I think girls are willing to participate in dating sites more than men or boys. Nowaday, the guys have no guts whatsoever to approach girls and talk to them, kind of hard for the girls, if they're the girly girl type that still think the guys should do the honor of approaching or courting them.
It is not always the guys fault. If a girl gives off a shady vibe most guys won't approach her plain and simple..
Or let say you where at a party and you completely diss a guy you don't like, the guy who do you like at the party will see that and might label you as the shady chick. And who know, sometimes the guy you diss and the guy you like might even be friends, brothers, relatives so bad word of mouth will pass down one guy to another.. Having one guy labeling shady is bad enough but a group of guys thinking you are shady is far worst. So women take note be friendly to everybody because you are just hurting yourself in the long run!..