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The Single & Dating Scenes / My game structured
« on: July 27, 2019, 08:44:54 AM »
Here I put together all my game structured list. These have help me get tons of laid.

1.Banter through opening

I have an example I use majority of the time. Gets me a lot of compliance. I won’t use it here, but I’ll give you guys a general idea how work.

They are canned openers and it worked really well for me. You can't force every girl you match to reply to you so I don't waste my time trying to send unique messages to every girl. I stick with a proven structure that has worked for me.

So let’s say you throw an opener and she respond (she’s buying into your frame) or she qualifies herself. Then you must reward her for compliance. If she’s totally not accepting the frame/comply with the frame, you need to stack again. Stacking is when you move forward in the interaction. Use cold reads.

Eventually you’ll get somewhere in the interaction where she asks you “wyd” or “how’s your day going” etc. feel free to exaggerate and make it something that perceive of high value. And make it something that will move forward in the interaction.

2. Use push-pull

Ex. “I like your style but idk if you’re adventurous enough for me”

She will try to qualify herself/buy into your frame, if she does, reward her. If she doesn’t comply, you need to stack again until she’s hook.

Push-pull only work after she sees you have some value.

3. Screening

This is where I tell the girl “what are you looking for.” I screen to cut off “time wasters”. Time wasters is a big category. These are girls who has no intention of meeting up with you. They are on online just to seek validation. They will give you a one word response throughout the conversation , no investing, etc.

If you tries to set a date but she flake the third time she’s a time waster.

4. Frame control

Don’t let the girl dictates her frame. You lose when you buy into her frame/when you qualify yourself.

Ex. She say “I will tell you about it someday”, instead of given up your frame, you say “don’t be shy” keeps the frame going.

5. Flaking

Ex. “ if you’re too nervous I totally understand” this one has work for me. I have cases where girls flake on meetup but I say that, and they respond back to rescheduled. It’s common. I would call her out but I do it in a subtle way without getting butt hurt. The best way to deal with this is don’t act over eagerly and showing any neediness. The frame is that I’m a guy with an abundance and I don’t really care, but I was looking forward to seeing her.

This is how I handle it.

Ex. “No worries, but next time I might have to spank you a little bit”

You see, everything is displaying playfulness and fun.

There’s 3 scenarios that will happen if the chick rescheduled on you.

1. She will stick to the original plan. This is not the norm but can still happen.

2. She will suggest an alternative/something else. This is the likely scenario that will happen. The girl will apologize for the rescheduled and suggest something else, especially after she sees that you’re not mad and not non needy.

3. No reschedule due to issue (sick or on her pms) I get the pms thing a lot 😂 😂😂 it could be a shit test or real but I play it cool. I’m not mad yet, but will keep being persistent because I still want to see her. I’ll text her later and will try to set up a date again.

Be cool and be persistent. The idea here is don’t let her behavior affect you. Persist just enough to stay in her radar and don’t delete her number because who knows, she might hit you back down the line when she’s horny. Once you bang her the power dynamic will shift and the second meetup will be much easier.

The key is don’t be needy. You can still persist hard and not lose your value, but the moment you act needy it’s usually over.

Game has a lot to do with behavior.  Don’t place her as your priority , keep her in your rotation until she gets back at you.

Sometimes they just don’t hit you back anymore. But the rule here is never text 3 times in a row. You try to match her texting. If she reply 1 minute, you reply in 1 minute. If she waits an hr, text her back in an hr. Gauge her interest level and how long she take to reply back. That will tell you how much she’s into you.

4. You need to sexualize.

Tease her, joke with her and always sexualize the conversation.

Ex. “I’m going to rip your clothes off and push you back against the wall”, “ I want to slap your ass, pull your hair, choke you, give you multiple screaming orgasm” things like that. Dominate frame.

If she is not responsive/not buying inyour frame means she don’t see you as high value yet.

5. Closing.

There is soft close and hard close. I always soft close first before going for the hard close.

Soft close is when I get her to agree to the idea of hanging out.

Ex. “We should get together soon and do xyz”

If she say “yes”, then I go for the hard close.

Ex. “Cool. What’s your schedule like”’ or “ you free for drinks on time and place”

The point of hard closing is that you use it only when you know the girl is fully invested and doesn’t flake. That’s why I throw tons of soft close to make it vague first. Subtle hint. Most of my dates are through soft closing and sexualizing.

More examples of soft closing.

“You like wine? I’m sure I can handle 2 drinks on our romantic date”

“I’m not worry about charming you on our romantic date”

Subtle hint.

Hard close examples.

“When are you free for drinks”

“What’s your schedule like for this week”

Things like that.

I’ll continue on the “Misc” on a new post.

The Single & Dating Scenes / My gift to you
« on: July 24, 2019, 06:31:31 PM »
Babe and I are finally official. She gave me permission to upload. Will delete in a few hrs. Enjoy!

