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General Discussion / Re: the best hmong music are in the 80s and 90s...

« on: November 20, 2019, 12:25:47 PM »

I like the music more in this current generation. Better equipment.

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General Discussion / Re: Some commented about the neighborhood Xy Lee was shot in and I can see it

« on: November 19, 2019, 11:36:28 AM »

I'll have to disagree on this ignorant statement. Sometimes they have it so that in the hot summer months they can just open it for air or secure their doors so the little kids won't get out  of course it's to secure the doors but just because one has the bars don't mean that there's a higher chance of becoming a victim

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General Discussion / Re: The Hmong Way: Long Funerals

« on: June 27, 2019, 02:48:53 PM »

Double post

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General Discussion / Re: The Hmong Way: Long Funerals

« on: June 27, 2019, 02:48:38 PM »

Cmon man
You being unreasonable with your 100 cow

Ain’t nobody is lazy
We are all working
And yes it has been hot here lately in the midwest
And we can start to smell the dead

Heat+dead body= faster decay

In thailand/laos
They fan the fly off the body

how is killing many cows being unreasonable? nothing is going to waste, the left over is given to the guests and family members to take home for food. No one is holding a gun to your head to stay if you don't want to. If you want to make things simple, write a will for your own funeral. Maybe it's just a Midwest thing on why some folks are complaining about the process of the funeral. Combining all those rituals into one day would have been more exhausting than breaking it apart into 3 days.

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General Discussion / If there was a Mr. Pebhmong competition would you compete?

« on: June 03, 2019, 12:53:48 PM »

And what would your platform be?

Insert your photo here << >>>>

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General Discussion / What's so good about foraging solomon seal

« on: June 03, 2019, 12:50:44 PM »

I see it all over social media especially Hmong Kitchen about Solomon seal. What's good about it? And how does it taste like?

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General Discussion / Re: Being invited to a Hmong party

« on: June 03, 2019, 11:58:30 AM »

In Hmong culture, if the sister is married, she's officially a part of her husband's family so an invite from her is different than an invite from your brother.  Has nothing to do with being sexist.  Just respecting culture.  Also, what if he didn't want you to go and your sister didn't get it?

You would know your people best so if you feel like you didn't get a personal invite from the party thrower just ask. A lot of the times it's just a miscommunicati on or lack of. Oh well, more food for everyone else then.

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General Discussion / Re: Being invited to a Hmong party

« on: June 03, 2019, 11:37:56 AM »

Maybe they just forgot to mention it to you because there were other things going on and it may have just slipped their mind. Are you a sexist? because you mentioned hearing it from your sister and not your brother, why does it matter? Your sister is right, you're family so why do you need a formal personal verbal invite from the party thrower? Are you a king ?  Do you need them to come beg you to attend the party? If no, then why would you decline the invitation?

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General Discussion / Re: There was once a very popular PHer who hanged out in the marriage forum alot.

« on: December 11, 2018, 12:12:28 PM »

Does she now own a pho spot in mn with her new love? Or has she been traveling to California a lot ?

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General Discussion / Re: There was once a very popular PHer who hanged out in the marriage forum alot.

« on: December 10, 2018, 03:34:21 PM »

What’s her name ? It’s always better when it’s not you.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: So my wife and I went out to eat at a nice restaurant.

« on: December 03, 2018, 06:17:52 PM »

  

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General Discussion / Re: This cracks me up, lmao! No pun intended

« on: November 19, 2018, 01:33:16 PM »

One day everyone's imaginary conflict and bruised ego will come to an end with or without PH 

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General Discussion / what is your plan for thanksigiving?

« on: November 15, 2018, 03:16:36 PM »

I am going to Thailand for vacation.

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General Discussion / Re: so is there no more Fresno Hmong New Year this year?

« on: November 06, 2018, 10:49:21 AM »

This is an opportunity for the Hmong International New Year to host their new year this year  Remember last year they were doing it at a ball park and there were hardly anyone in attendance. Well, there you have it! Everyone may flock there instead if there is no more Hmong New Year being hosted at the fairground.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9t2z6sGSrsw

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General Discussion / so is there no more Fresno Hmong New Year this year?

« on: November 05, 2018, 11:38:23 AM »

bound to happen, money hungry greed..is this karma? this group won the contract for the Fresno Fairground and overtook the other Hmong group on hosting the annual Hmong New Year and now they want us to help them fix their problem that they created within themselves?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_cFCkgvlKQ