HOSPICE/NURSING HOME/ASSISTANT LIVING….. for the elder OG hmong

[hmgROCK]

Lets talk… a friend of mine story

Its hard man
As much as you love your parents
And want them to be with you

It is really embarrassing..
… to wash and clean their private part as a family member

I don’t hate hmong kids who go the assistance route
We are not PRO NURSE and caretaker

[Reporter]

Hospice is family operation, Rock.

[hmgROCK]

Hospice is family operation, Rock.

we all know that's not how it work in hmong family
usually it's the younger brother and his wife family

than every one fight for insurance money when the parent die
even though they don't take care of the parent

 

taking care of your eldery parent is hard
my friend does paper work to take care of his parent
and that's all he does, his job

it shyt money
and he give up his career and etc... 

 

[Reporter]

Hospice does go to the youngest child's family. But hospice is not for
just the elderlys; anyone who isn't going to make it anymore also.

Can't blame them if they can't cure that person though.

[lexicon]

As long as the deed to the house is still in their name 

[hmgROCK]

when they are handicapped
and wheelchair bound
can't get up to go pee and poop
and take a shower

it's  hard man
alot of us are not NURSE or caretaker

[Hung_Low]

Lets talk… a friend of mine story

Its hard man
As much as you love your parents
And want them to be with you

It is really embarrassing..
… to wash and clean their private part as a family member

I don’t hate hmong kids who go the assistance route
We are not PRO NURSE and caretaker

Maybe your parents should think the same when you were born or growing up...

[hmgROCK]

Maybe your parents should think the same when you were born or growing up...

My wife is a registered nurse
She tells me taking care of kids poop > old peoples poop

 

Thats all you need to know

[lexicon]

Sell her house and use the money to put her in a nice nursing home.

You would never kick her out and keep her house would you 

[theking]

That's how it is when it comes to idiots that just abuse and leech off the elderly folks that own the basement they live in..inconsider ate, ungrateful and selfish to say the least. 

[hmgROCK]

Sell her house and use the money to put her in a nice nursing home.

You would never kick her out and keep her house would you 

What my buddy told me
He gets money from the states to take care of his elderly parents
They are low income or something

If he don’t want to take care
Than the money will go to someone who will
Like a nursing home or other caretaker

So no need to sell the house