The Single & Dating Scenes / Another Black Pill Truth Bomb 💣
« on: July 21, 2019, 09:49:16 PM »
If a woman rejected you it’s either because she’s not available or you don’t fit her preferences (your looks.)

Your looks are usually the number one factor in online/offline dating.

With that being said though, I don’t fully agree with Black Piller that you should give up.

Giving up is what losers do. Instead if you find yourself lacking in the look department, you have to find some other ways to compensate for them.

If you’re average in height you can add an extra 1-1.5 inches to your height. You need to exaggerate it by an inch. If you’re 5’5 and you say you are 5’5, the girl might think you are 5’3. The guy who gets away vs the guy who gets horrified stares on date is depend on how much he lie. No girl will fault you for lying an inch or two but 6 ft. is a different story.

If you’re average height is 5’5, you become 5’7.

If you are below average in height you can buy inserts for $50 to increase your height by 2 in. I wouldn’t bother with this route unless I’m really short. But the choice is yours.

Fashion. Dress well. Get a nice stylish haircut. Go to the gym. Build some muscle. Buy some accessories like a watch or  necklace. All of these things increases your smv.

If you’re fat or overweight, no amount of game will help you. Hit the gym and lose some weight first.

I called this the compensation theory. You can compensate it with fashion, money, status and other things.

Here’s where your game really matter. Game can be leverage IF you’ve met these prerequisites.

1. You’re a high 7. It doesn’t matter if you’re white or Asian, as long as you’re a 7.

Ex. We compare two Asians. One Asian can look like he can pass for a Chad or a Caucasian while the other Asian is not so much. He’s more skinnier and lankier. So it doesn’t matter if you’re Asian as long as you’re a 7, you could leverage game.

2. Your height needs to at least 5’10. That’s the minimum height you need to be for women not to used height against you. And I’m not talking about Hmong girls. I’m talking attractive hot white women.

3. Race won’t matter if you’re the top 15% of your race. If it’s a white guy, he gets auto compliance because race won’t be used against him from majority of women.

So for example, for race not to matter, you need to look better than the vast majority of other Asian guys out there.

Example are Squattin Cassanova, Jeremy Long and Kevin Kreider. Kevin is the Asian Chad but even he still got rejected. Imagine what happen to the average Asian male.

4. You need to get below 15% body fat and have good form (facial aesthetics etc)

If you pass all these prerequisites then you can leverage game.

If not, you will need game to compensate and with that, you have to play numbers game. Chances are you will settle for your equally looksmatched or below. You won’t be able to replicate it. You might get say 30 numbers and score 1 date, but it’s gonna take you another 6 months to a year before you score another date. YOU CANT REPLICATE YOUR RESULTS.

So you need the compensation theory to compensate for lack of looks.

The Single & Dating Scenes / My tinder date matched
« on: July 20, 2019, 08:32:37 AM »
Case closed 😂

The Single & Dating Scenes / Black pill 💊
« on: July 13, 2019, 11:25:59 AM »
Getting women is no different than marketing.

The psychology that applies to marketing also applies to dating.

For example, in marketing you need to make sure you have the most highest converting product before you showcase to the audience. A bad product has less to ZERO conversion.

In dating, a good looking guy have the better product. All he needs to do is learn how to game, and that will amplify his hit rate and attraction. He gets results.

An ugly guy have an inferior product. So it doesn’t matter how much game he runs on women, he have to play the numbers game until he gets 1 or 2 sales conversion (or in this case, he gets laid.) or even ZERO.

You can have good marketing and reach 1 million people if your product sucks, but if someone else have a better product and they only reached 500 audience, the better product wins.

In reality of dating, good looking guys have it better.

That’s Black pill for y’all.

The Single & Dating Scenes / Xxxxx
« on: July 07, 2019, 07:52:04 AM »

The Single & Dating Scenes / Don’t be yourself
« on: July 06, 2019, 10:08:59 PM »
Hi, how are you? It’s a boring question I know haha. But some guys overthink this.

A simple basic line such as “how are you?” usually does not work in online dating. It’s boring.

But when a girl ask me that question... i make it sound fun like im out with friends doing something or on an adventure or something exciting even if I’m just sitting home.

That’s the best thing to do. Never tell a girl you’re doing nothing. Make it sound like your out having fun with friends, eating or drinking something, at the beach, at an event, etc so she thinks your extremely sociable even if your just watching TV.

The Single & Dating Scenes / My text game guidelines
« on: June 23, 2019, 09:52:34 AM »
Are you guys having trouble texting women?

Having problems taking them out on a date?

Ask me questions I’ll help you out. I’ve been testing my text game for the past several months now, and I’ve  been getting some pretty good results.

