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Hmong Culture & History / Lub kaus mus hais tshoob
« on: April 29, 2019, 03:29:10 PM »
What do you do with the umbrella after it's being brought back from the wedding?
    * Do the groom and bride keeps it?
    * Re-use for the next wedding?

General Discussion / Kho siab
« on: April 15, 2019, 10:24:59 AM »
I'm an "oldie" and this was a song that I related to as a young teenager in the 80s.  As I listen to this in my late adulthood, it's making me feel melancholy.  Beautiful songs can really play an impact on our moods and feelings.

On repeat blast:

What song(s) do the same to you?

Marriage & Family Life / Re: Hmong girl expresses obsession
« on: April 11, 2019, 09:02:15 AM »
At first, she said she loved my voice.

Then she asked me to give  her a child.

I haven't declined explicitly. But I know that's not going to happen, even when she says she's willing to raise the child. Elders have told me that it's not good to have a child out-of-wedlock, because of two things: 1. child support, and 2. when  you have one with the woman you are marrying, there's going to be jealousy between them and the other child(ren) who are all competing for your love, and 3....(there is a third unverified reason).

Today, she wrote:

"Tag kis no kuv ua npau suav pom koj es koj puag kuv na."
And then you woke up, too ... right? :D

all i do is eat and drink... funny thing is though, i can drop 10 lbs in two days... lol!
You must not want to live the American dream?  Isn't the American dream is vacation, vacation ... ??
I eat to live.  Live to eat.  I want to vacation all the time, while at it.

folks like this kind of annoys me... i like splitting everything equally... we all work, why shouldn't we all pitch in the same amount... to me, i'm not sure if they're trying to boast about their wealth or if they're genuinely sincere people but unless you're jeff bezos or bill gates... don't always pick up the tab for everything...
Who are these family members?  I want them to pay for me every time, too!
Hey, I got lots of bills.

I'm tired of those Kardashians ... or whatever they are! ... at least the athletes can play sports.

Until I am in that shoe, only then would I know.

Family can only help you so much.  We live in a society where everything is expenses.

General Discussion / Re: Need 600k just to down a medium house now??
« on: March 26, 2019, 11:19:09 AM »
That's a pricey down payment.
The house better be able to cook and clean for me!!! :D

General Discussion / Re: Listening to May Vang stories...
« on: March 26, 2019, 11:13:17 AM »
She's here. People here run into her now and then, here and there.

Her husband is Ntsuab Teev. So, she always mentions that she is Ntsuab
Teev's wife, just so perverts don't stalk her, I guess.

They look pretty good together.
I heard a story about her.  I couldn't believe!
People were wondering when she's going to tell her story anonymously.

We all have stories to tell.  Stories that shock everyone just like the stories she's been telling.

General Discussion / Re: Listening to May Vang stories...
« on: March 25, 2019, 02:47:10 PM »
No idea who she is in real life.  She introduces herself as "niam so and so" but hmong people have such common names so not sure ;D ;D ;D  She's good except I don't have time to listen to her stories.  When I do, I prefer to do other things.
I love her soothing sexy voice.  And she's really pretty, too!
She's a good storyteller.  I listen to her all the time.

General Discussion / Re: I'm thinking about downsizing
« on: March 25, 2019, 02:02:12 PM »
from a big house to a small one instead of throwing $$ away each months.  Kids are grown and the house is empty.  I want to use that $$ to enjoy the world.  Anyone going through empty nest like me?
I downsized a few years ago already.  No mortgage now.
Kids are all grown, too. 
   *1 son-in-law
   *1 daughter-in-law
   *1 daughter-in-law ... to be
   *2 more daughters still single

Life is quiet now.  And I'm feeling more lazy. :P

General Discussion / Re: Where would you like to travel to this year?
« on: March 21, 2019, 12:44:58 PM »
I love traveling.  I want to go to Fiji.

Marriage & Family Life / Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
« on: March 19, 2019, 03:44:44 PM »
That's what I've been saying all along.
So if someone asks me, I would say "I don't know.  I only know yesterday and at this moment.  I'm not even sure about tonight".

Marriage & Family Life / Re: People whose spouse cheated on you..
« on: March 15, 2019, 08:52:37 AM »
If your spouse cheats on you and wants to leave, would begging them to stay really work?  I'm just curious why people would beg.  I believe there's no point in begging since it'll only make them see you lower than they already see you, right?
Until one is in that shoe, only then would one know.

We as human beings often times say things now, but when the situation hits us, it is a different story then.
So we should never assume what we would do now ... vs. then.

General Discussion / Re: Hmong baby won the Gerber contest.....
« on: February 27, 2019, 02:59:04 PM »
Only $50K?  What about residuals? ... Isn't Gerber going to use her picture as their campaign all over???
And for how long???

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