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General Discussion / Re: Hot Topic: Abortion
« on: May 18, 2019, 10:02:54 PM »
Should men have an opinion on this?

If you mean Should men have an opinion on whether a woman can or cannot have an abortion... yes, you can have an opinion but I don't think you should enforce your opinion on her.

General Discussion / Re: What is your definition of leadership
« on: May 18, 2019, 09:59:17 PM »
Effective leadership is about taking action and creating better outcomes for those they are responsible to serve.

I like!   O0

I'm sure the post will still be up but pictures might disappear.   :D

General Discussion / Re: Hot Topic: Abortion
« on: May 18, 2019, 03:35:55 PM »
Basically, you are pro choice. 

Like hot or cold, you chose neither

If this is how the world's work then life would be blend.  You do what you like mentality. 

Before you answer such question, ask yourself this simple one.  Would you blame your own mother had she would abort you?   O0

Yes, I am pro-choice.

I would not blame my mother one bit if she had aborted me.

General Discussion / Re: Hot Topic: Abortion
« on: May 18, 2019, 03:27:54 PM »
Iíll play devilís advocate here in regards to the bold highlighted... .

If you feel that everyone should get to decide what happens to their body, how about the individuals who have to take medication for certain feelings/emotions/actions?  Do they have the same options?  If not, why the exceptions because you canít or shouldnít have it both ways?

People know how not to have a child.  You donít want one, then abstain.  :P  Rape/sexual assaults/abuse excluded in these cases.   ;D

Non-threatening individuals who have to take medication for certain feelings/emotions/actions also have a choice whether or not to swallow the pill.  It is their body and they should make the final decision.  The exception is when individuals pose a threat to other human beings that have already been born.  If they are a threat to other born human beings and the only way to prevent the threat from occuring is to neutralize these threatening individuals via tasers or forced medication, then it makes sense... because their actions no longer have a direct impact on themselves but on others. 

What a person chooses to do with their body (e.g. an abortion, self-harm, or ending their life), should be entirely their decision and no one else's.  As much as we may hate their decisions, their body is their right to do with as they please.  Other people don't get to decide.  But causing physical harm to other "born" human beings is a different matter entirely.

As far as abstinence, it's a nice idea but we're all human beings and we all have needs.  If only we can choose to not feel certain desires but human beings are not wired that way.  What I think needs to happen is, before intercourse happens and especially if they do not want to get pregnant, men should get vasectomies and/or women should go on birth control.  That is a decision between a couple to decide between the two of them which one should get the birth prevention.  But adding to this thought, I think the scale has been less balanced in this respect, because more women than men have been the ones expected to get on birth control.  Not all women do well with birth control medications or procedures.  I'd like to see more men take responsibility and think about the consequences of their actions, and make a conscious decision every time they have intercourse and know whether or not they are ready to bring a child into the world.  Most times men get women pregnant without thinking through first and then the burden becomes the women's to bear.  I think women have been treated unfairly for a long time throughout history, but more so in the pregnancy area, women have had less say and have had to carry more of the weight.

General Discussion / Re: Hot Topic: Abortion
« on: May 18, 2019, 02:25:18 PM »

i completely agree with everything you said 100%! you took the words right out of my mouth!

Hi, Autumnbreeze!!!  Long time no see you!!!  Hope you've been well!

I'm not agreeing but I'm saying..

YOU FIRST  :2funny:

Fine, I'll go first on Monday at 9:30am, but you need to follow suit!  Be fair!  Be nice!  Be kind!  I want to know what everyone looks like!  We're all friends on here!   O0  :D

I thought we already knew what you looked like?  I see your picture by your name. ;D :P

Yes, but I thought you'd at least want to see the human "Lilly face", even though brief.    :P  :D

And also which time zone??  ???  ;D ;)

5/20/2019 9:30am-9:45am CST.   ;D  Be here with your pic or be square!

Why not now?

Because everyone is off now.  :p

Let's all agree to show a pic of our face on Monday morning (5/20/2019) from 9:30-9:32am, OK!  O0  For a limited time you'll finally get to see how Lilly looks like.   ;D

General Discussion / Re: What is your definition of leadership
« on: May 17, 2019, 03:16:53 PM »
Ass whooping lol

Kekeke!!!  I guess we know who the leader is in your tribe--whichever one does the ass whooping!  Hahaha!  Wait, who's doing the ass whooping and who's getting their ass whooped, though, in your tribe?   Curious minds want to know!  ;D  ;D

General Discussion / Re: i got the BEST LAWN here on PH
« on: May 17, 2019, 03:12:55 PM »
You boys are funny with your constant bickering!  It's kinda cute, in a way!  Anyway, I do like nice looking lawns as well... but like someone already said, what's considered "nice" is purely subjective.  A green lawn to some is great whereas others may prefer one full of dandelions, etc.   ;D

General Discussion / Re: What is your definition of leadership
« on: May 17, 2019, 03:06:03 PM »
Sounds like you just attended a seminar on it.

No, I did not.  kekeke

A cousin is doing a research paper and asked me for my definition... just thought I'd share it on here as well.  I'm interested to hear everyone's definitions and thoughts on what "leadership and effective leadership" means to them.

General Discussion / Re: What is your definition of leadership
« on: May 17, 2019, 02:53:34 PM »
I'll start.

Leadership is being the person that everyone looks up to; the person that sets high level visions for a group of individuals; and the person serving as the main decision maker for the group.

Effective leadership is:
- The ability to persuade others;
- The ability to provide guidance;
- The ability to help others gain skills and knowledge; and
- The ability to inspire and encourage others to learn, to becoming better versions of themselves so that they grow as people and become productive at whatever they do.

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