Let me break it down how I run my text game.

The common mistakes most guys make is they text her too much. I called this over investing.

You’re investing in her more than she is in you.

There’s 3 ways you could over invest:

1. Is by length: you are texting more words than her.

Ex. You write a whole paragraph and she’s only giving you a one word response.

2. Is the timing: she takes longer to reply than you are.

3. Is initiating: You’re always the one to initiate the text out of the blue and not the other way around.

In general, I keep my investment level the same as her or in my favor. This means I text her less, waiting longer than her, and have her initiate more.

These arent hard and fast rules, just a flexible guidelines I go by.

When I look at someone’s text messages, I don’t look at the overall content first. All I look at is the time stamps and the length of the message each side type.

Another mistake most guys including myself make, is I used to ask too many questions about the girl. When you require a reply too often it makes you needy, and it makes the girl uncomfortable and more likely not to respond.

I’m up one on game now. So if you guys need help don’t be afraid to ask questions. I will tell you where you’re likely went wrong and duck up.

The Single & Dating Scenes / Learn my structure on how to game
« on: June 16, 2019, 11:04:14 AM »
How do you guys approach women?

As a student of pickups I just wanna share my structure on how I do it.

First, I go in with a frame.

Ex. I am a high value guy, or I am the prize.

When you go into an interaction with a girl, she also has her frame.

You get the girl when the girl falls into your frame. You control the conversation. I.e the girl falls into your reality.

Say you approach her or sends her a text message.

You think she’s cute and want to get to know her and have a night stand.

She thinks "ohh just another guy.”

Only one frame can win.

Understand frame control is vital. Once you have this first part down the second step is to approach her using Cold Reads. A cold read is you making a guess or statement about the girl and the situation without asking her directly.

Ex. “You don’t look like you’re from around here. I can tell by your accent/way you look etc. lemme guess... you’re from x?

That’s better than saying “where are you from?”

In online dating, I use this method a lot.

If she don’t respond, I stack again.

What is stacking? Stacking is moving forward in the conversation.

Throw another cold read. Ex. “You seem like...”

She should hook by the second time if your cold read is on point. Don’t worry if you get it wrong. Most likely she’ll think to herself “why did he think that about me?” and makes her curious.

If she don’t respond by the third time, I ask her question “is it true?”

She should hook by now. If she still not hook, but she is still reading your message and not making any emotional investment, this means you haven’t demonstrated high value enough. We called it dhv (demonstrate high value) you have to dhv her from the opener until the number close everything that you say has to be dhv stories if you want to see her on a date.

After she’s hook, you can qualify. I will never qualify if she isn’t hook.

What is a hook? Hooking is when you open a girl and she reciprocate to your opener other than walking away/ghosting you like she continues to talk to you. She is moving the conversation. I don’t waste time with women that doesn’t move the convo, especially if she’s giving me just one or two words reply. If she’s interested she should put her weight in as well.

I’ll explain what qualification is next and how to qualify the girl.

Btw. When you cold read her make sure you stay on the topic so you don’t rambling around.

DONT double text if she doesn’t reply. Guys who don’t have a solid game does this every time (aka Needy) and that’s why they lose the girl.

I’m on mobile browser so typing isn’t that good will have do some editing back and forth.

Stay tune I will show you WHEN to qualify and why.

Edit: my mistake. It’s disqualificati on/disqualify and she’s the one that need to qualify;)

As a guy you never want to qualify because you’ll fall into her frame.

The Single & Dating Scenes / Learn from the best
« on: June 01, 2019, 06:09:17 PM »
Wine down with my boo 🍷

Beauty & Fashion / Gotta stay warm
« on: November 22, 2018, 10:06:24 AM »
Bape hoodie

Beauty & Fashion / Show us your sneakers!
« on: November 20, 2018, 11:38:25 PM »

Hmong Culture & History / General Vang Pao
« on: May 11, 2016, 04:37:22 PM »
Watch this video. Those who understand the history will appreciate.

Faith & Beliefs / Neanderthal
« on: April 16, 2016, 12:28:30 AM »
Did you know that we are closer related to Neanderthal than chimps? The variance between us and Neanderthals is only .3% or 99.7% the same.

Take each person for example, we are unique, yet we only differ .4% between unrelated humans. That's 99.6% the same.

If you were to live to be 500 years old or older, that would explain why the body continues to change as you age, more specifically, your forehead & jaw bone would protrude more. Maybe some neanderthal were really just very OLD humans, who died out after the Flood when life span has shortened significantly. They are just humans who lived for hundreds of years with a slower maturation/aging rate.  Scientists have proved this. They find evidence of the Neanderthals buried their own kind and interbreed and also make tools.

So why does scientists still consider the Neanderthal as different species?

You know, the Neanderthal are great evidence for Creationist. O0

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