Being invited to a Hmong party

[Cali Guy]

The only time I will show uninvited is funeral, anything else, invitation is needed. In your case, if it was me, I definitely will not attend.

[YAX]

Sadly there are still those that have the mindset of, "I'm the head of the household so if they don't invite me directly, I'm not going ...and I will not allow my family members to go either"...

There are probably those rude people who crash parties they weren't invited to also. I'm thinking of one right now.

[tRouBLe]

If a family member informed you then you should go, if you don’t already have plans.

I wouldn’t take it personally if the cousin didn’t say anything at that point in time, because I don’t know what the cousin was thinking....

[theking]

There are probably those rude people who crash parties they weren't invited to also. I'm thinking of one right now.

Yes, there are which is why I will attend when invited (directly or not)...Can't be big headed and assumed things after my sibling already assured me that "everyone's invited"...And nope, don't care if the sibling that informed me is a "sister" or a "brother"...I know some "rude" anal "people" like that and can think of one right now...

[theking]

If a family member informed you then you should go, if you don’t already have plans.

I wouldn’t take it personally if the cousin didn’t say anything at that point in time, because I don’t know what the cousin was thinking....

Once another family informed me and said "everyone's invited", it's all good...I don't have to be invited directly or the person informing me doesn't have to be a brother.

And yep, can't just assumed bad intentions why the "cousin" didn't mention it ...

[Mr_Mechanic]

depending on the occasion.