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General Discussion / Someone's trash!
« on: June 11, 2020, 04:23:14 AM »
So I found two small air conditioner units.  Kind of old but seems to be intact. 

Them looters must've dumped their old units now that they've looted a brand new unit.  :2funny:

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General Discussion / Snow!
« on: April 12, 2020, 03:42:09 PM »
MN Snow

Gosh  :D

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General Discussion / Online Coupons!
« on: March 20, 2020, 05:33:34 PM »
Okay so the company Bobby's Eats has finally heard the customer and have moved all paper coupons to online.  Yes since all these customers have complained about not carrying physical coupons and now it's all barcoded online.

Now they come with pictures of coupons online and all them fake pictures with fake barcodes are not working.   ;D

It goes like this...I have this coupon everything is 99 cents.  I have this online coupon.

*There is no such deal according to the company because we are notified of current coupon deals*

Anyways, I go to use scanner on it...Bleep: Invalid.  Bleep: Invalid.

Sorry there is no such coupon!

These people trying to be slick...

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Outdoors & Recreational Hobbies / Shimano Curado 70
« on: March 11, 2020, 01:54:59 AM »
Shimano Curado 70

So I went on a spree and purchased the Closed out reels. I actually went with the 70HG version so it's a 7.2 gear.  It's not that I needed a new reel, it's just that I saw a deal too good to pass up.  Normally it retails for $199 but the deal I saw was for $119 and at that price it was worth it.

To compare with it's predecessor like the Curado 50E or the Chronarch 50Mg is kind of what this is about.

Anyway it's only been used for ice fishing and it's been wonderful with all the upgrades and advances from the old ones.  Not that it matters to me, but there is a slight improvement in the feel overall.  It's not like I have cast with the reel at all, in fact for ice fishing, I have all the brakes turned off.  I better remember to turn them on if I should decide to mount them on my full sized rods.  I made that mistake once.  I thought my reels where casting freely...they were, no braking.  Then poof a gust of wind came and it was a birds nest on the spool.

Anyway...there may be a new replacement coming out in the near future, as they are phasing out this model.

and now...I need a rod to go with it.  Oh the dilemma!  O0

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Outdoors & Recreational Hobbies / 2020 Ice Fishing
« on: January 04, 2020, 03:44:53 AM »
Yes...packing up my stuff...will walk out on the ice... O0

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Food Forum / Chicken Breast at the Groceries Stores
« on: November 13, 2019, 02:28:11 AM »
So lately I haven't seen the chicken breast for sale with the skin on or like a quartered chicken parts or something.

Now it's all skinless and it costs more.  It doesn't bake well without the skin, it's all so dried out. 

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Support & Suggestion / My avatar will eventually be outdated...LOL
« on: September 10, 2019, 07:52:45 AM »
Wow photobucket is trying to get me to change my avatar... :D

I recently logged into my old account...they say they want some payment or else I can't log into it anymore.  What ever happen to hosting the free picture account...?  I barely even do any uploads of pictures...

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Hmong Culture & History / Lost Hmong Culture Society...
« on: September 09, 2019, 06:59:40 AM »
https://feminismandreligion.com/2018/04/16/what-is-egalitarian-matriarchy-and-why-is-it-so-often-misunderstood-by-carol-p-christ/?fbclid=IwAR0sWDnB0bxXY4Z2JkCZuvQvtsJMspdDKCScsDPUOFSRmlZTJ9dOeiR7JOs

*Copy paste abridged*

In their purest form, “egalitarian matriarchies” place the mother principle at the center of culture and society. Their highest values are the love, care, and generosity they associate with motherhood. These values are not limited to women and girls. Boys and men are also encouraged to honor mothers above all, to practice the traits of love, care, and generosity, and to value them in others

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General Education / Back to School for kids...
« on: September 02, 2019, 05:39:51 AM »
So, why are people more and more rude?

We are all standing in line...waiting to talk to Teacher or what other person at the station...

Then people would just cut in line and walk straight up to that person...Geez. ..the current society.  It's not the kid, but the parent who's doing it.  What are they trying to teach their kids?

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As much as I appreciate the volunteer folks...but when they're volunteering and don't even know the information that they're trying to give nor give the wrong information out...well, thanks, I had to teach you the information that I didn't know either.  I'm the one who needs some help, but I ended up helping them...

The school that seemed so big to me when I was a little kid...wow, it's rather quite small actually now that I'm all grown up...LOL.

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Music Discussion / Hallelujah - covers
« on: August 28, 2019, 05:43:15 AM »
Hallelujah (cover) G.E.M. probably one of the best covers I've heard. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1H0ou7FvNJY&list=RDReshN_l80_0&index=3

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Shout Outs & Dedications / Drunk on LOve...
« on: July 04, 2019, 11:51:58 PM »
Real drunk talk...I want...real partner. who will invest in themselves along with me, a family, a home, a life, see me for the beauty that I possess, and let me share it with that person and let me see the beauty that she possess and share it with me as well. I want someone to parade me around like a trophy and I am as proud to parade her around like a trophy. Share intimacy, that's intimately just the two of us. Stop asking the what if, would've, could've, should've,...waste of time. Start asking the when we, will we, shall we, can we...and take steps on them....My love is your love, your love is my love, we share a love and bond...that's grows, buds, flowers, and seeds anew, the ebb and flow of Ying Yang, the high and lows of the rise and fall of the tides in the sunlight, moonlight, starlight, under the clouds, rain, snow, in the face of the wind, dust, and frost. Hold on, hold out, hold onto each other...and our family together...arg hhhh drunk talk.

