Deputies conducted a vehicle search and discovered two large duffle bags and a small suitcase containing 32 vacuum sealed bags of high grade marijuana in the cargo area of the vehicle. The marijuana weighed a total of 17.2 pounds.
The illegal drugs were being transported from Palm Springs, California to St. Paul, Minnesota area.
http://www.myhighplains.com/news/two-arrested-on-drug-charges-after-traffic-stop-in-texas-county
The Texas County Sheriff’s Department seized over $100,000 worth of marijuana after a traffic stop Sunday evening in Texas County.
Tong Thao, and Cha Xiong were arrested and booked into Texas County Detention Center on violations of the Uniform Controlled Dangerous Substances Act.
At Sunday night, a Texas County Deputy Sheriff stopped a silver 2016 Toyota Rav 4, driven by Xiong, for a traffic violation on US Highway 54, near Mile 33.
During the traffic stop, a Texas County Sheriff’s Department K-9 Unit was called to the scene and alerted to the presence of illegal drugs in the vehicle.
The Deputies conducted a vehicle search and discovered two large duffle bags and a small suitcase containing 32 vacuum sealed bags of high grade marijuana in the cargo area of the vehicle. The marijuana weighed a total of 17.2 pounds.
The illegal drugs were being transported from Palm Springs, California to St. Paul, Minnesota area.
http://www.myhighplains.com/news/two-arrested-on-drug-charges-after-traffic-stop-in-texas-county
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Hmong News / Re: Hmong Women have arrived???
« on: May 12, 2016, 11:37:35 AM »
also, keep in mind that hmong people used to be drug dealers and do drugs back in the mountains. so, they know what they are doing. these ladies might had done it before back in Thailand or laos, or who knows. it's in our history. these people just think they are so smart that they will get through with the American system. I see that mentality in my families too. they old now, but they think they could get away with the American law. they think if they do this and that, they won't be caught. and because they're not caught yet, they continue to have that confidence that they won't ever be caught.