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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: My daily support...If you want to complain.
« on: August 04, 2020, 01:24:51 PM »
Note to self:

The biggest rule in relationship is self awareness. You see there is a dichotomy of a pros and cons in everything we do and how we behave. They say that we get back what we project. They say that we receive what we've given. We all know that isn't always the case because even the energy we create, we didn't do so of our own accord. Energy is neither created nor destroyed. It's is borrowed and channel into something, then changed and released out as something else. In that' concept we may have appeared to created something out of nothing, but we also need something to feed that creation.

If you're mad at someone, maybe sometimes it's something else that one is mad at, but this person just happened to be there with one more thing on top of your plate that tips the balance. One can be extremely mad, but the presence of that someone may tip the balance in the opposite direction and calms one and calls back sanity and peace. This is sometimes what people call emotional intelligence. Knowing how to act and react, behave, and allow the right emotions to manifest. Yes, sometimes love can be harsh, but love is also comforting. It's how we can incite or insight the correct emotional response. If we poke and prod, we will incite anger and rapid response. If we carefully compliment and comfort, we will insight favor and empathetic responses.

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When arranged marriages have been poorly arranged for other reasons beyond...and the culture that sprouts forth in a non ethical way.

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If it were just genes then probably the ex's side are parasitic.  Now since there's children...wou ld that imply that they have inherited those parasitic genes?  We're doomed then.

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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: My daily support...If you want to complain.
« on: August 02, 2020, 10:10:33 AM »
One day, you will have to discover that you will have the greatest love for yourself.  Let that day be today.

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Poetic Souls / Re: Grace and Salvation
« on: August 01, 2020, 08:40:14 AM »
We live a life, meager but with providence
We live a life, surviving through violence
We are damaged, not entirely broken down
We are damaged, no one is given a crown

For when the moment came,
It came like the torrential rain.
For when the time arrived,
It brought the hurt and pain.

After all the dust has settled
After all the tears have dried
Love comes with all, then some
Love come, yes come and you're welcome.


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Health & Fitness / Re: Body Sculpting
« on: August 01, 2020, 07:50:21 AM »
It's been like nearly a year afterwards.  I will say, my legs are getting more chicken legs.

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Online Journal / Re: Fighting For My Life
« on: August 01, 2020, 07:41:51 AM »
Why is it that it never fails me on the level of disrespect that people have.?

So often, when I think about how hurt someone is and how much love and healing they need.  Just then on the very next moment, they're insulting someone with such convictions as if the target of attack was somehow at fault.  What then if I suddenly become their next target by simply being in the wrong place at the wrong time?

There is a partial reason why I am introverted dominant and that makes up a huge part of my personality.  In actuality my personality is enforced upon me, by my experiences through interactions of others.  In suspecting someone of being pretentious, it is not that they're hiding something but it's that they're trying to make an influential impression upon those around them.  Like any pecking order, it makes an establishment where, one gets their daily ego and reassures themselves in their place in society.

What I wonder and ponder most over is...Why the need to insult or disrespect others?  Basically why pick fights with other people?


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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: My daily support...If you want to complain.
« on: July 28, 2020, 06:08:30 AM »
They say.  If you can love the wrong person that much, imagine how much you can love the right person.

It's only an imagination for those that have not experience love in it's purest form.  It's a reality for those who knows love from it's purest form.  For love, doesn't know right from wrong.  Loving you was never wrong.  It just wasn't enough from when it sprout forth.  The only thing wrong was it was neglected and left to wither away.  The only right thing to do about love is nurturing it.  It's not an imagination, it is a real heartfelt thing.  It's just from someone who is with kindness and compassion.

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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: My daily support...If you want to complain.
« on: July 25, 2020, 11:10:51 AM »
It is easily mistaken to believe that time can heal.
The hands of time itself is not able to collect the pieces of a broken heart no matter how much time passes. It requires the growth of love and the cradle of compassion, whose arms caresses and mends. Wisdom is understanding and accepting the work of the latter which rides on time.

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What do your parents eat? How come they give birth to such beautiful you? :2funny: :2funny:

Isn't that common from the older generations?

The OG's pick up line.  ;D

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I have seen too many whiners in this game.   :idiot2:

Sounds like Hmong people still whining about certain rules.  :2funny:

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Hmong Sports / Re: Bodybuilding
« on: July 20, 2020, 05:59:52 AM »
Every body is different in some respect yet nutrition and basics of body building muscles follows two things in respect.  You have to think about muscles in terms of the two major types of muscles.  One is the fast twitch muscles and the other one is the slow twitch muscles.  Body building for size should be one of focus on the slow twitch muscles for bulk.  Still one should also work on fast twitch muscles because those the the ones that supplements when the slow twitch muscles are tired or under strain.

Anyways to get a body build that will actually sustain and last, it is about a 5 year plan.  In short term, you will probably see the fastest muscle response in the first month of body building.  You should see a plateau effect in about two to three months.  It will then be a slow growth about 4 to 5 months and another plateau effect at about the 6th month of a training regiment.  There is a cycle of growth response and plateau effect.  If it's a training regiment of continuous growth. 

If you heard of the term, dirty bulking and don't ever follow that path, you should be able to maintain good body growth without getting fat.

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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: My daily support...If you want to complain.
« on: July 17, 2020, 02:22:19 PM »
Wisdom comes from making mistakes and learning from it to not repeat it. Foolishness comes from making mistakes and learning from it, yet repeating it. It's a wonder, one cannot be wise all the time, nor foolish all the time either. That's what makes one unique as a person.

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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: My daily support...If you want to complain.
« on: July 17, 2020, 01:57:10 PM »
Know the difference between a discussion and a debate, understand the difference between wisdom and foolishness, the concept of being open minded and just opinions, and most of all conflicts and resolutions.

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Hello (Random Girl Name), did you receive the memo today?

Just to remind, you are to meet at (__________) and it's work paid approved. Tell them you are looking for table (________) at 6pm. 😍😍😍 Let's exchange numbers in case you get lost.

 :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: O0

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