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General Discussion / Re: Anyone doing Secret Santa this year?
« on: December 19, 2018, 06:53:29 PM »
Nope. I hate it. I was trying to not participate by taking a vacation but damn them, they'd changed the Christmas party date at my workplace. Never liked to give/receive, especially at work.

General Discussion / Re: Donating
« on: December 19, 2018, 06:50:28 PM »
What are your thoughts on donating to causes/charities/foundations?

Question to yourself is. Are you really well off? Case, yes. Then you may want to donate to well known organizations for a good cause. Otherwise, you outta save that money. Can never know when you will be needing that in life.

There's nothing wrong with despising half siblings, if they're spoiled or can't do anything right. But to do that just because they're her half siblings and that she was abused, doing it for all the wrong reasons. She definitely, need to get over it.

These things continue to happen because of stupid parents kept praising their kids to discriminate and hate on people whom are different from themselves. This case was a case of discrimination/hate crime, has nothing to do with bullying. If it was bullying, she could of have picked a different victim but no, it had to be the girl wearing the hijab.

Just trying to make herself look good as if her man cares about her heritage.

So you're saying it's time I go to Laos to find a wife?  :D Lolol


What can I say. Just do the math, the stats are not on your side. Just try talking to some girls at the new year. With that number, you're definitely an old geezer. I'm planning to go overseas after the new years. I guess it's better to be known as sugar daddy than og. Besides, more choices...

The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Hmong Match Making
« on: December 19, 2018, 06:19:07 PM »
Whether it's family(parents)  or others, how do you feel about Hmong Match Making?  Ever happened to you?  How was it?

In this fast, busy, and stressful lifestyle we live in today, it's better to get a helping hand then not. I say it's a lot better than trying to sign up and pay for some eharmony match up service. Plus, it's comforting to know that the elders are matching you up with someone reputable. The meeting is a lot easier and if things don't work out there's no hard feelings.

Let's say you thought she was single, but you dated her, then find out she's married and her husband caught you two in the act.  Would you do the whole hais kwv tij and settle it the Hmong way or just say, bleh, this is America, your problem, not mine?

I say if you believe in karma you should just settle rather than finding yourself getting "popped" or someone do the same to your wife, son or daughter. This is why should always make sure that they're truly single. If she misleads you into believing it so, just be honest about it, I'm sure the kwv tij would help and his family would also understand.

General Discussion / Re: Spent $20 and won $4
« on: October 17, 2018, 06:02:11 PM »

I spent $4 and won $2. Such a hassle so I don't even bother. Lotto is only a game, doesn't hurt to dream a little. Besides, even if you don't win just know that it's going toward good causes.

Yeh, in the same boat as all of you whom are single. I'd given up trying to meet people. Week days after work, just try to relax at home then weekend comes, I try to sleep thru it like a drunk. The more you think about your singles miserable existence the deeper you get into depression.

Now; I personally think that we single people need to look at the bright side. We're in our 30's something, even if you don't make much money, you have money regardless. At this point, we really don't have much prospect here, and am tired of this dating game(I know I'm) we may need to just compromise and head overseas. This isn't just for us men alone, women should do the same too.

General Discussion / Re: What are your thoughts on Hmong leaders today
« on: October 16, 2018, 06:45:15 PM »
They are full of themselves, everyone of them only want to make a name for themselves by changing/adding customs that not all people want to accept. You can say that they're dysfunctional, very much like elected officials in DC.

General Discussion / Re: why come 1 year circle back already...?
« on: October 16, 2018, 06:40:25 PM »
Yes. It's beautiful this time of year but can be depressing for some people, especially singles people.

General Discussion / Re: Renting a gf in China
« on: October 16, 2018, 06:37:47 PM »
Damn it! I'm so lonely tonight, I can use some company to dinner or movies. $44-80 isn't bad, can definitely use that kind of service here in the states. :D

Whether a person was gay/lesbo/sex crazed, drugs can certainly change all that. Hope he get's clean up with his incarceration.

Which is why I said, some Hmong women do take the initiative to approach Hmong men when they're interested in another thread...

Yeh. Strange era we live in nowadays. Just think she's just mentally unstable to begin with and it's probably served the guy right for playing mind games with her. If you're just going to fook around make sure both party understands.

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