A HMONG LESBIAN STORY: lend me your ears

[hmgROCK]

Happen in the 90s and true story

Auntie from California says there was  two hmong lesbian girls
They really like each other
But both their parents don’t approve of the relationship
Two girls can’t be together
The hate was really strong
“You ain’t my daughter no more” kinda of thing

They both decided to commit suicide by drowning at the lake
At least they will be together in the afterlife
Both families lost their daughter because they can’t accept they were lesbian

BE KIND YO
don’t hate these TRANS and gay people especially in todays environments

[Reporter]

Back in the 90s, California had over 10 cases of young Hmong couples taking tshuaj ntsuav nyiaj because no elder could be convinced to let their children marry other children of the same sex.

Personally, I was told by a girl who had a sister that was cohabiting with the sister's girlfriend for 8 years. Their parents didn't quite approve of that relationship, so no one married them until the sister's mother finally slaughtered a pig to bind their marriage in the Hmong way.

It's not hate; it's discomfort in adjusting to the new way of life that never existed in the Hmong culture before--that's what has made many Hmong elders reluctant and timid in going through the marriage ceremony with such couples.

Same goes for the same-clan marriages.

[hmgROCK]

Back in the 90s, California had over 10 cases of young Hmong couples taking tshuaj ntsuav nyiaj because no elder could be convinced to let their children marry other children of the same sex.

Personally, I was told by a girl who had a sister that was cohabiting with the sister's girlfriend for 8 years. Their parents didn't quite approve of that relationship, so no one married them until the sister's mother finally slaughtered a pig to bind their marriage in the Hmong way.

It's not hate; it's discomfort in adjusting to the new way of life that never existed in the Hmong culture before--that's what has made many Hmong elders reluctant and timid in going through the marriage ceremony with such couples.

Same goes for the same-clan marriages.

There was a hmong american guy who married a laos guy on Facebook recently
Both are gay
Many disapproved
But what to do???

Its better to be acceptance 
than watching them kill themselves

No parents want to lose their kids

[Reporter]

Would you let your son marry a guy?

[hmgROCK]

Would you let your son marry a guy?

my old hag don't want kids
too busy with her career at the moment

i just accept it
more freedom for me

 

[Reporter]

Would you let your niam yau's son marry a guy, if it gets to that?

[hmgROCK]

Would you let your niam yau's son marry a guy, if it gets to that?

yeah

it's better than chopping meat at their funeral
cuz they killed themself becuz they can't be together

[YAX]

Happen in the 90s and true story

Auntie from California says there was  two hmong lesbian girls
They really like each other
But both their parents don’t approve of the relationship
Two girls can’t be together
The hate was really strong
“You ain’t my daughter no more” kinda of thing

They both decided to commit suicide by drowning at the lake
At least they will be together in the afterlife
Both families lost their daughter because they can’t accept they were lesbian

BE KIND YO
don’t hate these TRANS and gay people especially in todays environments

and to this day, people go to that lake an

[DuMa]

I'm going to a hmong wedding next week.  First cousins marrying one another

The girl has eyes for dude ever since she  were born.  Plus, there are families functioning so they get to see one another quite often. 

Taboo?  I wouldn't know.  Free party

[hmgROCK]

I'm going to a hmong wedding next week.  First cousins marrying one another

The girl has eyes for dude ever since she  were born.  Plus, there are families functioning so they get to see one another quite often. 

Taboo?  I wouldn't know.  Free party

Going get those harold and kuma cyclops looking babies