Oh I get it. Scare to date as in married or have someone but scared to go on a date with others. You mean cheating and creeping.
Yes I'm scared of that. You be all paranoid by constantly watching your back and don't get me started by holding hands in public. I kid you not, she tried to bust that move on me and instinct like a Kung Fu fighter, I twitched right away. She said she can't figure me out. To my defense, I give the public no evidence that I'm creeping.
When you are not thirsty, you can go on dates with confidence. If the dates bomb, who cares, you still have your wife or gf to get some booty from.