If you are like a hmoobrock then this message is not for you but.....
we all have our lifestyles and we have worked hard to build it, whether it is a good job, a good gf/wife/bf/husband, raise a family, have good friends, have good toys, have a good quality of life.
All of that can be taken away from you in one dumb move, whether you make a mistake by drunk driving and killing someone or you hurt someone by accident or if you were set up by someone and you got caught or whatever the case, your lifestyle and all that you worked hard for is taken away from you.
Don't be like this guy
Man sentenced to probation in US Capitol attack after revealing he lost his job and now delivers pizza
https://www.cnn.com/2022/02/15/politics/mcalanis-capitol-riot/index.html