Stalker in town

[VillainousHero]

I guess she's the Hmong Barbarella...

She will never give up...

[Reporter]

I talked to a Hmong police officer about this. He said there are some in the community like that. Right, they don't give up. One old divorced lady, for example, demanded to marry a young married guy whom she met only once at a southern Minnesota new year vendor booth.

I guess she's the Hmong Barbarella...

She will never give up...

[Reporter]

10.27.15. One call and three messages came to my phone again this morning.

I think it's time I take this more seriously and get a restraining order for this woman to back her out. I don't have to live with the fear that someone might harm me or is watching over me from a distance or that she could pop up any time. My friends shouldn't have to be afraid to be with me or they shouldn't be thinking I'm in touch with this unreasonable person.

[Reporter]

10.29.15. More messages and even picture messages flooded my cell phone again in the last two days, especially earlier this morning. I'm not peeking into them.

Again, it is time to take this professionally by giving her one text message warning to stop the harassments or face the restraining order.

This is not that I don't respect her. It's just that she hasn't respected me and I've had enough harassments without my cause in any way.

[tRouBLe]

Wow, she's persistent.  Her mottos must be: 

If at first you don't succeed.....tr y, try, try again.

OR

I don't get worn down, I wear them down.

    

[Reporter]

I think she's just mentally unstable. lol

This is not something she'll succeed in by trying over and over though.

Wow, she's persistent.  Her mottos must be: 

If at first you don't succeed.....tr y, try, try again.

OR

I don't get worn down, I wear them down.

    

[Hamster_Hero]

October 12, 2015--Eau Claire, WI:  Eau Claire is strange to me, but I feel safer here than back in St. Paul where I grew up in.

Lately, a stalker from another state has come to town and wanted to meet up with me for romantic indulgences. She has expressed her dying love for me. But we have never met before. She  has seen my picture only on Facebook, and has not stopped to think that I might be photoshopping it or that I my have glossified it to appeal beyond my natural look.  She said she is absolutely sure that I am her soul mate and that she was going to give me all her love and sacrifices and life.

The woman claimed in her messages that she has come to town on business matters and that she's very busy and cherished by so many and that she didn't have any time for me, even though I have not asked for her time or to meet up with her. But she stopped by my office to drop off a note and a bouquet of flowers last week when I was not in.

She didn't get to meet me. So, she stated in her new message that she was leaving St. Paul but that her friends didn't want her to leave, so she had to stay a few more weeks. Then another message followed that: she said she has left town two days ago and she was wondering why I had left my office so dark.

But last night a local friend called up a girl I knew and said someone from another state has been showing my picture around and asking if they knew who I was and that she claimed she has slept with me but then also said she has never met me before. "She's a very vicious lady," the friend said to the girl I knew. "We are not telling her about him. It's all trouble, and we don't want him involved with her."

I'll be in Eau Claire for another week to make sure she can't find me in my office.

I'm sure a few guys in here would love to have her number.   

[tRouBLe]

I think she's just mentally unstable. lol

This is not something she'll succeed in by trying over and over though.

Mental instability can be frightening since you don't know what that individual is capable of doing and their unpredictable behavior.  IF she is that way, just be cautious...... but I'm sure you're already aware of all this since you're in the legal profession and you've dealt with people like this.

[Reporter]

If I didn't respect her confidentialit y, I would have just given it out so you guys could terrorize and harass or court her to your likings. But, despite her illwill, I still respect her confidentialit y.

I'm sure a few guys in here would love to have her number.   

[Reporter]

Right. Thank you for the advice. I have been careful about this and I have dealt with this very cautiously. I have seen things like this before. She isn't anything new. That's partly why I don't think her claim of love is genuine! lol

Sources say she claims she will soon be able to fly because she's so  powerful. They have also said she would refuse to honor their requests for things; she insists that she would not honor their requests unless I see her in person.

Mental instability can be frightening since you don't know what that individual is capable of doing and their unpredictable behavior.  IF she is that way, just be cautious...... but I'm sure you're already aware of all this since you're in the legal profession and you've dealt with people like this.

[Reporter]

11.03.15 A private anonymous source called in this morning and said the stalker has been in town all this time and still in town at this time.

[Reporter]

I have started protecting myself and not just hiding. I've alerted my office building manager and some colleagues about this stalker. Anyone asking for me will be questioned and I will be secretly notified first to see if they should point the person my way. If she becomes a threat, they'll get security involved.

[tRouBLe]

Maybe she secretly works for a collection agency.....I've heard they can be persistent as well.      

[Reporter]

Collection agents will go away if you write them a letter to tell them to back off. It must be in writing, not just orally over the phone.

But I understand the persistence you are referring to.  True, they wouldn't give up and they don't take rejections personally.

But she's no collection agent. She probably lets her own feelings drive her instead of reasons and laws.  I have no induced her, and yet she insists that I can't live without her when that's not true. I'm not even seeking her out. I'm not even interested in getting any more text, call or picture message from her. Is she too proud of herself?

Her actions are very disrespectful.  Earlier today (11.10.15), the anonymous source informed me that the stalker plans to be in town through "Thanksgiving" new year and thinks that she can win me from any other girl I may be dating since I'm not married yet.

I understand persistence does succeed in many endeavors. But this case seems to be her temerity rather than a try, try-again-until-succeeding kind of thing. She isn't going to succeed here.

I have fought a case similar to this for a client before, and I know what type of person she seems to be. A new arrival from Thamkrabok with the old-fashioned mentality of chasing a man for a husband...even to be a second or third wife. 

If ultimately the restraining order has to be issued, she could be sent to seminars for rehab programs.

 

Maybe she secretly works for a collection agency.....I've heard they can be persistent as well.      

[Hamster_Hero]

I think Reporter dude is secretly liking the attention,  hahahaha.

But you know, having a stalker isn't as fun as guys would like to think it is.  I've been stalked before, that was quite the experience.