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I will start...

- Those who are into fitness

There's this new workout routine...they say it's a HIIT called sects your eyes. LOL

I saw you in the fitness center...were you weight lifting or were you just waiting to be lifted?

The next month's group fitness class is posted. They've cancelled all the YOGA classes and replaced them with these new YOLO classes.

- Those who are like in up to college or still schooling.

Excuse me, I don’t want to sound obtuse, but I want to triangle you. You will be acute, and I will be a right. Can we triangle again? You’re A squared, I’m B squared, and together this equals us C squared.

If you put math and health class together it's 1+1=3

This is an A to B conversation so C your way out.

I am like this function.  I can make your Ex disappear and you will never wonder Y.

What is your malfunction? Mal Function is F = X times Y RU 2DM C unsquared.

- Single Parents

Mom told be about something that I should be aware when I find myself attracted to a woman...that it has something to do with FEAR MOMS. (pheromones)


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Marriage & Family Life / POV of Love and Happiness
« on: June 27, 2019, 05:11:52 AM »
So I ended up in a discussion with someone about Love and Happiness. (this is an abridged version of the discussion as discussion flows differently before it is actually written down).

I see it as concept in value with aesthetics, appreciation, gifting onto others.

What this person explained to me was that your happiness is something that you own and no one can take it away.  Furthermore this person states that happiness is something a that is not achieved until you've paid for it.

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No one can take your happiness if you truly own it. But if you rely on others to make you happy then...

You have to own it to give it. You cannot give something you don't own...that's just like giving something you haven't paid for silly...

Now what I struggled to comprehend this manner of thinking.  Of course it's splitting hairs when the ideology of it is about loving oneself first.  Part of the discussion was given some background.

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you know that you just contradicted everything you have said thus far right?

I went through that hell and came out happier and stronger than before because I came to realize that I'm not the broken one...he is,

What I fail to understand was that this person was happy to have been cheated on.  When in fact I should've open my mind to understanding her method of self empowerment.  I am seeing how a person can take responsibility for their own happiness. I can see how a person may not know about their own happiness until they have paid for it through loss and betrayal.  Yet this person is not broken.  They were never affected.

That is a contradiction to my thinking.  As this person stated incorrectly that I contradicted myself, but I misunderstood her thinking - that's splitting hair.  I've heard of people being thick skinned, deaf to gossips, stoic to compassion, etc.,...in that mannerism.  I was the broken person in betrayal and treachery.  This person was not.

Upon further contemplation of this...It makes me understand the mindset of the cheater and how they operate.  The cheater owns their own happiness, does not depend on others.  They care not how they breaks another, they will never be broken over the loss.  The cheater is happy cheating.  They don't require any happiness from the person being cheated on.  When they loss you, they are not affected.

While I thought this person's thinking was like...as a job, a task, a goal...not as a talent, a gift, an idea. Your application of it is a materialistic value concept...not as a concept in value with aesthetics, appreciation, gifting onto others.

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In my line of work, when we agreed to complete a certain task we said we take ownership of it and will be held accountable for it. Its the same thing with love and happiness

We've all heard the advice of treating marriage as a business transaction.  This person epitomized that concept.  When a business transaction fails, it's over and done with.

If we are trophies in our own right and we remain trophies.  This person was a trophy that never lost it's luster when tossed aside.  I was a trophy that got tarnished when tossed aside.  I needed to be polished in order to shine again.  I am that kind of trophy.

I know the above scope so far was limited to the area of marital relationship or applicable in the dating relationship.  It's also for those of an adult relationship between parent and offspring.  Now from a parent to a child, it would be disastrous in result.  You tell a child to tough up...You're responsible for your own happiness and love.  You don't need if from your parent.  Does it sound familiar?  The tough love that many Hmong parents have shown their offsrpings growing up.  If forces a child to become an adult a lot sooner.  I was that adult at before age of 12.

Will I apply this to myself.  Of course as I am not sure about it.  I will show my children that concept of love that is value with aesthetics, appreciation, gifting onto others.  The beauty of life that comes with it.  That tough love from my parents didn't work on me.  They receive that exact same tough love right back.  I don't want to part of that with my children.  My children will have both types of love to learn.  While they're children the beauty and gifts.  While they're adults the tough love of self responsibility .  No I will never treat my children as business transactions.

For my next love.  No I will not treat you like a business transaction either.  That is now how I do things although I will have to make that evaluation as part of relationship.  I will still have my concept of love and relationship development faulted to myself.  I believe I create my happiness as thus I can be easily influence to have it become diminutive by others. If I gift it to others, I am giving away something with feeling and soul. Thus I am exposing my own vulnerabilitie s to others to be easily taken advantage of.  That is who I am.  That is why as the trophy that I am, if you can polish me some, I will show you how much brighter I can be.

Always learning...

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